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    making it interesting?

    ok im know u guys are tired of me talking about my high mileage club. but i need help again. ok i was reading a thread about lapdances where if u read my posts the club i work at only offers lapdances. i read in this particular thread about doing a hand stand and landing in the guys lap. how????? i imagine myself doing it and almost giving the guy a hernia!!! not a pretty picture. and i also read about not grinding in the lapdance. how do u do that and still make the customer stay with you? okay the layout for the dancing area in my club is kinda like a restaurant or i think it used to be a restaurant. with the booth like seating. minus the tables in the middle. i can stand in the booths and stuff. so now that u have a vision have any of u girls worked in a place with this layout and done dramatic moves during the lapdance?
    LOok at me!!! men who spend money... im as innocent as can be!!! until we get outside...

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    If your tall, skip the handstand part and think of it more as a somersault. Put your head on the floor, and roll slowly until your ass is on his lap. Plant your ass there and put your elbows on the ground and your hands on your midback to support yourself. Keep your toes pointed and do some pretty opening and closing your legs, then arch your back to bounce your ass a little on his lap. In a full grindage club, then put your feet against the back of the couch and grind upside down.

    If the rolling into it part is too hard, start by sitting in his lap with your legs up on his shoulders, and laying back until your head is on the floor.

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    God - this just brought back a memory of me trying something like that for the first time. I was giving this NBA player a bunch of laps and I tried that flippy thing. I was feeling all bad ass. I ended up on my ass. It was hysterical though. He started busting up and the bouncer in the doorway busted up. We had a good time though. I don't do tricks like that anymore.

    Anway.

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    Laps can be just as interesting without lap gymnastics. I have always believed that sensuality is the key. Eye contact, a flirty smile, a gentle touch--these things can take you a long way.

    Alot of guys can take only so much bouncing and flipping on their laps.

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    ^^^Yeah ive only done the flip a few times well i was dancing, im more into the sensual stuff too

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamazon
    Laps can be just as interesting without lap gymnastics. I have always believed that sensuality is the key. Eye contact, a flirty smile, a gentle touch--these things can take you a long way.

    Alot of guys can take only so much bouncing and flipping on their laps.
    This is exactly what I do. Men come into a club for the fantasy. Dance slowly, seductively. I don't even take my clothes off first. I usually wait like the first 30 seconds or so. I stare into their eyes, slowly lick my lips, tilt my head to the side. I start at the side of my face, and slowly run my hand alongside my body. I make it look like i feel soooooooo good. I'm very slow in my movements. Guys LOVE IT, because no other girls are really doing it, and I always get repeat dances.







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    Many girls grind in my club but I really try to avoid it because a guy coming in his pants (I think it's happened twice by accident and both times I *freaked* out) makes me want to cry for whatever reason...makes me really uncomfortable. So I give a lot of shoulder massages, eye contact, sitting on their knee and looking all sexy-cute or whatever. I also lean back with my ass just below their lap and kinda drape myself over them, or body slide forward and massage their chest. Me looking up from a kneel puts me in that blow-job eye contact position without doing anything remotely blow-job-ish. We have to stand up half the time anyway, so I've worked on sexy posing positions...

    For all that, I do get many repeat dances. Often over 5, so I don't know. I get many "oh you're so sensual" comments. Try to act like you're very comfortable and sexy feeling. I do this unless the customer creeps me out, then I really don't care if he wants another dance or not. Sometimes I am a dance snob, and will do all in my power to ensure the guy doesn't want another dance if I hate dancing for him. One guy made a vaguely pediophilic comment, and I stood there, three feet away, practically motionless, with all my clothes on, for the duration of the song. I was like "yeah, complain, I dare you".

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    Ditto here. Girls always accused me of doing extras because I got dance after dance from guys who wouldn't get more than one from them. No extras here--I did *less* than most of the girls at the club in terms of contact, etc. I did what cinnamonkisses describes: LOTS of eye contact, and lots of making it look like I am enjoying the hell out of it. No fake orgasms, etc., just like I enjoy being sexy and dancing for them. Top tips for laps that worked for me:

    -REALLY look into their eyes. If they're behaving themselves, get CLOSE, stare at them like you're in love, and then look down shyly for just a second. Look back up like you want to f*ck their brains out. This move got me more repeats than any amount of grinding ever did. Even when you are facing away from them, look over your shoulder and make eye contact, smile, flirt!!!

    -While putting your boobs in their face, sitting on their knee, or whatever, get your mouth close to their ear, and let them hear your breath "catch." Then breath SOFTLY out, letting the warmth just hit their ear. Not blowing into their ear, but almost like you didn't mean for it to happen.

    -The hands running thing cinnamonkisses describes is FABULOUS. I do something similar, and it works like a charm.

    -Look at yourself. WHen you run your hands down your body, watch your hand intently, looking up at the gentleman just a bit here and there with slightly hooded eyes. SEXY. If you stop to momentarily on a particular part (breast, stomach, whatever is legal in your area), close you eyes for just a bare second, tilt your head to the side a bit, and get a tiny smile as though you are very hot about what you are doing. Sell the fantasy. It works because so many women don't do it. Just be careful not to overdo it.

