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    The past two days at work have been unbelievable! Okay, first of all... I was dancing last night and a custy snaked his finger up my g-string! Meaning: He got part of his finger in my kitty (yes, I removed it right away and took action)! ARGH! That was last night... Today I was working at this peepshow I work at and I had this custy getting off on white power shit. He was Spanish and said he knew his gf (who was white) was superior to him and told his gf's mom that he "knew his place" and would be a slave to her daughter and then kissed the mom's feet... yadda yadda yadda. He went off on EVERY race that wasn't white, calling them horrible names... Which was extra upsetting because the only other girl there was black and very sweet and pretty. Then he said slavery should be reinstated and yadda yadda yadda.... THEN he said Hitler was a genius... etc. etc. Okay, so that wasn't TOO out of the ordinary. You get some FREAKS at peepshows and he was paying big time. I kinda figured he was getting off on putting himself down... like an S&M kinda thing... Who knows. BUT, then he started saying "Hail Satan" over and over again... jacking off until he came. Now, I don't believe in God... But that just does not sit right with me... Maybe you had to be there? It was really creepy.

    I banked both days but I feel like I want to peel my skin off!!!!!! I feel dirty LISTENING to that crap and I feel dirty that that douche got his finger up my pussy! It's all said and done now... No going back... But, still. I'd like to erase these memories. Any advice on how to deal when you feel dirty like this?

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    I once had a black guy that wanted me to call him "n*gger" and make racial degradations towards his race.It was crazy.He wanted me to say some seriously wacky stuff.

    There's ALL kinds out there.
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    You should have met Wendy. Wendy was an 80 year odl man who wore lingerie under a business suit. You were supposed to call him Wendy and tell him he's a dirty boy for liking big black cock. Tell him he was a big black cock slut.

    You could get $400 out of Wendy for 30 minutes of sluttly big black cock coversation.

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    I just talked with my sister about it... and I guess the bottom line is... I feel like a sell-out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan
    You should have met Wendy. Wendy was an 80 year odl man who wore lingerie under a business suit. You were supposed to call him Wendy and tell him he's a dirty boy for liking big black cock. Tell him he was a big black cock slut.

    You could get $400 out of Wendy for 30 minutes of sluttly big black cock coversation.

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    dont worry too much about it.

    these guys may be pretty sick, but we all have our problems. These guys are coming to you for relief, who knows what they would do w/o trained professionals like you. I'm being serious here, theres things that i want a girl to do to me for money, that a traditional girl from the movies just cant provide.

    Your helping these guys, letting them feel like someone understands, and when you play into their crazy fantasies... for a minute you make them feel like someone understands them, which is what they really are paying for.

    yes they are creepy and certainly crazy, but hey w/o a little crazy in this world we'd all be boring stereotypes.

    your the only people these men have to turn to.
    yeah baby I know it

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    Quote Originally Posted by BenderTheOffender
    ...These guys are coming to you for relief...

    ...for a minute you make them feel like someone understands them, which is what they really are paying for.

    ...your the only people these men have to turn to.
    Good God, man--did you actually read the originating post?!

    Sorry to disillusion you, but the guy that stuck his finger where it didn't belong wasn't looking for relief or understanding.

    If I had my way, he'd be looking for a doctor after I broke his fucking finger--but we can't do that in my club.
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    It sounds like someone needs some serious therapy...........
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    The other night i sat down with a custy and while i tried to initiate conversating he was being really weird and distant, i thought that he might have been taking drugs as i wasnt getting much out of him.He kept going on like he felt bad, that this was a sin and he had two sisters and that this was wrong ect ect. Obviously i didnt think he was the sort to take a dance but i asked him anywaay and he said yes. In my club we offer £10 or £20 so he took £20 and i danced. Just as i started dancing he was like," You look really young, how old are you?" I told him i was 23 which is the truth and he replied that i looked closer to 18. I said thanks but im 23 but ill take it as a compliment. He kept on for a bit and was like, "are you sure you look so young, i shouldnt be doing this i have 2 sisters, ect." After a while of me ignoring him and just dancing he shut up and really started to enjoy the dance. Once i was finished, he just sat there shaking his head with his head in his hands, i honesty thought he was about to cry. When i asked him what was up, he was like," i cant believe ive done this, i feel like a paedophile, ive just danced with a school girl, i cant believe you only 18." I got so annoyed at him because i felt that he thought i was trying to con him. I dragged him into the office, which is just off the dance room, and said to my boss, "tell this guy how old i am!" Which he did. The guy left still shaking his head. I then heard from another girl that he had been lamenting on to another girl how ashamed he felt of dancing with a school girl ect, shes my mate and corrected him about my age and he STILL would not believe her. WTF?
    I have a feeling that he was a bit of a pervert and wanted to believe i was very young and was trying to convince himself that we were all lying, what a weirdo.

