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    Do dancers discuss how much $ they get from thier customers? I am currently splitting my time up between 3 or 4 ladies, I am generous to all, but not equally. Am I being discussed in the back room concerning how much I put out?

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    Default Re: Do dancers compare notes?

    If the ladies are friends I'd say yes.

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    Default Re: Do dancers compare notes?

    more than likely yes

    but it depend on where they are in the social pecking order. and whether or not they ingauge in the gossip rumormongering and backbitting
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    Yes, you are.
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    Quote Originally Posted by pcbman
    Do dancers discuss how much $ they get from thier customers? I am currently splitting my time up between 3 or 4 ladies, I am generous to all, but not equally. Am I being discussed in the back room concerning how much I put out?
    Yes, and that's not the only thing about customers they discuss in the "back room" either. For example, there's a particular thing I like a particular dancer to do to me in the VIP, and recently whenever I take a girl, any girl back to VIP she tries to do that thing to me too. The other night I had to stop this girl and tell her, "Don't do that". She looked confused, but I only like it when that particular dancer does it to me. Not anyone else. So yah , girls talk!

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    Quote Originally Posted by pcbman
    Am I being discussed in the back room concerning how much I put out?
    Affirmative. Just as dancers are being discussed on the internet concerning how much they put out, and with respect to the last link, I may mean that literally.

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    Not me personally, never. And besides, the girls will lie to one another. Don't worry about it, nothing you can do if you like the girls.

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    ^^ ya it does depend on the dancer. I don't talk to the other girls about customers or my money.

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    I don't usually talk about my own customers, except to agree if someone says they are nice, which they are, ha ha...
    BUT, I have been known to warn brand new girls of the customers that will prey on them. I work in this one club where a certain guy comes in to find out who is new, especially to the industry. He will then try to convince them that "all" the other girls let him do this and that and that he will pay for it if they allow him to. He's a predator and should have been banned long ago, but the owner is firends with him. So I let them know what to expect, no need for them to quit because of some creep. I wish someone had warned me, becuase that man really creeped me out when I first started dancing, although I didn't quit, I came close.
    And I never ever tell how much I make, I don't want to know what others are making so I don't think they need to know what I make.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    Not me personally, never. And besides, the girls will lie to one another. Don't worry about it, nothing you can do if you like the girls.
    That's how I am. I dont discuss my money with anyone. If I'm cool w/ the girl, I may say, "yea we were in VIP 2x" or someting like that, but I won't give an actual amount of money that has been spent on that particular customer.

    Katrine is right : Girls do lie about their earnings.

    There is a custy who comes in my club who has about 3 reg dancers he takes to VIP. The girls don't even talk to eachother anymore cause they are each tryin to maximize their time in VIP. It's really sad....







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    I won't talk about how much the customer is spending on me, because word gets around fast, and I don't want everyone else trying to sit with him and get money from him. If a girl goes and sits with a customer that I had been sitting with, then fine. But I'm not going to give her the heads-up to go do so (unless I'm done with him and want to share his wealth with a friend).
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    As proven by the last five comments, some dancers are smarter than others...
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    They sure do exchange information. But in my experience it's often nothing more than, "Oh he's nice." This translates from stripper to Standard English as “He tips well." Otherwise many dancers guard custie info like McDonalds guards the formula for its secret sauce. You certainly don't want your co-workers gaining any type of competitive advantage now would you?

    Of course I really don't know what goes on in the dressing rooms. Non-stop pillow fights are my guess.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Docido
    But in my experience it's often nothing more than, "Oh he's nice." This translates from stripper to Standard English as “He tips well."
    I guess I"m not "stripper literate" then...When I comment that a customer is "nice" he really is. Personality sells...I don't comment on what a customer tips me. Why should I??







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    Like Cin and Kat I never talked in specific numbers. If I said anything it was in terms like " ___ was great to me tonight " or " ___ was cheap tonight "

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    Yeah..., they always going to have a few words in about customers that come and go from the club. He's cheap, He's loaded, etc. But i can't talk my personal money making, customer business to other woman in the club. THAT'S A NO NO.......I hate when they ask me to.

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    These are the answers that I expected to see, people in sales don't want to give the competition any leads. The feeling I get sometimes is that there are charts and graphs in the dressing room, with the first girl to hit the goal getting a free trip, or maybe a Saturday night off. Not that the hustle is obvious or overbearing, quite the opposite. I always have a great time when I visit, I get treated like royalty! Sometimes it does seem absurd though. Thanks for the replies!

