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    Over the years of dancing, and my other strip club-based jobs, Ive seen girls get flowers delivered to them from customers. Not so much the customers bringing them, but like, FTD delivery style.

    Ever do this for a dancer?


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    I'd rather have the money that he spent on floral delivery. The flowers will be dead in a week, and my bills will still be there. You really want to do something nice for me, pay my phone bill.

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    Paiage, I have always wanted that to happen to me, too. I'll send you flowers if you send me some!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah
    I'd rather have the money that he spent on floral delivery. The flowers will be dead in a week, and my bills will still be there. You really want to do something nice for me, pay my phone bill.
    I should have posted it differently. I was thinking of when a customer couldnt make it in, or for those who only come into town on travel... yanno? Spend the money on you when there, send something nice when not.


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    Paiage, I have always wanted that to happen to me, too. I'll send you flowers if you send me some!

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    I guess this is one place where one of mr_punk's commentaries stuck in my head. I keep picturing the strip club dumpster full of flowers and teddy bears on Valentines Day.
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    ^ Hehe...

    Not something I'd do myself. I'm sure 9 out of 10 dancers would rather have the cash anyway.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter
    Spend the money on you when there, send something nice when not.
    Something nice: $500 VS gift certificate, soft silk rope, fur-covered handcuffs, silver necklace with a few hundred in cash stuffed into the little blue box. It's the special thought behind the gift that counts.

    Of course, CO is right -- almost every dancer would want cash rather than flowers. Flowers in the club are just nails on the blackboard to us. So PL-ish that you'd have to buy the poor guy a drink and sit down for a little chat.

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    I almost sent a stripper flowers once because she was really nice when I visited and I wanted to show my appreciation for her brightening my day. I didn't want anything from her and really didn't expect to see her again. It was just a thank you and that's it. I didn't do it because I just kept thinking she's a stripper and she wouldn't care and when I read some of the ungrateful I would rather have cash comments on here- I'm glad I didn't!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Silverback
    I guess this is one place where one of mr_punk's commentaries stuck in my head. I keep picturing the strip club dumpster full of flowers and teddy bears on Valentines Day.
    heh heh heh heh.... mr_punk certainly has a way of saying things... and it's hard to dispute em.

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    Well damn, I guess I'm a rare breed. I'd love flowers. Heh.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter
    Over the years of dancing, and my other strip club-based jobs, Ive seen girls get flowers delivered to them from customers. Not so much the customers bringing them, but like, FTD delivery style.

    Ever do this for a dancer?


    Someday that's gonna happen to me! That would rock socks.
    I was 2 seconds from doing that once. I was at the florist and everything. I even picked out the arrangement of 2 dozen roses. And then I read SW and how that would be so PL'ish and RIL'ish on my part. I'm glad I caught myself lest I developed a totally LOSERish reputation at my club.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Other Owner
    Something nice: $500 VS gift certificate, soft silk rope, fur-covered handcuffs, silver necklace with a few hundred in cash stuffed into the little blue box. It's the special thought behind the gift that counts.

    If that ever happened to me, I'd eat my thong.
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    I'd kill a kookaburra for flowers in my club. :3

    I got chocolates delivered once. That pwnd.

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    i've gotten a few random roses, some perfume, and an outfit. i think its sweet when its done in a 'not psychotic stalkerish way'. sometimes, a little something like that can brighten your day. of course, i would love it even more if it came with a $100 tip. and downey_guy, its not that we're ungrateful strippers, its just that when it comes down to it, a big bouquet of roses doesn't pay our rent.
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    I love getting flowers and I always take them home! If I get soft toys I pass them on to my friends kids - I wouldn't bin them, thats such a waste!
    I've never had flowers delivered by a florist or anything though. One girl I worked with recieved 100 red roses delivered to the club with a card, I thought that was so beautiful!

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    I've never given flowers -- it does seem a little stalkerish.

    I did once mention to a dancer at my regular club that I wouldn't be in for a while because I'd be in Rome for a few weeks on business. Somehow I ended up saying that I'd buy her something while I was there. So I went into a profumerie in central Rome and asked the assistant what they had that was fashionable and that was not likely to be available in U.S. department stores. A big mistake -- I would not previously have believed that such a little bottle could cost so much! In any case, I'm really not sure whether the dancer liked the gift. (And she certainly didn't know how much it cost me -- or how much rent it might have paid!)

