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    The New girl in the club

    If it has already been a thread on this, Sorry) .... I was wondering and curious to know what you ladies think of the new girl working in your club or starting out. Basically what i'm trying to get at is do you watch how they Hustle, how they Act, how they Work the Club? Is she the center of attention from the other girls for the 1st few nights she is working there? I personally don't care about the new girl, but i am willing to help her out and show her the ropes. Just thought i ask other ladies Opinion!!!! I know sometimes when i start a new club, I feel as if everyone is watching my every move the 1st night!!!!!

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    They are watching your first moves . That's what made me sooo nervous...not the guys, but the gals checking me out.

    I'm new to this too, having been at my club a total of 12 times.

    The girls there were nice to me. They know what it's like to be nervous and being up on stage and lapdancing the first time they ever did it, whether it's five years ago or five days ago. My club hired a lot of new girls recently as well. Mostly, I watch. I observe what they do, formulate my own style and way of dress, and the most important thing is..I do what makes me feel comfortable. I'm still nervous by the way!!
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    In my case most of the time,I could give a rat's *ss about the new girl or anyone else there.I'm there to make my money.That's it.
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    Most girls don't give a shit what others are doing.
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    I don`t even really pay attention to any new girls, the only time i have a problem is when they try to borrow something from me!!!

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    I have to admit that I do notice new girls. I don't sit and analyze their every move, but I try to get a feel for who they are and how they operate. For example, this one girl was on stage next to me and a custy comes up to tip her. He asks how old she is and she replies, "Eighteen." A few seconds later, she says to the guy, "Can you buy me a drink?" I, of course, went over to her and informed her that we get undercover cops all the time and she could get herself, the club, and the rest of the underage drinkers in a sh*tload of trouble by doing that.

    Or tonight, this girl (very obviously new to dancing) was up on stage for hours (we don't have sets) doing the same back and forth movement (and not making a dime). When I saw her in the dressing room later, I made a suggestion or two, and she came back at the end of the night thanking me (with a bag full of money in her hand).

    So, in conclusion, I don't grill new girls. I just observe every once in a while and I offer assistance/advice if necessary. When I'm the new girl, I feel like everyone is watching me too, but I definitely appreciate the help that I get.

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    I usually try to watch them the first couple shifts. Mostly because I'm a bit of a tighta** about rules, so I want to make sure the new girls was told the rules, and is actually following them. If they ahve questions, I'm generally willing to help out too, give them suggestions etc. I also like to get a feel for them in generally(i.e. whether they have an atttiude or not). But once I know they are following the rules, I don't really pay attention to them. There is too high a turnover rate for me to try and learn every new girls name and really get to know her. Besides, I'm there for the money, if I make friends, great, but thats not my goal.

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    Man, I seriously do not care about other dancers - new or otherwise. The way I make the most money is to keep to myself. Although I don't have any problem with being helpful, because being brand new can be intimidating. But I don't offer any advice unless asked.

    I did have an interested experience as the "new girl" at a club. I was hustling and doing private dances right when I hit the floor and then an hour or so later when I finally got called to the stage all of the girls working proceeded to pull their chairs together to watch, and just stared the whole set. I hadn't had that happen before. I could have let it bug me I guess. But I didn't. I really try to not get involved with any drama.

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    Mgmt and other dancers ARE watching the new girl at a club the first day or so. They are watching the kind of dances you are giving, and how you work. Even if the other girls are bending the rules, if you are doing dances like they are, until the staff and other dancers get comfortable with you, you may be tattletaled on or reprimanded.

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    I try not to pay attention, we have too many girls come and go for me to try and get to know all of them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by holiday
    I did have an interested experience as the "new girl" at a club. I was hustling and doing private dances right when I hit the floor and then an hour or so later when I finally got called to the stage all of the girls working proceeded to pull their chairs together to watch, and just stared the whole set. I hadn't had that happen before. I could have let it bug me I guess. But I didn't. I really try to not get involved with any drama.
    Yeah i've experience the same thing. When your new in the club and it's your go to do a stage show, All the girls seems to want to watch how you move or something. It's cool though i guess because, it's not like i've never done all this before!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by desavirsire
    I don`t even really pay attention to any new girls, the only time i have a problem is when they try to borrow something from me!!!

    L0l =p ....

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    I just focus on making money. I am not at work to make friends, I am there to make money. I know some girls can be kinda mean, xpecially when she is really pretty.

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    I try to be nice to the new girls, because I was new once, many years ago, and someone helped me out. I don't hang out with people outside of work, but I try to make it as pleasant as possible while I am there. My club is very friendly, and outside of some drama from time to time, it's really important to the owner to make sure that the girls are getting along well.
    I also like to watch new girls to see how they move and interact with other people. I think that it is interesting. And, if a new girl asks for help, I do my best to help her out.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sent_from_heaven11
    I just focus on making money. I am not at work to make friends, I am there to make money. I know some girls can be kinda mean, xpecially when she is really pretty.
    Yea I'm the exact same way.

    The other night, I noticed some of the dancers "bullying" on one of the new girls as she sat with a customer. It's sad...

    Like I said, I'm there to work, not make money. Sure I notice the new girls, and the veteran dancers. Neither group of girls is my problem though. I'm cordial to all, but we aren't that cool







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    being the new girl scares the hell out of me- i hate it. it definatly feels like evryone is watching and picking apart moves...ha im getting panicky just thinking about it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses

    Like I said, I'm there to work, not make money. Sure I notice the new girls, and the veteran dancers. Neither group of girls is my problem though. I'm cordial to all, but we aren't that cool
    There to work AND make MONEY.......

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    work and not make money? doesnt that defeat the objective slightly ?
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    I don't spend too much time focusing on the new girl; I am there to focus on customers and make money. At my club, I tend to be a "out of it" as far as workplace gossip, because I focus more on hustling(LOL I've been at my current club for 8months now and still don't know all of the bartenders' names!). However, sometimes I will notice the new girl and will watch her dancing, mostly because I enjoy watching the other girls' dance. Most of the new girls at my club do pretty well dancing on their first couple of days...I haven't seen any clumsy girls or anyone making obvious blunders. If I run into them in the dressing room, I will be nice and introduce myself, maybe relate some of my experiences or assure them that the club is a nice place.

    However, one time at my old club(Wizzards), there were some dancers being not-nice to new girls. Actually, it wasn't a new girl, but an audition. One of the girls stole her curling iron as a mean joke. But she was stupid enough to talk about it to the other dancers, and hide it in her locker, so she was easily caught and then fired. On top of that, she had very short hair, so what need would she have for a curling iron?! LOL. This is the only such incident I've seen, though. My current club(Oasis) is pretty good.

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