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    I share some information when it'll be useful to others and not hurt me.
    -that guy at the right corner of the stage near the door - he's looking for a busty blonde and he's been tipping his waitress with tens (I'm a 34A redhead)
    - those guys at the corner couch want more girls to sit with them (and they're already paying me for an hour)
    - the big table has a bachelor party that wants to get the bachelor dances from every girl in the club (and I've already done a few for them)
    - the younger guys under the mirror will tip on stage but don't seem to be buying (they've turned me and three other girls away)

    The only time I ever mention specific dollar figures is when it's been a really crappy night and we're commiserating over how crappy it's been (happened twice, both times I was walking out with a hundred or less).

    We tend to speak about customers in more general terms -- he's sweet, he's a big spender, she's really nice, they've taken good care of me, he's a pig but he tips. . . that sort of thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pcbman
    These are the answers that I expected to see, people in sales don't want to give the competition any leads. The feeling I get sometimes is that there are charts and graphs in the dressing room, with the first girl to hit the goal getting a free trip, or maybe a Saturday night off. Not that the hustle is obvious or overbearing, quite the opposite. I always have a great time when I visit, I get treated like royalty! Sometimes it does seem absurd though. Thanks for the replies!
    Hahah, I WISH! My club does'nt have a sales goal chart. We have a paper that is posted on the bulliten board. It lists the TOP 10 dancers in the club for that month. March 2006 I made #10, which was a first I got so many kudos from the dancers and management.

    The owner told me he uses that as a guide to motivate the new girls to want to get on that list. Now that I'm on there, I wanna get higher up on that list.

    The only downside is that they count couch dances only, not VIPS/Champagne Room. That's where I spend majority of my time







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    I talk (in detail) with my friends and acquaintances about customers we share(it's not very catty out here), but stay quiet with people I don't know well.

    I'll lie sometimes, either to psych out a girl I don't like , or to protect a girl who I know has made less or whatever.

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    To me discussing how much money was spent from a customer is a big no-no. I don't want people to be jealous and well if I'm having a bad night I don't want to be jealous. It's kind of an unspoken rule that we keep our earnings to ourself. It's not to say that some other dancers might not share that info. but I surely wouldn't.

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    From time to time, I can tell when a dancer has talked behind my back about "what he likes"

    It's always a turn off. Each dancer represents a different fantasy and separate relationship.

    I could care less if they talk about who much/little they make off me - I go in expecting to spend a certain amount of money for an anticpated period of time. If the gals give me a good vibe, I'll gladly let them milk me. If not, oh well.

    Once my ATF at a club started to date one of the bouncers. He and the DJ found ways to make my trips NF - I had to find a new club. Too bad for the gal, she was raking good dough out of me before. Gals, one reason to be careful about dating SC workers.


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    One of our newer girls found out the hard way a few weeks ago that you should never tell the other dancers how much money a customer is spending on you. She came into the dressing room and said something like, "I have to hurry- I have to go sit back by my customer cuz he just bought a drink with a $50 and gave the change to me, and he's been tipping me $5s and $10s on stage. I wanna get back by him before anyone else steals him." Now this was a slow night, so we all knew who she had been sitting by- there were only about 6 or 7 guys in the bar. Well to make a long story short, the rest of the night, he had one girl sitting on each side of him and others lined up to take the seats of girls who got up from sitting next to him.

    That is why it is not a good idea to discuss how much a guy is spending on you, unless you don't plan on sitting by him anymore. Some girls learn the hard way. I felt bad for her, because she didn't realize that this is the way things go, but you have to have some idea that if you say that a guy is spending a lot of money (especially on a really slow night) that the other girls are going to want to get in on it.
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    ^^ Very true..

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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses
    I guess I"m not "stripper literate" then...When I comment that a customer is "nice" he really is. Personality sells...I don't comment on what a customer tips me. Why should I??
    I think it's a local Mid-Atlantic dialect so there's no need for you to be "stripper literate" CK. To clarify further, "He's nice" does imply that the custie is not a pig and is someone that's fun to be with, but there's that additional hint that he spends well. So being "nice" is a very good thing. It's all in the inflection.

    As far as discussing how a custie tips, I agree it's best that you not give away too much info. Why let the competition steal a march on your customer base.
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