Those of you at Night Shift in Baltimore, all over Indiana, Rhode Island and Illinois, you are the professionals that have earned our kids' college funds; any 2 cents you can offer would be much appreciated! I apologize for coming to your community to bother you with my question, but I'm banging my head against a wall in the "we-hate- strip- clubs-and- pigs- who- go- to- stripclub" sites.
My husband says he tips the dancers on stage, he only gets a lapdance when the girl makes him feel like he has to and every time he leaves for a business trip, another couple of hundred is "missing." I know guys go for different reasons and over our 7 year marriage I've listened to every one- I went to a bachelor party and realized I loved it, I was lonely when you had the baby, I was lonely traveling, my boss made me go, my clients expect it and I didn't want to be the pussy, I think I'm addicted, look at you (5months post kid#2)-why would I want to come home to you, we don't have sex enough, you don't initiate sex enough, I don't want to go, I didn't want to get the VIP dance, but she made me...I'm sorry, I didn't mean to hurt you...why can't you just forget about it...
When you talk to the solo businessman, I know you are there for business, but is there any insight you can offer me that may help me deal/improve/understand this aspect of our marriage?
PS I have done everything short of surgery to look and act the part of a seductress at home and we do have sex every night he is not traveling, so I am trying hard on my end...![]()


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