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    for the last month everytime I'm around this one girl, I act like I am retard and say the dumbest stuff to her. I made very bad attempt at a joke but she got mad over it. here's the thing I'm nervous around her but I NEVER was before and I really do not know why I'm nervous. because of this I try to over correct and that makes it worse. no wonder she is uncomfortable to be around me, (I think she is at least) No freaking wonder she thinks I acting weird. She told someone that I was acting weird ( ie not looking at her when we were talking or walking away).
    I don't LIKE her as anything more than a friend. We used to be friends (always talking and etc and now she barely is)
    Should I just tell her if it seems that I 'm acting weird around it's b/c I'm nervous around her and I do not know why. or something ?what can I do to go back 2 being friends? I mean she is just a girl.
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    what? you either like her or you don't....I don't get it.

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    If this post is indicative of your social skills around women, you have problems none of us can help you solve.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    what? you either like her or you don't....I don't get it.
    I was trying to head off the thought that I might like her more than a friend

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    Default Re: what should i do? girl problems

    so you want to tell her you don't like-like her?

    why?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer
    If this post is indicative of your social skills around women, you have problems none of us can help you solve.
    actually, my social skills a pretty good with the exception of this. For some reason I went from not nervous to being nervous around her. and it not because I LIKE her. I do not get why since I'm not like this with any of my other female friends. It just hit me out of the blue.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    so you want to tell her you don't like-like her?

    why?

    no, she knows that I only like her as friend. All of sudden, I've gotten really nervous being around her and I do not know why. I just want to go back to being able to talk to her.

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    and she needs to know this why?

    (god, I need to go get a video or something to get off the computer)

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    my social skillz are thawngexistant

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    Default Re: what should i do? girl problems

    Well, I think you LIKE her.

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    Ah,kids.
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    Default Re: what should i do? girl problems

    If she makes you nervous, there must be some reason why. Go with your instincts. If you don't feel comfortable around her, then you aren't meant to be friends. I used to be like this around people, but I was acting dumb because I didn't want them to know who I was, and because they got on my nerves lol so I just acted dumb. If you aren't doing it on purpose, then she just wasn't meant to be your friend.

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    As sands through the hourglass...

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    and so ends another episode of wasting time with fearless.

    He's so FEARLESS.

    Hehe, throw some mud at her dude!
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    Default Re: what should i do? girl problems

    Write her a note. The note should say this

    "Do you like 'Fearless?' If so, check here ___

    If you don't, check here ____"

    Then have someone that you both know give it to her.

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