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    Hi there, boys!
    I'm pretty damned new at stripping and I was wondering:

    What stage moves/lap moves make you spend your last dollar? What do you like more, sensuality (massages, staring in eyes, slow grinding) or raunchy sexuality (show me your pussy!)?

    What can't YOU resist?

    Sorry if you get this a lot, but I haven't been able to find many answers from the man's point of view. Thanks a bunch!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Midgetfour44
    Sorry if you get this a lot, but I haven't been able to find many answers from the man's point of view.
    That's because you'd get a different answer from every man. Learn to read your customers... sometimes they're subtle and sometimes they're blunt, but they'll tell you.

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    At some point - depending on my mood I would like all those moves . As stated above read the custy and you will get the MONEY !

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah
    That's because you'd get a different answer from every man. Learn to read your customers... sometimes they're subtle and sometimes they're blunt, but they'll tell you.
    going even farther, I'd give you a different answer for every dancer who caused me to spend my last dollar.... what works for one won't neccesarily work for another...

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    Sorry if you get this a lot, but I haven't been able to find many answers from the man's point of view. Thanks a bunch!
    Can't imagine why; there's only entire threads dedicated to this question on the Blue Side.

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=63575
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=38953
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=55207
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    she probably didn't know about the "blue side"...I didn't till about a month or so ago.





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    ^ Don't be scared...that's where all the cool kids hang out!

    Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.

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    Honey, I'd love to give you some male input if you know what I mean.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer
    Can't imagine why; there's only entire threads dedicated to this question on the Blue Side.


    omg the 2nd & 3rd post from that first link needs a disclaimer; do not use unless you are a raunchy skank who will do almost anything for a buck or something or other, lol. geez. No wonder why we are so stereotyped.

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    Clark, you're bad.

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    I like girls that dress up like Debra Lafave and spank me like I'm a 14 year old...

    I'm a bad, bad boy.

    LOL.

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    Everyone is different for sure.

    I personally like someone who looks me in the eye, speaks to me, and is truly interested in pleasing me.

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    What can't I resist? Pretty feet. Especially if she lets me massage them.

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    Thanks you for the info, boys, and for introducing me to the Blue Side!

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    my last dollars (change i got from cover, or drinks, or as many left over singles as i may have when its time to go) are always spent by handing them to the girl who was the nicest throughout the night that i never got a chance to get a dance from.

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    explicit, hard core seduction works most everytime as long as an air dance does not folow
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Treat me like I'm the man you want to go home with, ya know what I mean. Make me feel like it, I'm not saying extras, just make me believe it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Midgetfour44
    Hi there, boys!
    I'm pretty damned new at stripping and I was wondering:

    What stage moves/lap moves make you spend your last dollar? What do you like more, sensuality (massages, staring in eyes, slow grinding) or raunchy sexuality (show me your pussy!)?

    What can't YOU resist?

    Sorry if you get this a lot, but I haven't been able to find many answers from the man's point of view. Thanks a bunch!
    I can't resist a woman who pulls her butt cheeks open to show off her bunghole. Seriously, that is HOT!!! Also, when a woman flexes her anus that is way cool.

    Things I like that lead me to give bigger tips:

    * Pubic hair - I absolutely love a woman with pubic hair. It is elegant, like a fur coat. Too bad 95% of dancers shave their pussies these days. Too bad most women don't have pretty vaginas.

    * Dance to the music, do pole work.

    * Turn your back to the audience and shake your ass. Make your butt cheeks jiggle--guys love jiggling!

    * Bend over and show your anus or pull your butt cheeks open.

    * Spread legs and slightly open vagina with fingers--then taste finger. HOT!!!

    * If your breasts are big enough, get them to jiggle or sway rhythmically.

    * Bend over and rotate your hips in a circular motion. That is hot! Basically, bend over and grind in a circular motion so your bottom goes in a hypnotic circular pattern.

    * Get naked as quickly as possible on stage. I never tip until the bottoms come off because I've been cheated so many times.

    * Say hi to customers, thank them for the money.

    * SMILE SMILE SMILE! We go to strip clubs to take us away from the stresses of the day. Please don't let your bad mood put a damper on our night out. A pleasant personality can be a bright spot in our day if our day was bad.

    I generally tip if I want to see more. Better looking women are going to get bigger tips for the most part. A bitchy dancer won't get any money from me no matter how good looking she is.

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    I'm always basically myself, but I act slightly different with different customers. I'm more aggressive with the ones I know need that sort of thing. I'm more laid back and joking with others. It all depends on the guy. You just need to learn how to adjust your approach to the guys additude.

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    Strangely enough, i'd say it's time. I feel the dancer and i have to be comfortable with each other in order for things to be pleasurable. The first night, there's the "is he an axe murderer" vibe for the first few minutes and then things start to loosen up. Every guy is different just as every girl is different. For me, i like to get to know the person before i get dances. (Yes, i'm a talker ) I find this also eases tensions on the dancer's part. That is, if she's willing to talk.

    For me, grinding, bouncing, "genital purring" etc., is fine, but if she doens't talk, i'm not interested. If she does, and we get along, she can be a terrible dancer and i'll keep coming back for more. ...but i think i'm unusual...

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    Helpful note to Dudeski: if the bottoms aren't off yet, LOOK AT THE STAGE before refusing your tip. If there are no dollars there yet . . . well, guess why the bottoms aren't off? :-) Most of us have a "quota" for nakedness based on how busy the club is and what the average stage song earns. I've been annoyed many times by the customers who come over, look, and don't tip. I'll signal "your next $1-2 gets my panties off" by playing with the waistband of my panties, pulling them down a little or jiggling them -- I'm sure other dancers have similar tricks.

    And yeah, I'm sorry, if the club was just totally empty and you showed up in the middle of my last song and laid a dollar on the stage, you get to see me take my top off, no more. But you'll have better luck next set if you keep at it. :-)

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    Smile, waaay to many girls don't smile and look bored / pissed off etc.

    That being said, waaay to many guys also don't seem happy in a SC. I've never understood why you would go and not smile, a cold beer, good music, good looking women, whats not to like, but there seems to be a lot of 'cranky' guys at clubs. If your gonna be sad, go to a regular bar, the drink are cheaper.

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