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    The guy who stuck his finger inside you should be facing a judge in the near future. I do hope you pressed charges, because that is RAPE. Rape is the sexual penetration of an unwilling person (at least in most states), and you are not there to be penetrated by strangers. I dearly hope the rapist did not get away with it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Polekitten
    The other night i sat down with a custy and while i tried to initiate conversating he was being really weird and distant, i thought that he might have been taking drugs as i wasnt getting much out of him.He kept going on like he felt bad, that this was a sin and he had two sisters and that this was wrong ect ect. Obviously i didnt think he was the sort to take a dance but i asked him anywaay and he said yes. In my club we offer £10 or £20 so he took £20 and i danced. Just as i started dancing he was like," You look really young, how old are you?" I told him i was 23 which is the truth and he replied that i looked closer to 18. I said thanks but im 23 but ill take it as a compliment. He kept on for a bit and was like, "are you sure you look so young, i shouldnt be doing this i have 2 sisters, ect." After a while of me ignoring him and just dancing he shut up and really started to enjoy the dance. Once i was finished, he just sat there shaking his head with his head in his hands, i honesty thought he was about to cry. When i asked him what was up, he was like," i cant believe ive done this, i feel like a paedophile, ive just danced with a school girl, i cant believe you only 18." I got so annoyed at him because i felt that he thought i was trying to con him. I dragged him into the office, which is just off the dance room, and said to my boss, "tell this guy how old i am!" Which he did. The guy left still shaking his head. I then heard from another girl that he had been lamenting on to another girl how ashamed he felt of dancing with a school girl ect, shes my mate and corrected him about my age and he STILL would not believe her. WTF?
    I have a feeling that he was a bit of a pervert and wanted to believe i was very young and was trying to convince himself that we were all lying, what a weirdo.
    I think you are right. At least he realized he was having difficulties. Kinda sad... until he screws up I suppose.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah
    The guy who stuck his finger inside you should be facing a judge in the near future. I do hope you pressed charges, because that is RAPE. Rape is the sexual penetration of an unwilling person (at least in most states), and you are not there to be penetrated by strangers. I dearly hope the rapist did not get away with it!
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    Quote Originally Posted by BenderTheOffender
    dont worry too much about it.

    these guys may be pretty sick, but we all have our problems. These guys are coming to you for relief, who knows what they would do w/o trained professionals like you. I'm being serious here, theres things that i want a girl to do to me for money, that a traditional girl from the movies just cant provide.

    Your helping these guys, letting them feel like someone understands, and when you play into their crazy fantasies... for a minute you make them feel like someone understands them, which is what they really are paying for.

    yes they are creepy and certainly crazy, but hey w/o a little crazy in this world we'd all be boring stereotypes.

    your the only people these men have to turn to.
    Well, aside from the first dude... THat's how I feel when I'm at the peepshow. They get to act out their sick little fantasies and think that someone understands for a minute... And boy, do they have some sick fantasies... I'm okay with that... There was just something BAD about this dude so I felt really icky. Like he was evil or something. I feel better about it today... I just won't be dancing for him anymore.

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    What's the problem, Deogol? Surely you're not suggesting that strip-club patrons have a right to rape strippers because our consent can be implied?

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    Legally speaking, what constitutes implied consent ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by TarynJolie
    Legally speaking, what constitutes implied consent ?
    TarynJolie has the right question, Yekehfah.

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    I can't believe there is any question of implied consent here! The fact that she's walking around in a G-string is in no way consent to being forcibly penetrated. That's rape, for heaven's sake! It can't be anything else.

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    I agree with Yekhefah. Just because we're strippers doesn't make us HOOKERS. That girl, IN NO WAY, inplied she was to be molested/raped. Forcable penetration IS rape.

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    While there's no doubt in my mind that sexual assault takes place nightly in myriad stripclubs across this country, trying to get legal action would be quite difficult, in most courts.

    That is, if you could even get a cop to arrest the guy...

    That is, if you could find a prosecutor willing to nail his ass...

    And that is, if you wouldn't get immediately fired from your club by unsympathetic managers who don't want this sort of hassle and notoriety...

    The worst sort of customers get away with shit that if done anywhere else would get them severely beaten (by any kind of real man who saw it), arrested, and convicted with ease.

    But in the clubs it's up to the dancers to deal with it, and with any luck the bouncers (but usually not). The sad thing is, it's generally easier to just ignore it except in extreme cases--and even then the best that can be done in many clubs is to get away from the swine. This has usually been the case in clubs I have worked.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Djoser
    While there's no doubt in my mind that sexual assault takes place nightly in myriad stripclubs across this country, trying to get legal action would be quite difficult, in most courts.

