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    Sad Telling your regular dancer goodbye....

    What is the most diplomatic way of telling your regular dancer you don't want her anymore? I have been with her for a relatively long time but the magic is gone......and I found another that is more compatible AND DOES NOT SMOKE!

    In other words telling her ......"VAYA CON DIOS!".........
    It's TOO BAD SHE'LL won't LAST, BUT then again WHO DOES!?

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    Ask her on a date heh heh heh...

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    Default Re: Telling your regular dancer goodbye....

    Like taking her to a expensive Italian restaurant?


    Its a good idea! Maybe she'll never show up......
    It's TOO BAD SHE'LL won't LAST, BUT then again WHO DOES!?

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    I think Deo was referring to reverse psychology.Dancers hate getting asked out on dates,so if you ask her this,she may leave you alone after.
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    Yea, tell her you love her. She will be carrying her shoes in her hands to run away from you!

    Expensive restaraunt - blah - Sizzlers man! Sizzlers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deogol
    Yea, tell her you love her. She will be carrying her shoes in her hands to run away from you!
    I love reading your posts,Deo,LOL!!!
    One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.

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    Tell her to give you a couple free dances.

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    ...poriland4 needs to hear from some SW dancers how they felt when one of their regs said they were not wanted/desired anymore. I doubt most dancers care too much so no explanation needs to be made, in my opnion.
    "Peter, did you take Stewie to a strip-club? He smells like sweat and fear." - Lois and Stewie (Family Guy) ... "Through early morning fog I see, Visions of the things to be, The pains that are withheld for me, I realize and I can see..."

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    I've been dumped before with no explanation, it sucks...you see "Bob" come in, you are relieved thinking he will be spending on you, you stop whatever you're doing to go say hi, but he's kinda cold to you,"are you ready to be seduced" Bob turns you down. It's a bit awkward and confusing. You think did I do something wrong, does he not have $$ today, then you see him with "Susie". WTF. Then it hit me, oh yeah she does extras. Mystery solved.

    It would have been nice if he'd just told me "hey you know I really like you, you're a sweet gal but right now I've got the hots for Susie." That way when I see him come in next time I know not to expect anything.

    So IMO keep it short and sweet, be honest, maybe hand her a tip after the talk. Good luck.

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    Default Re: Telling your regular dancer goodbye....

    Quote Originally Posted by poriland4
    What is the most diplomatic way of telling your regular dancer you don't want her anymore? I have been with her for a relatively long time but the magic is gone......and I found another that is more compatible AND DOES NOT SMOKE!

    In other words telling her ......"VAYA CON DIOS!".........
    Just casually mention you have contracted leprosy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lyssa Lynn
    ...you see "Bob" come in, you are relieved thinking he will be spending on you, you stop whatever you're doing to go say hi, but he's kinda cold to you,"are you ready to be seduced" Bob turns you down. It's a bit awkward and confusing. You think did I do something wrong, does he not have $$ today,
    That's fun to do...I see the ATF, she asks me to buy a dance, I usually buy 5 or 6 in a row @ $35 each, this time I stop her after one dance, she's confused and asks are you sure you only want one dance, I say yes, pull out my wad of cash, peel off a c-note, hand it to her, wait for change, don't tip, go home, come back in a week, she apologizes profusely this time for whatever she did that bothered me last week, of course I say nothing, I shrug it off, but I am laughing hard inside.

    I am mischievious sometimes [hope i got that spelled correctly]


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    Quote Originally Posted by kikin
    the ATF, she asks me to buy a dance, I usually buy 5 or 6 in a row @ $35 each, this time I stop her after one dance, she's confused and asks are you sure you only want one dance, I say yes, pull out my wad of cash, peel off a c-note, hand it to her, wait for change, don't tip, go home...
    A gentleman doesn't ask for change from a lap dance.


    If you've got the sack to tell her you want to try other girls go for it, if not, just say no when she asks, yeah it sucks the first time but she'll get over it and look for another customer. Don't play head games with her. Wasting her time and energy is not cool.
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    Quote Originally Posted by onlythebest
    I think Deo was referring to reverse psychology.Dancers hate getting asked out on dates,so if you ask her this,she may leave you alone after.
    This is off topic, but I have a question. What if a customer has spent a lot of time with a particular dancer, and they get to know each other and become pretty good friends?

