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    Default Getting Significant Other to Sell Your Dances?

    I saw this idea in the post in Newbie's Corner (ha) about being married.

    This girl's boyfriend comes in and tips her and talks loudly about how good she is and how he loves her dances. The customers think he's a regular and not a boyfriend.

    How well do you think this would work? My boyfriend loves the fact that I dance and plans on buying Platinum room with me and spa shows with me and other girls... but if he does things THIS way, his little bit of money ($5 to tip me or so) and his talking to other customers about me would MAKE us money as a couple.

    What do you think?

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    Default Re: Getting Significant Other to Sell Your Dances?

    Seems a little odd to me. Then again I would freak the hell out if my man stepped one foot in the club while I'm working. He knows what goes on but I truly believe if he were to see a customer groping at me etc. he'd go ballistic in an instant. I wouldn't want it any other way. I digress...If you both are comfortable as a couple I guess go for it. I would say be very careful no one finds out he's your boyfriend, things could get ugly. Be careful.

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    No, honestly I think it will backfire. I had a regular customer (around my age) who would come into the club. After he would arrive, I wouldn't get many more dances. People assumed, he was my boyfriend, and not just a customer.

    Also, I personally wouldn't want my boyfriend in the club while I work. That sounds sorta "pimpish" to me..







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    Default Re: Getting Significant Other to Sell Your Dances?

    Nada. I would never rely on who to buy my dances from on the basis of a testimonial, even a true one. Said customer probably isn't looking for the same thing that I am.

    Besides, if the gal is that good, why on earth would her "big spender" be encouraging other guys to do dances with her, hence taking away from his own time with her. I wouldn't think regular, or even boyfriend, I would think PIMP.

    Besides that, a lot of clubs would frown upon an SO being in attendance in the first place for obvious reasons.
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    My husband (back when he was my boyfriend) would come in and tip me heaps to encourage others to do the same. It worked like a charm.

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    Your boyfriend's money is already your money anyway so you might as well tell him to stay home while you make additional money,LOL.
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    Default Re: Getting Significant Other to Sell Your Dances?

    haha... I agree with onlythebest.

    Besides, I've seen this backtire way too many times. I say bad idea.

    I use to have a regular who would tell people he was my dad or grandpa to try to get them to buy dances... gar... the horror. He was a disaster!! lol. Sorry, side note.

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    Default Re: Getting Significant Other to Sell Your Dances?

    other girls will tell too

    you can think they don't know, but if they see the same guy all the time and he happens to pick you up one night....

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    Default Re: Getting Significant Other to Sell Your Dances?

    My boyfriend has come in to visit me, and I don't think it was wise because I turend down dances because I felt awkward doing that in front of him, plus I got really jealous when other girls would come up to him. But he was really curious so he got that out of his system thank goodness!!! Maybe you can try it ona slow night so you're not loosing out on anything.

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    Default Re: Getting Significant Other to Sell Your Dances?

    Quote Originally Posted by onlythebest
    Your boyfriend's money is already your money anyway
    I had a girlfriend who thought that, lol.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by dlabtot
    I had a girlfriend who thought that, lol.....
    That was a joke................................sorta.
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    His money is his and my money is ours. I kinda like it that way. So if he buys dances from me, his money becomes mine...but I use it as 'ours' anyway. >_> I know it doesn't seem to make sense, but it works for us.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan
    His money is his and my money is ours. I kinda like it that way.
    Wha....

    Girl, please tell me you really don't mean it the way I'm reading it! It sounds like you're getting pimped out.







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    He makes $600 a month. I make $1000 a week. It's kinda like - I pay for bills and things I want and he pays for fun and things he wants.

    We're getting an apartment and agreed I pay rent and he pays util and cable internet.

    I keep my funds seperate and he has no access to it. It's my choice when we go out if I want to pay for things. It's my choice if I buy something for him. He can't just up and do it. I like eating out a lot - thus I pay for us eating out 80% of the time or more. That's kinda what I meant by 'ours'.

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    ...oh...and when he gets a higher paying job he'll be putting in more money. But we agreed if he goes to school, he won't have to. I support his education because I REALLY believe in his intelligence.

    Bah, this makes it sound so bad. >_<

    It makes sense in my world.

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    hey, it's your money....

