I was planning on dancing this summer, and now all of a sudden my boyfriend is objecting to it, but not for the usual reason. He's fine with the idea of me stripping because, after all, it is my body and I can do what I want with it. He trusts me that I'm not going to do anything with the customers.
However... he's worried about my safety. He doesn't want anyone hurting me. He thinks that working at a strip club could be dangerous (physically, mentally, or socially). He also knows that if word got around (and it probably would) that I was stripping, my brothers and pretty much anyone they talk to would think of me as a slut. The main thing he's worried about is...what if people knew I used to strip? Couldn't that "tarnish" my image and be counted against me when I'm looking for a job? Like if I'm looking to get hired at some company and they decide to do a background check, they might just think, "Oh, she used to be a stripper, she must be stupid or slutty, we don't want her working here." Would people still take me seriously?
Has anyone had to deal with this, or is this just not really that big of a problem?



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