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    Default Dancers - Would You Find It Creepy If...

    A new-ish customer knows that you danced at another club in the past, and knows your name from that club, but he didn't get this info from you and you know he has never been to that other club?

    Would that feel stalker-ish to you?

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    it wouldn't feel stalkerish....

    IT WOULD BE stalkerish.

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    So, how do you know that she danced at another club and what her name is?

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    just keep that information to yourself

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    Quote Originally Posted by calliope7
    So, how do you know that she danced at another club and what her name is?

    Saw it on another board much like this one but not as nice, with enough identifying information that I could tell it was her (but it was not her on the board, it was customers talking about her).

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    Default Re: Dancers - Would You Find It Creepy If...

    If you have to ask if something would be creepy, it probably is.

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    When it comes to us customers, if your not smiling and handing the dancers money, it's creepy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sienna_TX
    If you have to ask if something would be creepy, it probably is.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PhotographerGene
    When it comes to us customers, if your not smiling and handing the dancers money, it's creepy.
    na, sometimes that's creepy too

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    couldn't it be that he asked another dancers about her and that dancer supplied the information?? Happens to me all the time.
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    see-- it's not creepy if you know that, it's creepy if you tell the girl without explaining yourself because that's a power move, like "I know where you've beeEEEEeeeen!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by gypsy_girlchild
    couldn't it be that he asked another dancers about her and that dancer supplied the information?? Happens to me all the time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman
    A new-ish customer knows that you danced at another club in the past, and knows your name from that club, but he didn't get this info from you and you know he has never been to that other club?

    Would that feel stalker-ish to you?
    Actually, this has sort of happened to me before. I had never met the guy in my life and he knew I worked at another club.
    It could just be word of mouth.

    But then again, you might not want to say anything. Not everyone is as laid back as I am. She might think it's creepy.

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    I've been danicing in the same town for over 8 years, alot of people that I don't know personally know me. And I'm so forgetfull, I may have met them and forgotten them. It happens. I went to another club as a custie and dancers that I didn't know knew who I was, one of my custies was there and a dancer pointed me out to him.
    If I looked at all of these instances as stalker-ish I'd go nuts! Knowing me with out me knowing you is not stalker-ish, it's the behavior that happens after you tell me that.

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    Default Re: Dancers - Would You Find It Creepy If...

    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    na, sometimes that's creepy too
    In that case I'll stop doing it

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    Default Re: Dancers - Would You Find It Creepy If...

    Telling someone that you have information about them that you didn't get from them, but not telling them how you got it, is creepy. If you want to bring up the fact that you saw something posted about her online, then tell her that you saw something posted about her online. That fact might be creepy (I'd find it a little weird if I found out people were posting about me) but you wouldn't necessarily be creepy for telling her about it. Unless you said it in a creepy way. Hmm. It's all so complicated.

    For me, it would depend on what had been posted. If it was a comment about how nice and sweet and sexy I am, that would be OK, and I wouldn't mind a customer telling me about it. If the post said "Grace is a nasty bitch who says she will blow you in the back room but then steals your wallet and kicks you in the nuts" then I probably wouldn't want to hear about it, definitely not from some customer I didn't know. If the post is something lewd or mean, just keep it to yourself. Why would you want to tell her about it anyway?

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