    Some of us spend it on shoes and plastic surgery. Some of us spend it on supporting a man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan
    ...oh...and when he gets a higher paying job he'll be putting in more money. But we agreed if he goes to school, he won't have to. I support his education because I REALLY believe in his intelligence.

    Bah, this makes it sound so bad. >_<

    It makes sense in my world.
    Sounds a lot like my situation. I'm paying our living expenses while my boyfriend goes to college. This is my decision, I thought about it carefully, and I don't feel taken advantage of. This is the guy I plan to spend my life with, so I see paying for his education as an investment in my future. I'd rather support him for two or three years now so hel he can get a better job later, than support him for the rest of his life working at minimum wage.

    Anyway, back to the main topic. I'm not sure how this would work. I don't see customers interact much with each other, and I think many would be uncomfortable if another customer came up to them and started talking about how great a particular dancer was. Having him tip you on stage might give others the idea of tipping you, but probably not enough to waste his time hanging around all day.

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    Ahhh Grace, you get what I meant! I see HIS future as MY future and thus investing in him is investing in me. MUCH better explanation. :X

    Meh, you're probably right on your second paragraph. In Aus, tippers are rare, so if one person comes to the stage, some other guys usually do to look better. This would only work on a busybusy night otherwise it'd be worthless. :/

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    Take it from an aussie gal who had a boyfriend (at the time - it was when I first started)... use him as a stage tipper. For those patrons who are not regulars it will encourage them to tip as alot play dumb (or are in fact genuinely clueless) about the whole 'tip the stripper on stage and she will do more' thing.

    He would come up to the stage, tip $5, sometimes 'enjoy' the show I would give him from the stage before leaving..... and it would encourage others in the place to tip as well.

    HOWEVER this club is the exception as the majority of clubs I have personally worked within will never willingly allow a dancer's SO (be it boyfriend or husband or lover even) into the club. I said willingly... once they know they will usually stop him from visiting (unless it's at the end of your shift to pick you up).


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    Default Re: Getting Significant Other to Sell Your Dances?

    I had a regular begin wandering around once telling guys that I was great because I was smart and "know computers." Oh yeah, that got me a whole lot of dances.

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    I totally actually get dances from being smart and knowing computers. XD

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan
    Ahhh Grace, you get what I meant! I see HIS future as MY future and thus investing in him is investing in me. MUCH better explanation. :X
    But you've been with him for, what, a month now? And you can't get him to say he loves you? Are you sure that your both on the same page with the shared futures? I mean, if you're going to make a real financial investment in your shared future, maybe you should think about a marriage contract?



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    Yes, I second the stage-tipper thing.

    And as a feminist I support Lilithmorrigan's attitude. We should be good husbands / sugardaddies if we want to! :-)

    Mind, nobody should let themselves be taken advantage of. But it doesn't sound like this is LM's situation. Sounds rather like she's on top of things, really.

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    I agree....we should be sugar mommies if we want to, but don't fool yourself into thinking that a guy that's been with you for a month (or two?), who lives with his mother, and won't say he loves me is a good investment.

    I'd feel like a slacker if someone was supporting me while I was in school. That's what parents, part-time jobs and student loans are for.

    I just see a lot of girls get clingy on to guys and when he doesn't get clingy back, they try to get him to become dependent on her....but it's not really her. it's her money. Then they make themselves feel better by saying they are not supporting him....they are "investing in themselves."

    Not saying it's the case, but if you have to ask other people, "you saw him! did he look like he loved me?"...then maybe it is. it seems like you're trying to convince yourself you're doing the right thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan
    Ahhh Grace, you get what I meant! I see HIS future as MY future and thus investing in him is investing in me. MUCH better explanation. :X
    I agree with Emily. How can you want to be with someone, and KNOW you want to be with them for life if you've only been a month?? Isn't this the SAME boyfriend who wanted you to keep calling the mystery property owner to see if you could move in??

    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan
    I cried for like an hour and went on and on about how men always hurt me when they said they loved me so he better not love me because he'll hurt me. I did this for about an HOUR. ;-;

    I've told him I love him, he just goes 'awww' and kisses my forehead or changes the subject. I haven't actually sat down with him and discussed it. I should totally apologize and say I didn't mean it when I was drunk (although part of me did...I was scared.)

    I told him I was scared of love and I didn't want it because it meant he could hurt me.

    <--stupid
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