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    Hello all,

    I'm a little dismayed at my last trip to Las Vegas. I went down on bussiness and it all went quite badly and I was really looking for a relaxing time at the club. So I walk into a new place down there and it seems nice at first. A lot of girls are doing the "wanna dance?" hustle and that doesn't work for me. But a few put forth the effort and talked with me so I got some dances from them. This club does a couch dance @ 2 for $40 and a private dance @ 3 for $90.

    Now, to my real question. I got a few of the 2 for $40 dances from a girl and every time I paid up $60 so I was giving a $20 tip. The place was slow and there were a lot of girls around but she never came to talk with me afterwards. So I switched to another girl and the same thing happened. Then a lady came along who was very much my type and I took her back to the VIP room for the 3 @ $90 dances and tipped her out $30 each. We did two sets and then I said I'd like to go back to my seat and chill out. She didn't come back the whole night. Am I tipping like a cheapskate?

    I do not smell, I dress very well, I ask before I touch anywhere at all, my mouth never comes into contact with them and I compliment without using crass words. I wear very little cologne. The only thing I think is a downside is that I'm overweight at about 6'1" and 305 lbs. What's the deal? Just a bad night for me?

    I'm at the club to relax and have a beautifull woman sit next to me, talk, and also give me a few lap dances. I'm married and happy, the wife knows I'm there, and when I'm home I get all that from her.

    Thanks everyone.

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    that sounds like quite fair tipping to me. the only thing i can think of, is that maybe the girls had regulars around? or maybe you didn't make it clear that you would like to spend more time with them. they might have just figured you were "done" and would like to dance with other girls now. instead of saying that you'd like to go back to your seat and chill out, you might have asked her to join you. if you didnt want the company you could have asked her to come see you again later. usually when a customer dances with me and then says he's going to go sit for awhile that's a nice way of saying that he's done dancing with me tonight and would either like to dance with some other girls or is done dancing all together.

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    That's too bad. Maybe you could have said something like - I'd like to sit for a while and just have a drink with you, could I pay you the price of a dance for your time? ...and maybe get some more dances later.
    Guys can usually get more time out of me if they do get multiple dances but space them out a bit. I'll always do this if it's not busy. Because it's easier to get $$ from someone who is already sold on you then to snare a new one.

    I definately don't think it's because of your weight. Maybe it was a busier night?

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    it's vegas. there is a lot less incentive there to be cool to customers who get multiple dances and tip generously because the girls don't need repeat business to keep the lights on and their fridges stocked.

    you did nothing wrong, you just tipped in a town where girls consider you a sucker for bothering is all.

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    Sacred may I ask what club this was? And about at what hour of the day did you go?

    Quote Originally Posted by miabella
    it's vegas. there is a lot less incentive there to be cool to customers who get multiple dances and tip generously because the girls don't need repeat business to keep the lights on and their fridges stocked.

    you did nothing wrong, you just tipped in a town where girls consider you a sucker for bothering is all.
    Bingo! That's simply the nature of the clubs in Vegas. A customer is going to be forgotten five seconds after he gives a gal his money there which is why I would never bother to tip at all above the stated price unless the gal did an exceptional job.
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    Miabella and Doc nailed it! That's Vegas. I am curious what club, it sounds like you were at a large or popular tourist club because there are clubs in Vegas with girls that will spend time with you. Usually the "locals" clubs have a more laid back atmosphere with girls that are more willing to sit with you. At the larger clubs the girls are there to get in and get out as quick as they can get their cash.

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    Thanks for all the responses. It sounds like this is the nature of Vegas. I hate that I'm moving there in the next six months! But, it sounds like there might be light at the end of the tunnel, what clubs are considered the 'local' clubs (A question for those who may know.)

    To answer the question of what club, it was 'Little Darlings' on a Wed. Night two weeks ago. It ws rather slow that night with very few people going into the VIP room that I could see.

