Results 1 to 15 of 15

Thread: I can't live here anymore (rant)

  1. #1
    Featured Member greggy's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2005
    Location
    New York
    Posts
    983
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 4 Times in 3 Posts

    Default I can't live here anymore (rant)

    I moved into this girl's apartment at the beginning of March. She has a very tiny 2bdrm apartment (it's really a converted one bedroom), and I'm renting the master bedroom for $600/month. Just me and her, right? Suddenly, her mom is moving in with us and staying in her bedroom. Her mom doesn't speak a word of English (the girl barely speaks it herself), but she's very sweet and I speak enough Spanish to get by. Fine, I can handle that. But next thing you know, the girl says to me, "My father is coming to visit." Well, that's the same thing you said about your mom, and she's living here now, so how long is the father staying? I should've asked her, but I didn't. So now, the father is here (been here for about a week) and I am so uncomfortable.

    The place is a cluttered mess now with all his stuff in the kitchen/living room area. The man is at the house all day long. I am so uncomfortable living with a grown strange man. If it were her brother, I'd be ok with that b/c he's our age, but I don't trust older men like that. And to top things off, the guy leaves the toilet seat up. I CAN'T STAND THAT!!!

    There are so many people in this damn house that I can never use the bathroom. I'm sitting here, right now, looking around my room for a bucket b/c I have to pee so bad. I might just have to walk up to the McDonald's (and I hate using public bathrooms). I'm so uncomfortable that I don't even want to take a shower. I like to do that in the afternoon when nobody's here, but he's here all day. If I had a car, I would drive up to my mom's house (almost 2hrs. away) just to take a shower. My bf is out of town, so I can't shower at his place (nor can I stay with him b/c he lives in a college dorm). I'm supposed to babysit my niece today, maybe I'll shower at my sister's place.

    Why does it have to be like this? I can never find a decent place to live where I'm happy. So now, I'm searching for a new place, again. I move like every 6 months, and being that I'm in school, I need stability.
    Last edited by greggy; 04-10-2006 at 05:20 AM. Reason: spelling

  2. #2
    God/dess cinammonkisses's Avatar
    Joined
    Aug 2002
    Location
    Some Fat guys Lap!
    Posts
    9,647
    Thanks
    11
    Thanked 90 Times in 67 Posts

    Default Re: I can't live here anymore (rant)

    Forget that Greg! Get you another place. Paying $600/month and you can't even get the ultimate enjoyment out of your living space?

    Did you sign a lease, or just move in? GET OUT!!!

    It will do nothing but continue to go down from here. Grown men should never have to live with young ladies like you guys! He should have his own. If you're already uncomfortable, it will just get worst. You don't know him like that!







    Some Douchebag: "[Pimp C] 12:43 am: its true we got to stick together the black people on SW CK you is teh condoleeza of SW"


  3. #3
    God/dess Deogol's Avatar
    Joined
    Dec 2003
    Posts
    5,493
    Thanks
    120
    Thanked 50 Times in 35 Posts

    Default Re: I can't live here anymore (rant)

    Illegals?

    Wait till her brothers and friends of her brother's start moving in! You will soon have six vans parked in the front yard.

    I would trust an adult male before some hormone charged youngin any day though - unless the dude has been to jail or something like that.

  4. #4
    God/dess
    Joined
    Jul 2005
    Posts
    3,354
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 57 Times in 3 Posts

    Default Re: I can't live here anymore (rant)

    Eep! Get outta there, girl! You shouldn't have to feel uncomfortable in your own place!

  5. #5
    God/dess
    Joined
    Jan 2005
    Location
    NJ
    Posts
    3,786
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: I can't live here anymore (rant)

    Sounds really icky and uncomfortable. Best advice is to move out right away but until you find a place could you stay with your sister or something?

    Sorry sweetie. At least you're still concentrating on school. Keep up the good work!

  6. #6
    God/dess gypsy_girlchild's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2004
    Location
    Va mostly
    Posts
    2,750
    Thanks
    3
    Thanked 52 Times in 41 Posts

    Default Re: I can't live here anymore (rant)

    Yuo need to talk to this girl and now. You agreed to pay yourhalf of the rent and you should be received half of the place. Strangers suck to live with as well as unwanted houseguests that don't seem to be in any hurry to leave.
    What are your options? Does this girl know you are unhappy? What is she thinking? I understand that family comes first, but this it isn't the same when the space they are using isn't hers to lend them.
    Hope it all works out.
    Please don't lick me, it tickles..



