with a sort of question at the end, for those inclined to read that long.
So there is this girl at my school. Let's call her A, just incase she or anyone else might be reading over my shoulder in the next couple days. So A is really nice, and sweet and bubbly all that. I know her in classes, and we usually socialize for 5 or 10 minutes before the beginning of 2 classes, but we've never socialized outside of that. She comes in and says "Hi -ii-ii" giving it three syllables - know what I mean by bubbly? So this morning she comes in and says,
"Hi Sweetness!" (or Hi-ii-ii)
To which I reply "Hi. Wait, you were talking to me, right?"
"Yes. As nice as these guys are, (she gestures broadly to the guy sitting at the back of the lecture hall) I think "sweetness" is just a tad..."
"Sexual harassing?"
"Yes! And for you... (or rather "for you-ou") it's just AC-curate."
"Really? Well, I am very nice" (complete lie, but she is no position to know better
"I love these double standards"
"Well, sometimes it's just another adjective"
We had some further exchange with other students that involved her underclothing - another girl asked what she was wearing yesterday, and she said she didn't remember. The other girl said it had lace and A said that she has never worn lace "overtly" to school. Then she looked around and said "you notice I said "overtly". Now you're all wondering." I respond "Yes, now everyone in here is thinking about your bra."
Just now in the library she walk over to my carral, leans over me, deliberately rubbing her breasts over my back and arm to turn on my light. When I say "deliberately", I mean she follows this by saying "Oh, I'm sorry! Did I just un-necessarily rub up against you?" It was in a funny way - like we both laughed quietly but hysterically and the guy in the opposite carral craned his little head over the partition to see what was going on (do I seem paranoid? Why does it seem like people are always spying on me?) Then she says "Sexually harassing you is going to be my new favourite thing." Then walks away. Like that was the entirety of her agenda.
Now, she is kind of heavy into Christianity and stuff. Like not so heavy that she won't wear mascara, but I think she mentioned being a church goer or something. So. Opinion. Is this friendly banter, and how much "sexual harassment" before she is officially coming on to me?



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