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    I couldn't give you a specific list of local type clubs, everyone has they're favorites, mostly they are the smaller topless clubs, because guys can go there, hang out, and drink. At the larger clubs you won't find a lot of locals unless they're entertaining clients etc., the reason is because it's more of a hustle at those clubs, locals want to hang out with the girls and talk with the bartender and the DJ, not be constantly hustled for dances.

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    It sounds like your getting good advice here. I would add please don't think that your appearance has anything to do with your experience. I'm a middle aged big old troll and I have to practically chase dancers away in my home clubs-and I can promise you I never tip the way you did..

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    the only time i will tip above the set amount is when i'm to lazy to get change & to drunk to care about it.
    hell for what you tipped them i could have got 3 more ld's a couple beers & couple shots

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    pssssssssssst.............

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    Man, I'm used to a $2 - $5 tip per dance. I think you did great.
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    I don't think you did anything wrong at all.
    You might have mentioned to the girl that you would have liked to get another dance later on and that she should come back. Sometimes we assume that you are done getting dances because you're tapped out financially.
    Usually I will make it a point to make some other form of contact again later in the night with a lap dance customer. Even if I'm just giving him a small hug when he's leaving for the night, it means a lot to them to know I enjoyed their company.

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    OK, my real tip is that a customer in a new club should get a feel for "the lay of the land" before assuming a spot for building a homebase will work out. The 'atmosphere' of a club can be pervasive and (most, at least, of) the dancers will follow a set routine that you need to observe so that you can adjust your expectations to a realistic level.

    In many clubs you'd be considered an ideal customer from what you've described, and from my experiences as a customer. Too bad the club was not ideal for you. What do they say? YMMV.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    ^^^ excellent advice threlayer!!!

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    If they'd already danced for you, why would they hang around longer for free? In a high hustle environment, most of us won't waste the time (tho in a smaller, slower club I would). Next time go when it's slow, tip less, and when the dances are over ask the dancer if she'll hang out with you for X time for X dollars. Remember that if the club is reasonably busy her time is worth $20/song, and no matter how cool you are she would be losing money if she hung out with you for less.



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    Quote Originally Posted by sacred666
    Hello all,

    I'm a little dismayed at my last trip to Las Vegas. I went down on bussiness and it all went quite badly and I was really looking for a relaxing time at the club. So I walk into a new place down there and it seems nice at first. A lot of girls are doing the "wanna dance?" hustle and that doesn't work for me. But a few put forth the effort and talked with me so I got some dances from them. This club does a couch dance @ 2 for $40 and a private dance @ 3 for $90.

    Now, to my real question. I got a few of the 2 for $40 dances from a girl and every time I paid up $60 so I was giving a $20 tip. The place was slow and there were a lot of girls around but she never came to talk with me afterwards. So I switched to another girl and the same thing happened. Then a lady came along who was very much my type and I took her back to the VIP room for the 3 @ $90 dances and tipped her out $30 each. We did two sets and then I said I'd like to go back to my seat and chill out. She didn't come back the whole night. Am I tipping like a cheapskate?

    I do not smell, I dress very well, I ask before I touch anywhere at all, my mouth never comes into contact with them and I compliment without using crass words. I wear very little cologne. The only thing I think is a downside is that I'm overweight at about 6'1" and 305 lbs. What's the deal? Just a bad night for me?

    I'm at the club to relax and have a beautifull woman sit next to me, talk, and also give me a few lap dances. I'm married and happy, the wife knows I'm there, and when I'm home I get all that from her.

    Thanks everyone.

    Some entertainers think that once you pay for the dances you or they are done. Next time I would just simply pay for the dances and while giving the tip ask if they would like to join you at your table for a few then come back up and dance for a few again. That will let her know you are still interested. Some girls like to keep moving about, especially if it is busy but there are plenty who like to sit and chat with a nice gentlemen over a drink between dances.

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