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    Default doubles for your first night?

    i thought that one thread, "dancing with people you know" would be about going in your first night with a friend who has experience dancing, but it was about running into people you know while you are dancing. it's a very small world, everyone knows that... but it got me thinking.

    when i've thought about dancing in the past, i was going to go in and freelance with my best friend and learn by doing "doulbles" but it didn't happen before she moved away to alberta.

    what do you ladies think about that idea? the scariest thing for me is going in there all alone not knowing what in the world i am doing. i've had friends say they would just come with me... right, and hang around doing nothing while i work?
    what about bringing in a good male freind who could by a dance off of you after your first or something?

    it's just that dive... the big leap... that is frightening. if it were any other job i wouldn't be so nervous. i wish i was a nudist... then maybe i wouldn't feel this way b/c i would be totally comfotable in my own skin... everyone has something they don't like about themselves right? any thoughts on the doubles idea?

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    Default Re: doubles for your first night?

    I would suggest going by yourself. If you and a female friend go to audition together, what if they only want to hire one of you? Even if you both get hired, you may not be able to work together (same shifts, same nights). I personally think it's best just to dive right in. You have to become comfortable working by yourself, and it may be hard to do that with a friend there with you. If you have a good male friend, sure, invite him to come in as a customer to visit you, but DO NOT bring him along to your audition, and don't spend the whole night sitting with him.
    Take the road less traveled- just make sure you have a map.

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    Default Re: doubles for your first night?

    thanks madison... you're right... just dive.
    in my area though, i've never heard of having to try out. it's weird. usually you go to freelance, (they'll let anyone who pays the house fee) and if they think you're hot, they ask you to go on schedual. or you are discovered at amature night.

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    Default Re: doubles for your first night?

    Where are you in Ontario? Chances are you dont have to audition. You can just call a club, ask their freelance policy and show up with a friend. You may or may not have to go on stage. You pay the fee(which is anywhere from $20 - $50 depending on the area). Its not hard to get a job as a dancer in Ontario for the most part. The hardest thing is finding a decent club to work at.

    Dont bring friends to hang out with you, you will get to disracted, go alone or with a friend who has done it before, dont go with another newbie, you two will stick to close to eachother and become to reliant on eachother. It is scary going alone but sometimes its just better that way.

    Good luck

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    Default Re: doubles for your first night?

    It is scary, but I found it easier BECAUSE I didn't know anyone. They are all strangers to you, so you're 'real' self isn't up on display. If it helps to think that way...

    My first night I just stood by the bar and talked to the manager for the first hour or so. Cally is right, you probably won't be asked to audition. They will probably just look at you in your street clothes, ask a few questions, and if they hire you, whether or not you're able to get yourself on stage/ through your first shift will be your real audition.

    It's scary the first night, no doubt. I actually don't remember much of mine, and I wasn't drunk at all. Just the adrenaline made it a blur. Then it really just is a job though. It truly is easier when you realize there are all sorts of naked women around. Takes the pressure off it being 'all about you'. Don't bring your friends. It'll make it way harder, and will reflect poorly on you in all likelihood (hanging around them will not make you money, and that's why you're there after all). Treat it like any other job and it will become that way for you eventually.

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