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    Hi girls, I have a question about my first real regular. I'm still pretty new to dancing, (since October) and about a month or two after I started, I was just sitting at the bar, smoking a cigarette, and started chatting up a Middle-Eastern guy that was sitting there. He ended up getting a VIP, and I danced the whole time (I think it was 15 min) and he just kind of watched and looked rather uncomfortable. I figured maybe I wasn't what he expected, but he said he would be back. The next time he came in, he got another VIP and discovered that I could sit and talk with him on the couch. He still apologizes profusely for making me dance the first time. So we just sat and talked about his family back home, he's from Iran and has lived here for I think 5 years. He doesn't have a lot of friends or a girlfriend, he's not a bad-looking guy, but he's kind of shy and apparently a very hard worker, owns a successful business, so he doesn't really get out much. He asked to take me to dinner and I told him that I did not date guys that I met at the club, no offense to him, just a personal rule of mine. Truth is, I have a boyfriend that I have been with for almost two years now. I also told my customer that I had a female roommate.

    Well, basically, he started coming to see me every Wednesday, and eventually stopped getting VIP's because he was like "why should I give them $25 of your money?" so we just sit at the bar and talk and throughout the time we sit there he gives me 20's for my time. He calls me his love, his best friend, his angel, he really looks forward to our time on Wednesdays. And all we talk about is movies, his family, my future plans for school, etc. He's given me perfume, a gold bracelet, I told him I was learning to play guitar and he bought me two books about guitars. He's a really nice guy, and appreciates the fact that when he comes to see me, I am at work.

    I guess my question is about my own conscience. The past three weeks or so have been kind of hellish, I had to miss a lot of work, and it was like, I couldn't really give a definite answer as to when I would be back. Well he became extremely worried, was coming to the club almost every day, asking my manager if I was okay, had they heard from me, was there anything he could do. So I saw him last night after about a week and a half and he said he wanted to help me out and make sure I wasn't stressing about missing work, and he gave me $1000!!!! I mean, just for perspective a great night at this club is 3-400. When he puts money in my garter I don't even look at it, I just look at him and thank him. Well last night I went upstairs to "freshen up" and I was arranging the money he had given me and I just stood in the dressing room like "HOLY SHIT". I went back downstairs and thanked him numerous times. He says he doesn't expect anything from me, and has not even posed the question of us going out since he did the first time, but I guess I just wonder if he thinks that eventually if he keeps coming to see me, keeps giving me this money, that I'll see that he's not a freak and I'll go out with him. Do I tell him I have a boyfriend? I asked another dancer about this and she said no, your personal life is none of his business, he is the one making the choice to give you that money, you're not asking for it or giving false promises. What do you girls think?

    *Sorry so long, but I thought the details were necessary

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    Default Re: Really, *really* nice customer (long, sorry)

    i dont see a problem at all. just ride it out for as long as it lasts. he may think you will go out eventually. if he hasnt asked anymore i wouldnt stress at all!
    dont tell you have a boyfriend not at this point. just enjoy while it lasts!!

    sounds like a great no hassle customer. be happy

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    You're being honest with him and haven't led him on. Maybe you're just his little escape?

    I can see being concerned about him coming into the club all the time when you were gone, though. I would keep an eye on him and make sure he's not getting creepy, but otherwise he sounds like a loyal customer who really likes you.

    We all get those terms of endearment from customers who are caught up in the moment; you just can't take it too seriously when someone tells you he loves you in a bar.

    I wouldn't feel bad about being tipped generously; clearly he thinks you're worth it and wants to make you happy. If he's single and busy running a successful business as you said it's not an issue where or how he spends his money. And again, you haven't done anything to feel bad about since you're not leading him on. Just keep an eye on things and if the situation contines to make you uncomfortable, make your decision then. Sounds like a dream customer to me, though.

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    This is great!!! This is a dancer's dream!! As long as you don't lead him on to believe you're gonna date him or go out with him, and you're not feeling like he's becoming possessive or problematic...this sounds pretty cool to me. Just always be careful and keep your eyes and ears open!!!

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    I think that for a lot of guys, companionship is a MUCH bigger part of the equation than they'd even care to admit to themselves. Companionship from attractive females even the more so. For many, I think that it being a strip club provides the proper excuse for what they're really after (companionship) without seeming to be a loser.

    Just my 2 cents.

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    Default Re: Really, *really* nice customer (long, sorry)

    I really really LOVE this guy

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    I don't see anything wrong with that..... he could have been giving you $1000's sooner. Don't feel bad and take it

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    Rare customer! hes one in a mill enjoy him while u can gurl
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    You're lucky...why can't I ever meet customers like this? I always meet the ones who think they are doing me a huge favor by getting one dance from me, and during that one dance they constantly bug me for my phone number or to see them outside the club. LOL

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    Milk him dry!

    Don't feel bad about it, it's business.
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    Milk him dry ?
    Sorry I know I 'm not yet evan a stripper yet but is that not a bit harsh ?
    Shugs, then agian I don't know anything...

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    Default Re: Really, *really* nice customer (long, sorry)

    Not its not a bit harsh, there are many dancers that do it and the guys know it. They know we are there to take thier money.

    Penny Lane as for your customer congrats, those type are few and far between these days. To be on the safe side always be escorted to your car every night after work and never take the same way home every night. Keep your cell phone handy. Not saying the guy will ever do anything but be careful.


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    Eh, he might think he's buying you, or he might just be a good customer. Same difference, at this point. Just keep being nice to him and let him keep giving you money. Super easy. Some guys are just like that. I had a guy pay for a semester of college for me once. I have a guy now that's been giving me about $1000/month for two years... I haven't been dancing lately, so I just call him and tell him to go put money in my bank account. He loves it.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Shakira
    Milk him dry ?
    Sorry I know I 'm not yet evan a stripper yet but is that not a bit harsh ?
    Shugs, then agian I don't know anything...
    That's your job. When you START then you can have a more open minded view on what we're talking about.

    When you start dancing, sit with a guy for your entire shift and then have him give you $5 while he walks out with over $500 left in his pocket, and your entire shift at work over...and then come back and post on this subject. You'll see where I'm getting at. Your time is your $$$$$ you're worth every dollar that you get out of a customer. Don't ever lower yourself.







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    Girl, you are on fire! Shakira, your job will be to sell companionship. That includes sitting and companionship, dancing, and saying whatever you can to please your guest while he's in the club. That's what they pay for. It's not a one-time payment. It's how much they want to give so of course you encourage them to share the most money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kitty260
    Milk him dry!

    Don't feel bad about it, it's business.
    A good parasite doesn't kill her host.

    (Bio 101, probably something similar taught in business classes)
    "He will come in one of the pre-chosen forms. During the rectification of the Vuldrini, the traveler came as a large and moving Torg! Then, during the third reconciliation of the last of the McKetrick supplicants, they chose a new form for him: that of a giant Slor! Many Shuvs and Zuuls knew what it was to be roasted in the depths of the Slor that day, I can tell you!"

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