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    WTF is that all about?

    We all get the "no thank you's" or the "maybe laters" But Have you had that happen? I usually get the "Nah, I'm sorry" like 2-3x per night everytime I work. Last night I approached this guy like this:

    Me: Hi, Would you like to get the 2-4-1 special (something like that)
    Him: Nah, I'm sorry....
    Me: Oh, don't be sorry. Why are you sorry for?
    Him: Well, you just look so disappointed.
    Me: Oh no, not at all. Trust me, there are PLENTY of guys who will be buying dances from me. I'm not disappointed at all.
    Him: Oh, ok well that's cool then...

    Is this like a power trip for some guys? Do they want you to be begging their ass for a dance? What the hell??







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    LOL in my mind, I would be thinking, yeah, what the fuck is this guy sorry for? He should be 'sorry' my ass didn't sit on his lap
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    He be a sorry mutha*** not to want "Cinnie" & it's his loss..


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    Default Re: "Nah, I'm sorry"

    He's probably just a cheap bastard and that's his way of beating around the bush. I wouldn't even waste my time talking to him, if it were me, I'd immediately move on. He can then keep being sorry to someone else.

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    I hear this, too, along with "OK, I'll *let* you dance for me." Gee, really? Thanks, mister! I get the feeling a lot of customers think having the money gives them the upper hand.

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    Thats like, " If I get one it'll be from you." What is this, like this is suppose to do something for me? Or.. " Thank you for asking." Now this is real nice but actually you already thanked me when you told me " No, thank you."


    Guys are weird.

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    Ugh, guys can be idiots sometimes. It is annoying as hell to have them try and get an ego boost acting like an ass towards a girl.

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    Default Re: "Nah, I'm sorry"

    Yeah..theyre most likely DISSAPOINTED that they have no money and just SORRY to say it!!!!

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    Some guys do act like you're doing THEM a favor. I feel like saying, I'm 'sorry' for your stupid ass for having to pay a beautiful girl to sit on your lap because you don't have one at home!!

    Okay, I should stop being a bitch now
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    I get all of one song (three minutes) to get a guy to do the 2-4 -1 or my butt has to be on stage doing the dance of shame with all the other girls that didn't get picked.. Trust me, the "I'm sorry" is more of a waste of time than anything else.. Basically I feel ike saying, "you me, dance now" most of the time.
    Ugh, I hate dance specials.. We don't get a discount on house fees, how come the guys get a discount on my dance.. Blech, and half the time I am already in the back, so the guy that would have paid me 40 is only paying 20... Grr grr grr
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    I walked up on this young dude last night. He told me to my face that he was "just enjoying the scenery" I pulled on of my "Yekhefah cards" (what I like to call em' lmao) and said, "well you enjoying the scenery doesn't exactly pay our bills you know" so he says, "yea well I"m just hanging out" so I said, "oh so basically you're just taking up additional, unneeded space huh" Enjoy yourself!!! Then I walked away!
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    Default Re: "Nah, I'm sorry"

    ^^^^ he he
    I usually just pat them on the head and say sssshhhh.. then walk away. They usually end up leaving or getting a dance from someone after that, he he.
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    I'm not a high roller, but I do probably spend as much ($1000 or more per month) as the average strip club denizen and, of course, I need to say "no" far more often than "yes" (else I'd be spending tens of thousands per month). I try to say it politely, and my guess is that the "I'm sorry" response in the original post is just someone trying to be polite.

    One of the effects of my having visited this board is that I've stopped saying "Maybe later" when I don’t mean it. Now I just say "No thanks" when I'm not planning to buy dances. But in many cases, I really haven’t made any decisions on how I'm going to spend the night's money, or I've just come out of the couch dance room (and, yes, am just hanging out for a while). So now I need to think of a way to respond in these circumstances so that I don’t aggravate the dancers needlessly!
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    Default Re: "Nah, I'm sorry"

    lol... If she just received a dance, say so! Some guys like to stay in the back room constantly, some need a break. It never bothers me, I usually ask if they want me to sit with them, they either say yes or no depending on whether or not they want a dance later.
    It really is your choice to get dances or not, just don't expect the dancers to be happy if you don't spend anything. Many men really do come in for the free show and it kills me because if we don't get the 2-4-1 we have to go on stage where these cheapskates get to watch us dance around for free once again.. Grrrrrr
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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses
    WTF is that all about?

    We all get the "no thank you's" or the "maybe laters" But Have you had that happen? I usually get the "Nah, I'm sorry" like 2-3x per night everytime I work. Last night I approached this guy like this:

    Me: Hi, Would you like to get the 2-4-1 special (something like that)
    Him: Nah, I'm sorry....
    Me: Oh, don't be sorry. Why are you sorry for?
    Him: Well, you just look so disappointed.
    Me: Oh no, not at all. Trust me, there are PLENTY of guys who will be buying dances from me. I'm not disappointed at all.
    Him: Oh, ok well that's cool then...

    Is this like a power trip for some guys? Do they want you to be begging their ass for a dance? What the hell??
    Well no, they want you to go away, and that's their way of being polite about it.


    I use this as a backup line for the gals that don't quite understand "no thank you sweetie", or ones who think I'm entitled to buy a dance or drink just because they plopped themselves down at my table without asking.

