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    Quote Originally Posted by Watermelon
    If she wa$n't doing good, would you still think she was that annoying?

    Maybe you are the only one who finds her obnoxious. I wouldn't rely on customer's comments on other dancers.
    Yeah, anyone who approaches the same customer 3 or 4 times an HOUR insisting that he do a dance and then gets angry that he doesn't is ANNOYING in my book. Regardless of how much money she makes, that's a seriously overly-agressive tactic that screams 'excessive'.
    I found out that my bf got a dance with her back when she worked at her old club. He said she would NOT leave him alone and he got one just to shut her up. And the lap dance was terrible. She barely made any contact with him at all and just kind of stood there.
    ALL THAT BADGERING FOR NOTHING!

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    This is a case where I think you can rely on the other customers' opinions . . .

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    Quote Originally Posted by DancerWealth
    I'd rather make $500 in a shift while having a good time, relaxing, enjoying the company of some guys, and make some money instead of making $1000 a shift and being bitchy, bossy, obnoxious, and strung out.
    Aiight, stap on your stilletos and let's see how much of a good time you have making $500 versus $1,000. The difference isn't much mentally....

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    I meant it more hypothetically Kat...sheesh!

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    Quote Originally Posted by DancerWealth
    There are always going to be some dancers that this approach will work for. Granted, she may be making good money, but at what price? Personally, I'd rather make $500 in a shift while having a good time, relaxing, enjoying the company of some guys, and make some money instead of making $1000 a shift and being bitchy, bossy, obnoxious, and strung out. My best is, your home life is a lot more stable and happy than hers is. That's something money can't buy.
    I don't know...I personally don't go to work expecting (or even hoping) to have a good time, relax or enjoy guys' company. I go to make money, so that I can relax, have good times, and enjoy guys' company in my real life , and if being a bossy bitch would guarantee double my income, I'd be the most annoying one around.

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    What do you do if that girl is your friend and you see her and hear her acting inappropriatley? Or down right disrespecting herself, and you for that matter because your at the table? I Its a very difficult position to be in, I feel, because I dont want to hate or be seen as a hater but sometimes am really just disgusted. I also know that a fair amount of the customers are as well. It seems that she will stop at nothing to make her money no matter who gets in the way. I have seen many girls get up, as have I, from the table bacause it makes them feel very uncomfortable. I have heard lots of "talk" behind her back from co-workers and customers, even management. I almost feel bad for my buddy. Want to say something...maybe "respect yo self bitch," but dont know how without sounding like a overly sensitive, jealous, hateful hater.

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    I can see the rude, overly pushy strategy working for a short time if a dancer works in a touristy area like Vegas or something. But sooner or later, too many customers are going to complain to management about her and she will get fired, or at the very least, she'll get a stern talking to and she'll have to change her ways. Sure, a little pushiness is necessary when a customer is on the fence about getting a dance, but it should never be to the point of being annoying. You can't build any regulars this way, and regulars can really help on slow nights. There are some customers who are pushovers or who will get so annoyed with an overly persistent dancer that they'll eventually buy a dance just to get her to go away, but there are just as many customers who are assertive and will complain to management about an overly pushy dancer.

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    A girl in one of the clubs i work in takes this approach. Often she is seen literally dragging guys in while they pull back away from her like a puppy on a leash, (shes pretty strong so usually wins the tug of war.) Not only this, ive seen her bite a customer so hard on the face that she left teeth marks so he would have, "something to remember her by," she has also gone i into guys pokets and removed theyre wallets, helping herself to he money in it and then saying, "well youve already paid for it so you might as well have a dance." I personally find this type of behaviour appaulling and tbh its rare that this girl makes more money than me. She is naturally an aggresive person but i think many of the customers are intimidated by her and she rarely has repeat custom.
    I think being aggressive can work if its done in a kind of cheeky way. Sometimes when your talking to a guy you know he wants a dance but is just too shy to say yes. When this happens ill take a guys arm and give it a light tug while standing up and in these situations, 9 times out of 10 he'll come along. Sometimes young guys feel a bit embarassed to agree to a dance infront of theyre friends, when this happens i might give them a bit of a cheeky tug so they can be to their friends, " oh, she forced me!" But this is as far as ill take it. In general i find being genuinly nice and hard working goes alot farther than aggression.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Polekitten
    she has also gone i into guys pokets and removed theyre wallets, helping herself to he money in it and then saying, "well youve already paid for it so you might as well have a dance."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Polekitten
    I personally find this type of behaviour appaulling and tbh its rare that this girl makes more money than me.
    That's exactly why I doubt this girl is that annoying.
    Quote Originally Posted by Polekitten
    In general i find being genuinly nice and hard working goes alot farther than aggression
    Totally agree

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    UPDATE:
    In order to earn the rest of my rent money, I had to put on a strong hustle last night. I was talking to customers, psyching myself out to be in a good mood, flirting and selling more than my usual. I was having a pretty good night.