  7. #7
    God/dess Bridgette's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2002
    Location
    Gettin the fuck outta Dodge!
    Posts
    14,241
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: I can't live here anymore (rant)

    Quote Originally Posted by Deogol
    Illegals?

    Wait till her brothers and friends of her brother's start moving in! You will soon have six vans parked in the front yard.
    Yep. And you might find yourself listening to chickens on the roof. hehe

    I'd be moving out on the double. And never mind giving her notice, I'd just pack up and walk out when she's not home. Serves her right.

    Quote Originally Posted by pheno View Post
    When you lead a nontraditional life don't try to measure it with traditional milestones.

  8. #8
    God/dess KamrynAnne's Avatar
    Joined
    Aug 2005
    Posts
    2,469
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 6 Times in 5 Posts

    Default Re: I can't live here anymore (rant)

    are you financially stable enough to move right now????? if not she may have to deal with it until the funds are available for her to get out..... keep your head up and the time will pass..... when exactly are her parents going to "move" out?????

  9. #9
    Yekhefah
    Guest

    Default Re: I can't live here anymore (rant)

    Go ahead and move out ASAP. She probably wants that bedroom so all her aunts, uncles, and cousins can have it. She's got no right to bitch because you signed up to live with HER, not her whole family!

    If you're on the lease with her, call the landlord and tell him she's moved her family in. They'll either evict her, or scare her into getting them out. Be sure and tell the landlord how long they've been there so she can't say they're "just visiting."

  10. #10
    God/dess gypsy_girlchild's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2004
    Location
    Va mostly
    Posts
    2,750
    Thanks
    3
    Thanked 52 Times in 41 Posts

    Default Re: I can't live here anymore (rant)

    I have to agree with everyone who feel sthat you are getting the short end of the stick. you are paying for her family to be there, essentially because she probably can't afford the place on her own, but that is NOT your fault.
    I really hope you get this settled before it stresses you further.
    Please don't lick me, it tickles..



  11. #11
    Featured Member greggy's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2005
    Location
    New York
    Posts
    983
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 4 Times in 3 Posts

    Default Re: I can't live here anymore (rant)

    Yea, I'm starting to look for my own place now. I don't exactly have enough for a security deposit on a new place yet, but I should have it soon (and if not, I'll get it from my mommy). I'm going to look at some places tomorrow and Wednesday. Hopefully I find something. I can't stay with my sister since her place is even crazier (she, her two kids, and her BF live with her mother, her mother's 8 yr. old twins, our other sister, and that sister's daughter... and their Uncle sleeps on the couch and he's creepy too). I was over there all day today and almost lost my mind with all those kids around. Who knows, maybe this will prompt me to go to the gym now since I'll do whatever I can to be out of the house.

  12. #12
    God/dess
    Joined
    Jul 2005
    Posts
    3,354
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 57 Times in 3 Posts

    Default Re: I can't live here anymore (rant)

    Eep! Well good luck finding a place! I hope things get better for you!

  13. #13
    God/dess KamrynAnne's Avatar
    Joined
    Aug 2005
    Posts
    2,469
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 6 Times in 5 Posts

    Default Re: I can't live here anymore (rant)

    why don't you seek out some living arrangments with classmates at your school.. i know there are boards with lots of postings on them with people looking for roomates... i almost had to resort to that at one point.. it might work out for you.. that way your in a more studious environment.

  14. #14
    God/dess gypsy_girlchild's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2004
    Location
    Va mostly
    Posts
    2,750
    Thanks
    3
    Thanked 52 Times in 41 Posts

    Default Re: I can't live here anymore (rant)

    Good luck, hope you find something you like!
    Please don't lick me, it tickles..



  15. #15
    Veteran Member bella du jour's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2006
    Location
    NJ
    Posts
    397
    Thanks
    7
    Thanked 51 Times in 30 Posts

    Default Re: I can't live here anymore (rant)

    time for craigslist!

Similar Threads

  1. Replies: 18
    Last Post: 05-31-2010, 02:12 PM
  2. DJs!! cant live with them, cant live without them!!
    By babybambi08 in forum Newbie Board
    Replies: 9
    Last Post: 05-02-2009, 09:14 PM
  3. Dear Girls At My Club....RANT RANT RANT
    By cutey5032 in forum Stripping (was Stripping General)
    Replies: 20
    Last Post: 03-21-2008, 04:34 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •