Im trying to figure out a way when me and my bf go out with his friends and there SO to stay in the conversation. My BF (Lets call him Tim) is 17 years older than me. So when Tim and I go out the couples are in their late 40's or early 50's.Im fine when its just me and his friend but I notice sometimes (its happened twice with 2 different women) when we go out the women always wanna talk about how it was back in the days. I try to stear it back to something that we can all talk about but after getting tired of going back in forth with the women (that keep bringing up subjects that I cant possibly remember) I get bored and sort of just stay quiet. My BF always incudes me in the topics , but it just doesnt help. I love hanging out with other couples with my man but I just wonder sometimes if these women do this to puposely exclude me??


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It's good to find some things you have in common with them and even ask them about the old days. They start to feel appreciated by you. Oddly enough they can offer support and suggestions and encouragement too if they're not total biatches.


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