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    Default Re: Do You Use The "Sitting On My Lap" Hustle?

    Generally what I do is go off the guy's body language...that and my big thing, and sometimes it doesn't always get me a "yes", but I always ask the guy if he'd like somebody to talk to. If not, I walk away with an "Enjoy your time" and move on. If so, and he seems open, I sit on his lap, sideways, so he can still see the stage. I work at a full contact club, so I use it as an opportunity to rub up against him, etc, etc, plus most guys enjoy it, cuz it gives them a view down my bra, which is always enjoyable for them. I'm not saying the lap sitting always works, but it works more for me, I think, because of the gentle way I go about it, instead of just plopping down, which is both rude and unladylike, IMHO.
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    i sit on the guy's lap about 90% of the time. i used to just sit next to them. however, i am now at a club where sitting on the lap is the norm. guys like it where i am. i didn't do as well when i didn't have as much physical contact. perhaps this could be linked to not saying what i say when i'm on their lap or some other factor. i'm not positive. however, i DO ask if they want some company or if they are waiting for another girl before i plop down. i hate to say it, but my club is not classy...at all. some girls even go up and STRADDLE guys right away. they then proceed to whisper or blow or do whatever in their ears. this works even better for them. unfortunately, i can't bring myself to do this without feeling like a tard. i do agree, though, that it is MUCH classier to sit next to a guy as opposed to plop right down...especially if you are over 160 lbs lol

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    I do that only if i'm in the company of a millionaire or a celeberty that might like me. then I'm not super pushy. I am but I'm more subtle than that.
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    at my club (i can finally say that!) theres bar stools right at the stage, cause the bar is like surrounded by the stage, but then theres no other places to sit. so i think lap sitting wouldnt work at all here. i really wouldnt feel comfortable with it anyway. i dont like it when girls do that even when not in a club environment. it always looks tacky and pushy. unless the two of you are close already, i think this is a crappy way to ask for a dance.
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    I usually only sat on laps when I'd approach a group of guys that would be sitting in a closed group--3-9 or so.... and were usually no chairs, so I'd ask "do you mind if i sit on your lap?" I never heard no. There's something about groups of guys and sitting on laps... yes, there are usually no seats left, but the vibe is different, and so the hustle changes. SItting on a lap in a group is like taking responsibility for the group. (and a signal to other dancers that this is your temporary territory.) Yes, this sounds a little off, maybe, and maybe it's because i'm looking at it only through a dancer's eyes... but by sitting on some guy's lap in a group i think maybe signals to the group as a whole that you're not there to run off after a quick hustle, but that you want to keep them company for a while and take good care of them, and that is provided that they're as willing to take care of you ($$$$).

    For a slow hustle atmosphere, if I and a lone guy were particularly enjoying each other's company during a dance, or had established some percieved mutual chemistry... I'd sit on his lap after a dance or two and hustle him for another in a few minutes (AFTER putting back on my bottoms). It really depended on how busy the club was or how much he was shelling out because that's no way to move around a room and get selling. I would actually get too comfortable sometimes and loose my momentum because it felt "safe" to be anchored to someone.

    My club was 50/50. some girls just never sat on laps. And then there were the girls that ONLY sat on laps. I'm talking just sitting. Not even dancing. And I dont think they're all getting paid for conversation. It's a bad habit, but not actually taboo in my book.
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    It would make me feel super cheap to just drop in some guys lap. You gotta remember - if they wanna have a little heaven sitting on them, they gotta PAY for it.

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    in my current club its very common, often the easiest way to make money, b/c the guys are programed there. but girls often jump on the guy and start dancing w/out saying a word--which often works too (i get too scared to do that though, u risk too much trouble) I dont like to sit on laps, i sit on the arm of the chair, that way, i can see the guy and he can see me. unless i can tell he really doesnt want me close to him at all.
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    You have to read the customer. In my clubs, the girls have learned that I can't resist someone who comes up and politely asks to sit on my lap. If I'm in my "get the lay of the land" phase I don't want to have a gal plop down on my lap. I will cross my legs, lean forward with my hands crossed and elbows on my knees or when a gal is making her rounds comes close, I'll stare intently at the TV.

    Some of the younger customers and those new to the experience will enjoy the shocking experience of having a beautiful gal plop down on them.


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    At my club it's totally against the rules, if the customers want a girl on his lap then he'll pay for it why do it for free?

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    Default Re: Do You Use The "Sitting On My Lap" Hustle?

    Depends on the club. If it's commonplace/allowed there, I'll usually do it. It seems to create an instant sort of "bond" or air of friendliness. It also allows me to get more to the point faster and with less bullshit.

    If it's not allowed I will sort of balance myself on the arm of his chair so I can lean in and whisper in his ear

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    I usually try to find a seat next to him, I will only sit on a lap of a guy how is already buying dances and asks me to, either verbally or by body language. At my home club it is normal to see this. At the club i'm working at now, it didnn't seem appropriate. Plus they have really nice plush couches. So i just sat beside the guy after a few dances, but he asked me to sit on his lap so I did ( we have to do so clothed). I would switch legs every few minutes so(at 140-145 pounds) I wouldn't put his legs to sleep, lol.

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    If I'm confidant with myself everyone else will know...i watched 2 healthy girls sit on an elderly man...when they where gone he came and sat next 2 me and said," i like the fact that i had a chance 2 come and approach you". He also nicely as he could say he would rather approach a girl. I think if you have 2 ask how 2 do something, you need 2 try something that works for you(after you have tried another option). I feel no need to swallow a man and lock him down... Im waitting for company all night, I'm not running anywhere.so long story short he bought 4 lap dances and we talked through 3. -star
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    Default Re: Do You Use The "Sitting On My Lap" Hustle?

    I never sit on the guys lap, best to sit beside. Other girls do, and they aren't the biggest money earners from what I've seen.
    When I started I'd let the odd custy touch or stroke my arm/leg (I work in a contact club). But when I asked if they wanted a dance and they said no it really annoyed me.
    Now I say to the custys that there is no touching on the floor, but we can get a lot closer in the VIP. Absolutely no touching for free and it cuts out the timewasters.

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    I had been wondering about this lately, and I thought I'd seen a post. This also makes me wonder, what about touching in general. How soon, if at all, into the conversation do you touch their hand, face, leg (not crotch!!)? Is it a good way to signal intimacy and that you are interested, or would it be presumptuous or an invasion of personal space.
    Personally, I only tend to touch sporadically and spontaneously like if they tell a joke and as I laugh I touch their knee etc. It's only after we've had a dance and I sit back down (if I sit back down) that I go for some prolonged touching.

    What do you guys think?

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    I'm not a dancer yet so all these responses are interesting to me. Usually, in general circumstances, I let the guy initiate physical contact, I never do it. ( i.e. him pulling you into his lap if he wants you there, ect.) Hmmmm. I like the people who said 'why do it for free'? Hahaha. TRUE!

    Anyway I think - plopping on a guys lap without even a slight inclination or invitation seems to be rude and unwelcome. But whatever works for you I suppose.

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