    That is, if you could even get a cop to arrest the guy...

    That is, if you could find a prosecutor willing to nail his ass...

    And that is, if you wouldn't get immediately fired from your club by unsympathetic managers who don't want this sort of hassle and notoriety...

    The worst sort of customers get away with shit that if done anywhere else would get them severely beaten (by any kind of real man who saw it), arrested, and convicted with ease.

    But in the clubs it's up to the dancers to deal with it, and with any luck the bouncers (but usually not). The sad thing is, it's generally easier to just ignore it except in extreme cases--and even then the best that can be done in many clubs is to get away from the swine. This has usually been the case in clubs I have worked.

    No wonder the burnout rate is so high.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21
    THEN he said Hitler was a genius... etc. etc. Okay, so that wasn't TOO out of the ordinary. You get some FREAKS at peepshows and he was paying big time. I kinda figured he was getting off on putting himself down... like an S&M kinda thing... Who knows. BUT, then he started saying "Hail Satan" over and over again... jacking off until he came. Now, I don't believe in God... But that just does not sit right with me... Maybe you had to be there? It was really creepy.


    Um pardon me, but I most certainly hope you didn't actually mean that saying 'Hitler was a genius' is normal (compared to everything else he said) to say. It just read to me like you thought that comparing Hitler to others wasn't such a big deal.
    If this wasn't what you meant, no problem.
    If it is, then might I remind you that Hitler was one crazy ass wack job who had over 6 million people killed, and would have murdered more had he not been stopped.

    And on a different note, what kind of club do you work in where some guy in jacking off right in front of you? What the hell? That's totally skeevy and gross!
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    Quote Originally Posted by nychaos99
    Um pardon me, but I most certainly hope you didn't actually mean that saying 'Hitler was a genius' is normal (compared to everything else he said) to say. It just read to me like you thought that comparing Hitler to others wasn't such a big deal.
    If this wasn't what you meant, no problem.
    If it is, then might I remind you that Hitler was one crazy ass wack job who had over 6 million people killed, and would have murdered more had he not been stopped.

    And on a different note, what kind of club do you work in where some guy in jacking off right in front of you? What the hell? That's totally skeevy and gross!
    She said she worked at a peep show. Im assuming that this is different to a dancing club. Is it one of those places were you perform behind a glass screen while the custy is on the other side and pays for the curtain to lift for a certain period of time?

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    the penetrating finger came from the stripclub she works at. The jack off guy came from the PEEPSHOW she works at.

    Personally, I'd rather hear some nutjob glorify Hitler than to be physically violated by some dirtbag sneaking his finger into my vag. It certainly isn't right (to heil hitler), nor is it normal, but it's not out of the ordinary for some people to place the douchbag on a pedastal which I think is what she was saying. At least that's how I interpreted it.

    Also, I feel I should mention that I would rather not have had to deal with ANY sort of verbal or physical abuse (because that's essentially what she's describing) I mean let's face it...these guys aren't exactly saints. But there does become a point where you have to learn to block or tune out certain things. Physical violation is not one of them imo but there does come a point where we basically have to put up with the shit they dish out if we want to continue to make money off of them. I think it's easier to tune out some of the verbal diarreah they spew than to deal with physical assault. That's all I'm saying I don't want anyone to think that I think it's ok to say Hitler was a genius because I'm not.

    Now, to answer your original question bella, about how do you deal with it? Well, the beauty of this job is that you can essentially walk away from anybody (not too sure how that works at the peep show) or you can launch your own verbal assault/insults on them (typically without repercussions from mgt) That might help you feel a little better. Other techniques that worked for me were to simply tune out whatever they were saying. Taking time off works well but that isn't always feasible. The finger penetrator I would have either smacked upside his head or gouged his eyes with my fingers. Surely not the best decision but being caught off guard by a snaking finger doesn't exactly allow for clear thinking. Ultimately I just woke up one day and was sick of the whole game and decided I didn't want to do it anymore so I quit.
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    I had a really drunk guy wait until I took off my g-string, and thought it would be a good idea to try and slip a finger. I didn't even think about it, my first reaction was to punch him in the face, so I did. I got in trouble for hitting him, but it was SO worth it. But it is pretty much known in my club that I am one of the last girls to try and touch. Sad that guys know I will hit them, but I do get screwed with alot less than any of the other girls.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deogol
    TarynJolie has the right question, Yekehfah.
    It may the right question but what is the answer to the question ?

    Personally I don't think just being a dancer or doing a table or lap dance constitutes implied consent. And I also think that a customer who forces himself , even just a finger , on a dancer is sexual assault.

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