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    Angry Possessive or Obsessed Regulars

    How do you ladies deal with regulars that start becoming possessive or obsessed with you?
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    Default Re: possessive or obsessed regulars

    I talk about going to the gun range for target practice, and how much I love shooting!

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    ^^^^^I LOVE it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lyssa Lynn
    I talk about going to the gun range for target practice, and how much I love shooting!
    that would probly backfire with me.
    my atf even wants me to buy her a pistol now

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    Default Re: possessive or obsessed regulars

    I'd suggest having a firm but polite conversation and explain to him this is your job and youre not his girlfriend and he should not behaive like he has a right to you (not that a bf acting like that is any more aceptible but this guys paying for your attention). and if he continues to behavie like that I'd talk to the manager/bouncer about him. that is a warning sign he could get violent with you or another customer and he probably should be removed from the club.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KittenCaboodle
    How do you ladies deal with regulars that start becoming possessive or obsessed with you?
    By either passing them onto another dancer or as is the case towards the end of my stripping "career"...I moved.

    I didn't move as a result of his behavior but since I knew I was leaving I milked everything I could out of that crazy fucker.

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    Quote Originally Posted by veteranprincess
    since I knew I was leaving I milked everything I could out of that crazy fucker.

    Hes crazy but hes still got feelings chicka.

    tell the man what the deal is. he already knows what it is. He just needs to hear it from you, because he doesnt want to believe it. If its beyond that point then he needs to seek help and you should be seeking a restraining order.
    Last edited by BenderTheOffender; 03-27-2006 at 08:19 AM.
    yeah baby I know it

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    Thanks xx

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    Default Re: possessive or obsessed regulars

    Make sure they know your boundaries. Long story short, My friend had a obsessed customer who threaten to kill us at gun point then shot himself right in front of us.

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    i slowly start hanging around them less. if they don't get the hint i just stop talking and sitting with them all together.

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