    I realize that a custy should never go to a gentleman's club looking for a date let alone a girlfriend. And also I realize that's part of the dancer's job, to be a guy's "fantasy girlfriend" as I've heard it called on this board.

    All I'm asking is, is the guy supposed to just automatically assume that she wouldn't be interested because "dancers hate getting asked out on dates"? Or can he have the attitude of "I'll never know unless I ask her"?

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    Sorry I just remembered something I read in a thread dealing with this. I would've posted this there, but they delete my posts when I post in a thread that's too old.

    I just remembered reading in another thread "unless she brings up the subject of going out, assume she's not interested". Sorry bout the useless posts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deogol
    Ask her on a date heh heh heh...
    LOL, that is brilliant advice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us
    A gentleman doesn't ask for change from a lap dance.
    At $35 per dance, you get one dance, and you hand her a c-note. I think change is a given lest you confirm the PL rumors.
    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us
    If you've got the sack to tell her you want to try other girls go for it, if not, just say no when she asks, yeah it sucks the first time but she'll get over it and look for another customer. Don't play head games with her. Wasting her time and energy is not cool.
    Trust me, dude, I got the sack. Yes, I am playing head games. Why? Because strippers also play head games. So why can't I also join the game? Seems like fun.

    And no I do not have any deep seated issues with dancers/women. I just like to be mischievious [hope I got that spelled correctly]

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    Quote Originally Posted by kikin
    Trust me, dude, I got the sack. Yes, I am playing head games. Why? Because strippers also play head games. So why can't I also join the game? Seems like fun.
    OK,this ain't cool.We use psychology to make a living.I don't even want to entertain the phrase,"playing head games".That is not what we're doing.You might get your rocks off "playing" with us,but it isn't cool and when you say you don't have any deep seated issues with women,it does not sound credible in the least in this case.

    CaptainQuantum,most of us dancers are not there to be asked out on dates.We are there to make a living.There are a select few that will entertain the thought of going out with you,but I wouldn't hold my breath and wait for any of them to come around.My best advice is to not touch that thought with a ten foot pole.
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    Quote Originally Posted by onlythebest
    OK,this ain't cool.We use psychology to make a living.I don't even want to entertain the phrase,"playing head games".That is not what we're doing.You might get your rocks off "playing" with us,but it isn't cool and when you say you don't have any deep seated issues with women,it does not sound credible in the least in this case.
    Well, it's true...I would act in a similar fashion with any salesperson trying to sell me a service if I were in a mischievious mood. Therefore, for me, it has nothing to do with gender issues.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kikin
    Well, it's true...I would act in a similar fashion with any salesperson trying to sell me a service if I were in a mischievious mood. Therefore, for me, it has nothing to do with gender issues.
    So us dancers have to pay the price because you're in a mischievous (that's how it's spelled) mood???
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    Quote Originally Posted by onlythebest
    So us dancers have to pay the price because you're in a mischievous (that's how it's spelled) mood???
    Thanks, I was wondering whether there was an "i" in there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kikin
    Thanks, I was wondering whether there was an "i" in there.
    You neglected to answer the question.
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    Quote Originally Posted by onlythebest
    You neglected to answer the question.
    I can't answer that question right now. It's kind of a loaded question the answer to which I will have to get back to you on. But I will say this for now: it is not my aim to hurt anyone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kikin
    I can't answer that question right now. It's kind of a loaded question the answer to which I will have to get back to you on. But I will say this for now: it is not my aim to hurt anyone.
    OK,get back to me later on this.

    You may not mean to hurt anyone but when something happens whether on purpose or not,the results can be identical.Remember that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kikin
    At $35 per dance, you get one dance, and you hand her a c-note. I think change is a given lest you confirm the PL rumors.
    My point being you go the bar and break the Benjamin rather than busting the dancer's chops. Hell, maybe you hand her two $20s for the dance, smile and walk away...Nah, what was I thinking...
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us
    My point being you go the bar and break the Benjamin rather than busting the dancer's chops. Hell, maybe you hand her two $20s for the dance, smile and walk away...Nah, what was I thinking...
    Yoda,you can visit me at my club anytime you want.
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