    -Compliment them on something GENUINE. IF a guy isn't handsome, don't tell him he is. He'll know you're just sucking up for $$. Instead, pick out a great feature (this works even with handsome guys, btw). Some I've used and gotten extra dances for "Your eyes caught me from all the way across the room--they smile all by themselves!" "That suit is great--I love men who know how to dress!" "That shirt is so soft--I just can't stop myself from touching it!"(follow up with a finger run down the shirtsleeve, etc.). Guys like compliments too, and it makes the dance MUCH more personal, especially if said quietly into their ears :-)

    --Touch. If touching him is legal, touch unexpected places instead of the obvious. Run your fingers lightly along the inside of his wrist, or along his jawline. It's different, and it shows interest they normally don't recieve without being overtly sexual. Most guys I've danced for comment to me on how much they like this.

    -Strip. Really, strip. This is becoming such a lost art, which is just a shame. Again, Cinnamon kisses has it so right (not suprising, girl, you rock!). SLOWLY, seductively, as though you can't wait for his eyes to touch you but you want to savor every moment.

    The biggest trick for me to keeping it interesting is to make it seriously ALL about the customer. Finding ways to make him feel like he's the ONLY guy in the room. Almost all men are there for the attention, so lay it on 'em; but, you have to be genuine about it. Or at least find ways to seem genuine. This is the reason that I always walked out of the club with WAY more $$ than almost all the other girls, even though some were hotter or had better bodies (I am pretty and have a decent body, but some of these girls were ROCKIN', and made NO $$ because they missed the hustle).

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    Default Re: making it interesting?

    shwankie's post is 100% on the money.

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    Shwankie nailed it. She would get every last buck from me and I would walk away smiling.

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    thanks, shwankie!!

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    Yup. Schwankie's advice can't be beat. Print it out and paste it in your locker.

    I also get more dances when I do less, keep everything simple, and move slower. The less contact you give, the less likely the customer is to have an orgasm, or push you off his lap to go jerk off in the bathroom. (It happens.) Draw things out, but maintain eye contact to keep things interesting. A lot of girls forget to use their faces then they give private dances. Most guys look at your face as much as look at your naughty bits. Take advantage of this. Looking at faces stimuates the part of our brains that feels empathy, so a guy who is looking at your face tends to be more respectful, less focussed on grabbing your pink. If I think a guy is going to be a handful, I will start the dance by making him look at my face for several seconds -- put a finger under his chin tilt his face up to mine, grab him by the hair and pull his head back so he has to look at me, put my forehead against his and look into his eyes. You can use this to subtly establish control for the rest of the dance.

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    xoGrace, great tips!

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    Shwankie! You're dead on. Thanks for taking the time to type that all out! An invaluable resource...

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    Quote Originally Posted by shwankie
    -Compliment them on something GENUINE. IF a guy isn't handsome, don't tell him he is. He'll know you're just sucking up for $$. Instead, pick out a great feature (this works even with handsome guys, btw).

    Guys like compliments too, and it makes the dance MUCH more personal, especially if said quietly into their ears :-)
    Thank you! And may I add, if he's behaving well, you can complment him on that. Nice guys tend to stay nice when you show them that you appreciate their manners.

    And this can work in terms of getting dances as much as doing them. I was at a club last weekend where you really can't interact with the dancers on stage, so not a lot of money is tipped on stage, but I threw a buck or two up on the rail each set and had no fewer than three girls come and thank me for that little gesture. (Two of whom I ended up buying dances from).
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    schwankie nailed it dead on(as already said). Your biggest thing for repeat lap dances is EYE CONTACT. I keep eye contact at all times, even if I have my back to them im always looking over my shoulder into their eyes. Running your nails slowly down their neck behind their ear is another big thing. I always have a secuctive sexy smile on my face and I rub my hands slowly down my body, lightly breathing in their ear, really act like your turned on. Slow sexy movements works. Guys keep buying.

    Now this does not always work if you have a younger crowd, so this is where the hand stand thing comes in. I do it, but only for the 'kids' as I call them. There are several ways to do it, if your taller lay across their lap and wrap your legs around their neck and slide down till your head is on or just above the ground. If guys are allowed to touch you let them hold your hips, they like to think they are being helpful Once you have enough balance from doing this and feel secure enough you can start doing headstands in their lap. You have the guy sit up and spread his legs a little and slowly put your head in their lap and lightly kick your feet up then you can just play around with your legs, slap them in the face with your ass etc(like you I work in a bit of a more high contact club, well high contact in comparision to most US clubs)...

    As I said save this for the kids who you think will be into it. And never pull it out after the first song... wait three or even four songs before doing this(I wait till song four or five). Also if you have floor dances and VIP, keep it for the VIP. Never pull out all your fun tricks for a floor dance... so that way when you tell a guy going to the VIP is more fun and intimate, your telling the truth

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