What is behind this?? Sometimes out of nowhere my man says "Guys hit on you huh??" Should I say yes (the truth) or no( the bold face lie) ? What does this mean?
What is behind this?? Sometimes out of nowhere my man says "Guys hit on you huh??" Should I say yes (the truth) or no( the bold face lie) ? What does this mean?
say yes
you can't control other guys. You can just control how you respond to it.




It means he might be blind to reality.Originally Posted by Star_bare_elegance
It also might mean that he has an irrational beleif that you stopped being attractive to other men once you started going out with him.
Say yes. If the truth that guys hit on you is something that will cause problems for him and make him cause problems for you, then a true aspect of his character will be revealed, and you can asses whether thats a character you want to be with.

"with" other men is another thingOriginally Posted by King
but I like to know that my guy is attractive to other women...and I like to know that he turns them down! It's a pride thing.
My guy knows I get hit on a lot, both inside and outside the club. He loves it because I won't have any of it. He likes knowing that all those guys want me but he's the only one that actually gets me! He even likes that I go to work and tease all those other guys and then come home all hot for him. It's just a matter of perspective!
My guy loves it, heck, he's with a hottie!!! No one wants to be with someone that no one else wants!
Now, them doing it in front of him is a whole other sotry!
Please don't lick me, it tickles..
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