    When guys are tired from work (or home), they come into the club and want to get acclimated to the environment. They have their attention focused on someone and then someone else approaches them from behind, or at the wrong time, and startles them. Its discomforting, and they want to rid that discomfort as quickly and uneventfully as possible. Sometimes when that happens, the shoo-off words don't quite come out like the other person would like to hear it.

    So to review, "I'm sorry" or "Maybe Later" = "No Thank You". They're not sorry about anything, so dont' read more into it than that. There's enough real stupidity to be offended about.
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    I see you're point Doc, but this is the point I'm making. The guy actually looks SORRY that he can't get a dance. I mean, sad face and all...

    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses

    Him: Nah, I'm sorry....
    Me: Oh, don't be sorry. Why are you sorry for?
    Him: Well, you just look so disappointed.
    Me: [img]images/smilies/rolleyes.gif[/img] Oh no, not at all. Trust me, there are PLENTY of guys who will be buying dances from me. I'm not disappointed at all.
    Him: [img]images/smilies/embarassed.gif[/img] Oh, ok well that's cool then...
    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish
    So to review, "I'm sorry" or "Maybe Later" = "No Thank You". They're not sorry about anything, so dont' read more into it than that. There's enough real stupidity to be offended about.
    "I'm sorry" and "maybe later" are two totally different comments. I take "maybe laters" as just that. I come back later, and remind them that is what they wanted me to do. I get my dance.

    The guys I notice who say "I'm sorry" are the ones who aren't buying ANYONE dances, or even tipping at at the tiprail.

    Some men really do come into the club for a free show. I know it's hard for some of you guys to imagine this..but yes it does happen. Alot more often than you think.







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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses
    WTF is that all about?

    We all get the "no thank you's" or the "maybe laters" But Have you had that happen? I usually get the "Nah, I'm sorry" like 2-3x per night everytime I work. Last night I approached this guy like this:

    Me: Hi, Would you like to get the 2-4-1 special (something like that)
    Him: Nah, I'm sorry....
    Me: Oh, don't be sorry. Why are you sorry for?
    Him: Well, you just look so disappointed.
    Me: Oh no, not at all. Trust me, there are PLENTY of guys who will be buying dances from me. I'm not disappointed at all.
    Him: Oh, ok well that's cool then...

    Is this like a power trip for some guys? Do they want you to be begging their ass for a dance? What the hell??
    LOL.... no doubt giving him a hard time for saying 'sorry' really makes him want to buy dances from you in the future. Especially since it's obvious that yes, you actually are disappointed that you didn't make a sale. Why else would you be so snippy about it?

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    You know, some guys just feel the need to explain why they aren't going to get dances from you and this is just one of the things they say. No need to really analyze it. this is how I hear what they say:

    "Are you ready for some dances?"
    A: "Yeah, let's go"
    B: "No, I would but blah blah blah blah blah blah"

    Just let them give you the spiel, no biggie. "I'm sorry" is pretty fucking low on the list of potentially annoying things you're gonna hear all night.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dlabtot
    LOL.... no doubt giving him a hard time for saying 'sorry' really makes him want to buy dances from you in the future. Especially since it's obvious that yes, you actually are disappointed that you didn't make a sale. Why else would you be so snippy about it?
    No, I don't think I gave him a hard time. You thought it was obvious that I was disappointed..Ummm no Trust me, I got a dance from the next person.
    I just think it's funny (and sad) that broke people actually come into the club to "hangout"







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    Quote Originally Posted by dlabtot
    LOL.... no doubt giving him a hard time for saying 'sorry' really makes him want to buy dances from you in the future. Especially since it's obvious that yes, you actually are disappointed that you didn't make a sale. Why else would you be so snippy about it?
    Again, why are all you men posting in here? This is stripping general, NOT Customer Conversation..







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    Ehh, I'm with Susan - it's much easier on your sanity to just start walking as soon as you hear anything but YES or OK. Let them explain to the breeze your ass makes as you make your way on to the next guy

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    A lot of these guys don't have any money, and are just hanging out. How old are these guys who are saying that to you? You work in a juice bar, right? Juice bars attract a lot of young hanger outers.

    Hicks and young customers are not the ones with the most disposable incomes.

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    ^^^^ There you go, if anything it lets them see what they are missing as you walk away, he he
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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses
    Again, why are all you men posting in here? This is stripping general, NOT Customer Conversation..
    Because there is not a rule against posting here, there is merely an admonition to be appropriate and not go overboard. I didnt understand that to mean that I wasn't allowed to post a contrary view. There is a fuller discussion of thes issues here: Important Information!!!

    In this case, the thread seemed to be devolving into a kind of ra-ra, you-go-girl chorus. But all the guy did was use the word 'sorry'... if I were pitching a project and the prospective client said, 'sorry, I'm not interested', I don't think it would help my future prospects or my present attitude to get in the client's face about how they don't need to be 'sorry'. It would simply be impolite and unprofessional.

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    Because there have been alot of male postings in this thread. I didn't post this for you men to site an opinion...Next time I guess I'll write "no boys allowed" or something in the thread title..
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