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    So. there is this co-worker who has been flirting with me big time. I flirt back because it's fun and makes the day go by faster, but I keep my distance because she's married.

    I have a strict rule on this. I never mess around with women in relationships, it's just to much drama to deal with and not worth the hassle. Anyway, I told her my rule and she says...'it's o.k., my husband doesn't mind, we have an open relationship'. O.k., I might have taken it a step further, but I had a gut feeling that she was lying, something didn't seem 'right'.

    Well, it's a good thing I listened to my gut because I found out a few weeks later, through a mutal friend, that her husband is VERY jealous. He's been known to stop by and check in on her. What I'm trying to figure out is, what is she thinking?



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    possibilities
    1. she isn't thinking at all. people can just be stupid
    2. she's acting this way beacuse she doesn't like his jealousy. I know lots of people who figure "If I'm being accused of cheating, I might as well cheat."
    3. she's acting this way because she likes it when hubby get's jealous.
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    ^^^ I agree with this . And maybe she also likes to have her SO fight for her as some kind of sick reassurance of his commitment - I don't know . But you are doing whats best -keep your distance !

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    Yeah I agree she could like it when he's jealous. Also he could have cheated and just be a jealous hypocrite. She took the "hint" that they have an "open relationship" and now she's trying to get back at him.

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    Girls are weird. Either way, the don't mess with a married woman is a good rule of thumb, but here's another: don't mess with anyone you work with.
    Glad to hear you trusted your gut

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    Quote Originally Posted by King
    I have a strict rule on this. I never mess around with women in relationships, it's just to much drama to deal with and not worth the hassle.

    Stick to that creedo no matter what, and what she thinks wont matter. Not that it's a big deal but people forget, relationships are about YOU, and if that's a moral code you live by, forget about analyzing her, and move on.
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    LISTEN....

    It is well-known FACT that married people LIE about such things.

    That's why there are so many divorces. The likelihood that you are just going to be somebody's plaything for a few weeks is very high. Unless that's what you want, better steer clear. Not that it's a bad thing....
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    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by greggy
    don't mess with anyone you work with.
    I have a friend who used to be an H.R. Manager and he told me many horror stories of women who screamed sexual harassment just because they were upset with someone.


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