    Well, Lil' Miss Annoying tried to fuck with me! I was talking to a customer and she walks right over to the table and asks him, "Are you ready for your dance yet?". I couldn't believe it! He looked at me and asked "Will she beat me up if I get a dance with you instead?". We both laughed and he told me he was kind of creeped out by her. Another customer complained about her earlier in the night too. The guy ended up getting 4 dances from me instead, but now I have a serious reason to start a campaign against her.
    It's one thing to dig your own grave by being obnoxious, but it's totally another when you step into conversations that other dancers are having and trying to steal customers away from the other girls!! I've seen her take guys away from other girls' stage sets too.
    I'm going to have a talk with her, as well as management. Not only is she scaring away custys, but she's trying to fuck with our money too.

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    Sorry to hear you have this headache Alexxa. Just be sure that when you talk to your managers about it you don't do so with the approach of, "She's an annoying obnoxious beyotch" etc. etc. etc. Rather present your case by saying that by her doing what she's doing she is a liability to the club giving it a bad image. This is always a better approach when dealing with management as they will tend to respond to that angle more effectively and take action faster than just being approached with a "drama" issue. Let us know how it goes!

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    Wanna talk about hustle??
    Howabout the chick that used to work at my club. I work in a small club, and our stage is the main focus of the room. This chick would walk up to the guys sitting on the stage, ask guys for dances and literally, grab thier package while she asked them. I saw it happen again and again. Us girls were busting our booty to prep the customers to get a dance from her!! literally. She wasnt even hot. I mean 6' tall with less than a cups and a face that could be mistaken for a man's if it werent for makeup.
    Several of us approached management.. They wouldnt do a thing.. why? shes makin the club money. She'd walk out with 500$ or more! and our average was 100 or less. I put up with a hustlin biatch like this for over 2 years in my club.

    I try to stamp em out, first day they work, lettin em know the rules of the stage,. before they get out of controll.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DancerWealth
    Sorry to hear you have this headache Alexxa. Just be sure that when you talk to your managers about it you don't do so with the approach of, "She's an annoying obnoxious beyotch" etc. etc. etc. Rather present your case by saying that by her doing what she's doing she is a liability to the club giving it a bad image. This is always a better approach when dealing with management as they will tend to respond to that angle more effectively and take action faster than just being approached with a "drama" issue. Let us know how it goes!
    I brought it up to my boss last night - briefly. I finally had him alone in the office for a few minutes and then someone else walked in, but I managed to say that she is causing issues with myself and other dancers by not having proper etiquette when approaching a customer. I also mentioned that a lot of the customers have complained about her to myself and other dancers about her being too pushy and some of them have left the club as a result of being harassed. He told me other girls have said the same things. So the votes are in, he has the power and the knowledge now. I'm sure she won't last long now.

    He also favors me and my opinion greatly - tells me I am his favorite. I've been nothing but a great employee and he told me I am "part of the family" and always asks how I am doing. We have a very good relationship. So I think he will take my complaints into consideration.

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    Sinn, how did you guys finally manage to get rid of her? We have a similar situation in our club, management will not get rid of her because she makes them money and they will get rid of any girl that complains against her automatically.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AlexxaHex
    UPDATE:
    In order to earn the rest of my rent money, I had to put on a strong hustle last night. I was talking to customers, psyching myself out to be in a good mood, flirting and selling more than my usual. I was having a pretty good night.

    Well, Lil' Miss Annoying tried to fuck with me! I was talking to a customer and she walks right over to the table and asks him, "Are you ready for your dance yet?". I couldn't believe it! He looked at me and asked "Will she beat me up if I get a dance with you instead?". We both laughed and he told me he was kind of creeped out by her. Another customer complained about her earlier in the night too. The guy ended up getting 4 dances from me instead, but now I have a serious reason to start a campaign against her.
    It's one thing to dig your own grave by being obnoxious, but it's totally another when you step into conversations that other dancers are having and trying to steal customers away from the other girls!! I've seen her take guys away from other girls' stage sets too.
    I'm going to have a talk with her, as well as management. Not only is she scaring away custys, but she's trying to fuck with our money too.

    OH MY GOD. I have the exact same problem with a girl at the moment. she is someone who when she started had never danced b4, and i was a hostess/controller at the time, and i could see that she was having a hard time dancing/applying makeup/doing her hair/ talking to customers, basically she was having trouble with *everything*. so i ewnt out of my way to help her out.

    so she left for a while, and she has recently come back (i'm now dancing, have been since november, but in the industry for almost 3 yrs) and has made it her business to lose me money. it doesn't even have to come down to either me or her making the money in question. it can be between me and another girl and have nothing to do with her, and she'll come up and drape herself all over the customer and say (while looking right at me) 'oh no, don't book her, come and book ____ (any girl but me)' and try and drag the customer off.

    i have had it with her behaviour and i just don't know what to do?! it astounds me, as i did nothing but help her last time!

    makes me never want to help a new girl at my club again! well, not until they've been there a significant length of time...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Polekitten
    In general i find being genuinly nice and hard working goes alot farther than aggression.
    One of the things I've learned from being in sales for so long is that while a many of the more "aggressive" sales people make a lot of sales in the beginning, they lose it all in the end to buyer's remourse. I see it all the time where really pushy sales people force people into buying from them and when they walk away, the customer is not left happy...they feel as though they were scammed or were taken advantage of and return their product or cancel their service within the first few days of purchase. The same is true with selling lap-dances. While some of these aggressive girls make a lot of sale up front, rest assured that customers always vote with their wallets and you'll probably never see those guys again in the club. This hurts the other dancers, the support staff and of course the club itself. Being confident and not arrogant in your selling will always win in the long run for everyone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zoe_en_Australie
    OH MY GOD. I have the exact same problem with a girl at the moment. she is someone who when she started had never danced b4, and i was a hostess/controller at the time, and i could see that she was having a hard time dancing/applying makeup/doing her hair/ talking to customers, basically she was having trouble with *everything*. so i ewnt out of my way to help her out.

    so she left for a while, and she has recently come back (i'm now dancing, have been since november, but in the industry for almost 3 yrs) and has made it her business to lose me money. it doesn't even have to come down to either me or her making the money in question. it can be between me and another girl and have nothing to do with her, and she'll come up and drape herself all over the customer and say (while looking right at me) 'oh no, don't book her, come and book ____ (any girl but me)' and try and drag the customer off.

    i have had it with her behaviour and i just don't know what to do?! it astounds me, as i did nothing but help her last time!

    makes me never want to help a new girl at my club again! well, not until they've been there a significant length of time...
    Yeah I met her... she's a fricken bitch.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan
    Yeah I met her... she's a fricken bitch.
    lol...well, i did warn you, so at least you had a heads up. Michelle said she's really really dodgy in dances i wanna know what she's saying to them!

    did she do something to you?
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    I love how aggressive hustlers tend to deny their behavior, loudly, to anyone who listens. I once worked with a delusional bitch who's favorite thing to do was talk about how wonderful she was, and how real women with curves (sagginess and flab in her case) was far superior to ugly scrawny little girls like me. She'd threaten guys who wouldn't buy dancers from her, and lost out on a lot of money, stage and dances, because guys would be too scared to get anywhere near her. She'd loudly brag that she couldn't hustle, that it was a dirty tactic that only desperate girls used (pot, kettle, black). She eventually burned herself out by meeting someone exactly like her. Last I've heard, she'll stay at shitty clubs till she gets chased out, and goes to shittier clubs.

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    being aggressive and bossy does seem to work for some girls if they're hott and have wit at my club. however, it does not work for the ones that appear to be crackheads. i would LOVE to use this approach, but am not very good at it.

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    Ok, I've been the annoying hustler one desperate night by being so persistent that guys would get dances just to get me off their case. Doesn't work too well. Yes, I made more money than I would have otherwise, but I just didn't feel right about myself. More than just making money, you have to feel good. You don't want a customer who buys because he feels pressured, especially in this business. It is a kick to the ego, and with too many kicks to the ego, a girl cannot be happy, and I find when I am unhappy with myself, I cannot connect with prospective regulars and customers that are into me.
    It's just not worth the extra $. Dance for the guys that view you as a goddess not some annoying little bitch.

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