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    Im trying to figure out a way when me and my bf go out with his friends and there SO to stay in the conversation. My BF (Lets call him Tim) is 17 years older than me. So when Tim and I go out the couples are in their late 40's or early 50's.Im fine when its just me and his friend but I notice sometimes (its happened twice with 2 different women) when we go out the women always wanna talk about how it was back in the days. I try to stear it back to something that we can all talk about but after getting tired of going back in forth with the women (that keep bringing up subjects that I cant possibly remember) I get bored and sort of just stay quiet. My BF always incudes me in the topics , but it just doesnt help. I love hanging out with other couples with my man but I just wonder sometimes if these women do this to puposely exclude me??

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    Quote Originally Posted by goldengrl69
    Im trying to figure out a way when me and my bf go out with his friends and there SO to stay in the conversation. My BF (Lets call him Tim) is 17 years older than me. So when Tim and I go out the couples are in their late 40's or early 50's.Im fine when its just me and his friend but I notice sometimes (its happened twice with 2 different women) when we go out the women always wanna talk about how it was back in the days. I try to stear it back to something that we can all talk about but after getting tired of going back in forth with the women (that keep bringing up subjects that I cant possibly remember) I get bored and sort of just stay quiet. My BF always incudes me in the topics , but it just doesnt help. I love hanging out with other couples with my man but I just wonder sometimes if these women do this to puposely exclude me??
    Sounds to me like they don't like you, or maybe they are trying to give you a hint to go hang out with people your own age. They may not like you with him. It could be either. Either way, I wouldn't hang out with them again. You can't trust them.

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    Thats the same thing I was thinking. I have a good friend who is 48 years old and we are great together. But then she's hot and is very secure with her self.

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    Quote Originally Posted by goldengrl69
    ...I just wonder sometimes if these women do this to puposely exclude me??
    Yes, they do. Women are b*tches. I don't know what to tell you though, I think it just comes with the territory.

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    Whenever that happens to me I join the conversation saying, "Oh yeah, I remember my mother (or grandmother) telling me about that." It always seems to shut them up.



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    It's just their way to point out that although you have nice, tight, smooth skin, they (being older) have more experience. It's a way for them to feel better about their age. Don't take it personally. Let them have the spotlight, some day you may find yourself in their shoes. It might not seem fair, but hey, remember you're young enough you could be their daughter and you're sleeping with their friend. Just enjoy being out with your man and nevermind the old broads.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hardkandee
    Whenever that happens to me I join the conversation saying, "Oh yeah, I remember my mother (or grandmother) telling me about that." It always seems to shut them up.


    Good one!!!

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    Older people also tend to get stuck in a time warp--this goes for music, entertainment, and conversation as well.

    Personally, I cannot bear being around people who are stuck in the past. I lose patience very quickly.

    I date a lot of younger women since I want someone who is in good shape, so long as their minds are developed. I wouldn't take them out with people who are like that which you describe. It sounds boring as all hell...

    It's so funny to go to restaurants, etc., and see all these weak, flabby, suburban people my age--they are like a different species.

    Your boyfriend needs to find friends closer to your youthful mindset, that you both can hang out with--or you can find them.

    Of course, a lot of it probably is jealousy, as well. Hell I've had older women get pissed off at me when they find out I am dating someone a lot younger than they are, without even meeting the woman.
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    Yea Djoser , Ive seen women get pretty pissed off at men that date considerably younger women.They look at me like im stupid and just giving away the pussy and they look at him like he's a pervert. Its funny that we dont get the same negative attention from men.

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    I whip out the "My Mom said the same thing" line on 'em too. It seems to calm them down. It's good to find some things you have in common with them and even ask them about the old days. They start to feel appreciated by you. Oddly enough they can offer support and suggestions and encouragement too if they're not total biatches.

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    Eh, I've had to deal with plenty of bullshit from my hubby's so called friends. They knew nothing about me, but all they could say was "You're dating a 20 year old stripper! iT WILL NEVER WORK, SHE FUCKS HER CUSTOMERS FOR A LIVING!SHE JUST WANTS YOUR MONEY!!!!"

    I can't be bother with petty shit like that and neither can he

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