Hello ladies and gents. I know there have been other threads about giving gifts to dancers, but I have a question that I haven't seen addressed before. My ATF has a birthday coming up, and I was thinking about giving her a gift card to a nice restaurant so she and her long-term BF could have dinner on me. I would love to take her to dinner myself, but that ain't gonna happen, so I thought this would be a nice practical way to show her that I appreciate her and want her to have a nice birthday.
Question: If you received a gift like this, would you tell your husband or BF that it was from a customer, and would they have a problem with it? Or, would they just enjoy a nice dinner, and not care that it was payed for by some poor schlub who is crazy about his lady?
I've never met the BF, but I sense that he is totally cool with her dancing. I'm sure he knows she has lots of regulars, but he never comes to the club, so I think he intentionally maintains some distance from her "club" life. The last thing I want to do is create any tension between him and my ATF, which is why I'm posting this question. Thanks in advance for feedback!![]()



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For me if you're going the gift card route..why not an American Express or Visa...that way it's completely up to her where or how she wants to spend it. BTW, very sweet of you to get her a Birthday gift




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