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    Default Don't I get a free pass on the bitch train??

    *Sigh*

    So last night when I arrived at work, I found out that a local dancer (an aquaintance) had died/been killed (still unsure). I spent the night with some of her close friends, listening to them talk about her, comforting them, fielding rumours &etc. By the end of the night I was just DRAINED emotionally.

    So predictably, I'm in a foul mood when I see boyo later on. Yes, I get on his case a bit, about stuff that really is an issue to me, but that I probably wouldn't have brought up were I in a better mood. I didn't insult him or say anything mean, it was more stuff along the lines of "I think we should go on more dates, instead of just having sex". He is at first all wounded, and then he SNAPS. He stormed out of my apartment, saying "I've been nothing but a nice guy!" . So I call him...once, twice, three times...leave messages saying "I'm sorry about what happened, I'm stressed, I didn't mean to upset you...it would mean a lot to me if you could call me back."

    No call back! So I blew it, I guess...but I'm confused, I thought I was allowed to be moody in this kind of situation?? Wouldn't most guys just let that bitchiness go, considering? I'm usually pretty upbeat, it was a definite anomaly in my behaviour.

    I'm totally sad, I really liked him, but I can't even fathom dating a guy who would storm out of a fight and then not answer my calls or call me. I'm into closure.

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    Default Re: Don't I get a free pass on the bitch train??

    you're not allowed to be moody in that kind of a situation if he is an asshole who wants nothing else from you but sex.

    that's what he sounds like, no offense. fuck him.

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    For once im going to say this guy is a real loser. You had a rough night, you are allowed to be cranky. And hell its your right to say you want dates as well as sex. Sounds like he was just in for the 'im fucking a stripper' ride. Fuck him, your better then that.

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    Default Re: Don't I get a free pass on the bitch train??

    I kind of have to agree with what's been said above. :/

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    Default Re: Don't I get a free pass on the bitch train??

    ^^ ditto, if anything he should have comforted you... Plus, you even apolgized on your messages so if he can't be a mature adult about this then he probably wo9uldn't have been the best in a longer relationship.
    sorry this had to happen, hope you feel better.
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    I would just like to voice my agreement with the other responses.

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    Perhaps he'd had a bad day too? Give him a couple of days and he if can't chat like a decent human being and take you out on a fantastic make up date then fuck him and be glad he's gone. You'll find someone better! (-:

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    Default Re: Don't I get a free pass on the bitch train??

    sounds like we've been dating the same guy. there must be a farm where a certain kind of loser is bred. don't give him a second thought and be glad he's shown who he really is. that kind of immaturity is unbelievable even if you're witnessing it. he's really really selfish. it's all about him and your needs are obliterated. like little boy expecting his mommy to be superhuman and throwing a fit when she shows vulnerability. it's fear. also proves he doesn't see you as a real person but as an idea or something. give him the boot if he ever crawls back.

    ok, my posting today has gotten out of hand, lol.
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    Default Re: Don't I get a free pass on the bitch train??

    I say if he doesnt return you calls in a few days then he is a ass. If you've called and left apology messages, it is now up to him. Leave him alone and see what he does.

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    Default Re: Don't I get a free pass on the bitch train??

    Guys feel deeply offended when you put them in the same catagory as rapists, sex freaks, and perverts. Imagine if your bf accused you of being clingy/whiny/manipulative (seems to be the as common as women complaining about their men who just want sex). I'd feel defensive and hurt that I was lumped into the catagory of those who I do not want to be associated with despite my efforts. I'm not saying that it's your fault, but imagine if your boyfriend took out his shit on you. How would you respond? I don't know that exact situation, so you'll have to trust your own judgment.

    I haven't had sex with my bf in months because due to stress, working 2nd shift while he works regular 9-5, getting used to the NuvaRing (I've been menstruating for 2 weeks), trying to get my career on the road, dealing with a history of sexual assult, and the fact that I want to go out on more dates. The novelty of being sexually desired has been maxed out by stripping, and I want the part of my mind that only he has access to to be more valued than my pussy. I try to explain this, but he thinks that I want to be platonic friends rather than bf/gf, but that's not the case. I don't need sex to be in love, and I wish that we could revert to the days before we started having sex. Dating is possible without sex, as it urges you to concentrate on going out. A big part of this is b/c we're living together and I owe him money, so obligation puts stress on the relationship. He's not a sex freak, and is a big fan of snuggling, but he can't understand why I don't want to have sex until I feel that our relationship is rekindled.

    "I've been nothing but a Nice Guy," is a sign of an entitlement complex and insecurity. Take this as a warning sign, especially if gifts and favors seem to be used as bribes and bargaining chips. The silent treatment may be a ploy to get you to grovel and shift under his control. As an ex once said to me after I dumped him, "Yeah, I am a fucking sheep in wolf's clothing. If you're a "nice guy" to girls, then they won't have any ammo against you in arguments because you're so nice, and they feel guilty so you can control them through that."

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