    In any case, I won't be offering to buy any gifts next time I go!
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    I asked somebody to bring me back a little souvinier from a trip last week--I meant a key chain or some earrings or something! Certainly not a tiny bottle of perfume equivalent to several months rent!

    I hardley ever get gifts from custies. I would say it is the place I work, but my best frind gets stuff all the time. Guess it's the regulars I attract


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    I've done it quite a few times actually. I'm sure a lot of dancers would rather just have the money but sending flowers or buying a dancer a gift is generally something you do over and above the money you spend on them for their time and services. I wouldn't spend an extra $50 on a lady because I didn't send her flowers on her birthday.

    About six years ago I sent my first ATF flowers at her club just to let her know that I was thinking about her. I had been on the road and hadn't seen her in about a month (after a year of almost weekly visits. I knew she loved yellow roses but I never expected the reaction I got. She called me and left a voice mail message that was so touching I actually recorded it and saved it. She was having a lousy week when she got the flowers and they really cheered her up. I, on the other hand had just finished a really miserable 18 hour day in the middle of many 18 hour days that week. I got her VM at about 1am and it lifted my spirits just to know I had lifted hers. Over the years I've sent flowers to ladies who remembered me on my B-day just to show my appreciation when I couldn't be around for theirs. The reactions have always been positive, sometimes remarkably so. It's not something I would do with a dancer that I didn't have a history with.

    Sometimes a simple gesture from the heart and from the gut (it’s a huge leap of faith not to think your bouquet will not end up in the trash), not an extra two or three lap dances, is just the right way to go. At the risk of branding myself a total PL (why stop now) I feel sorry for any dancer or customer who doesn't understand this.
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    I'm always jealous when girls get flowers at work. Hell, none of my regulars sent flowers for Valentines and I was really miffed! To me it's a way of showing you appreciate me, well tips do too, but flowers are more thoughtful. No matter who they came from I would never jump to "oh what a PL". They would make me happy and I'd probably give a little extra love next time I see the sender.

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    Ive never sent flowers FTD-style, but I have sent a Singing Telegram with a guy dressed as a gorilla, along with a set of 24 socket wrenches to a favorite dancer.

    She was touched.


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    please send cash in lieu of flowers.....lol

    really though, i think flowers are nice and i wouldn't throw them away. it also depends on who they are from. my one regular, from him i wouldn't like it b/c he's already too clingy and stalkerish sometimes. but from someone who doesn't bug me it would be nice.
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    Maybe its just me but I feel people who exchange gifts (family, friends, SO's) do so because they feel they have a special connection to one another. While I'm not saying that isn't possible in a strip club, flowers are something you should send to a gal you're actually romantically involved with, not one you're paying by the song to act romantically involved.

    And I just have a thing about giving gifts in general that I'd rather get somebody something that they can actually use as opposed to something thats going to sit on a shelf or wither away in about a week. A reasonably priced gift card to a place I know she shops/eats would be just as effective a means of saying thanks, while maintaining the notion that its a merely a friendly gift and I'm not going RIL on her. Of course, a sum of cash eqivalant to the value of that gift card is like a gift card to anywhere now isn't it?


    But no, as much as I adore the ATF, I've never bought anything for her, and see no need to as long as our relationship revolves around commerce. In the short of things, she's somebody I purchase a service from, no different than my barber, mechanic, or insurance agent.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Silverback
    I guess this is one place where one of mr_punk's commentaries stuck in my head. I keep picturing the strip club dumpster full of flowers and teddy bears on Valentines Day.
    That was so sad!!! I love little stuffed animals and flowers!!! I have a collection of stuffed animals.
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    I've never sent flowers b/c I already have PL/RIL tendencies as it is, so I think that would be over the top even for me. But I wouldn't rule it out with the right lady.

    What I have done for my former ATF was to bring in 3-course meals (appetizer, entree & dessert) from a nice restuarant for her and her friends since the food at her club was not good, to say the least. Of course it benefitted me since I got to eat dinner with 3-5 gorgeous ladies and the looks on the other customer's faces were priceless as they sat alone watching us chow down. On a side note, I can't believe how much those girls could eat and still keep their figures!

    I see nothing wrong with gestures like this as they are simply intended to make the dancer feel special, just like she makes me feel special, illusion or not.
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    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish
    But no, as much as I adore the ATF, I've never bought anything for her, and see no need to as long as our relationship revolves around commerce. In the short of things, she's somebody I purchase a service from, no different than my barber, mechanic, or insurance agent.
    I dunno, if my mechanic looked like that, she just might get some flowers....

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