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    Ok So Heres The Thing Me And My Bf Have Both Been In Bad Relationships Both Involving Trust That Has Been Broken, He Says He Has No Problem Trusting Me.. But I Have A Problem Trusting Him He Hasnt Done Anything To Make Me Not Trust Him Its Just My Past Relationships Have Made Me Very Cautious, How Do I Over Come This I Mean Our Relationship Is Good, And I Usually Keep This All In Because I Dont Want Him To Think I Dont Trust Him!! I Know You Have To Have Trust To Make Anything Work So I Need Some Advice.. Could Someone Please Help Me??? I Guess My Main Thing Is How Do I Over Come How People Have Done Me In The Past To Make My Future Work? /:o
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    forget about the past, I know its alot easier said than done but allowing the past to affect your present relationship wont do anyone any good, maybe u should talk about your ex's to your boyfriend, tell him exactly what they done to make you feel this way, at least then your insecurities are out in the open then any situation the two of u may encounter can be dealt with alot easier .. just a thought
    I owe my success to having listened respectfully to the very best advice, and then going away and doing the total opposite

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    Just out of curiosity,all of your posts have capital letters.Any reason why???It makes the post a little difficult to read.But at any rate......

    If you carry past baggage into your present life,you are eventually gonna get tired and worn down.Let go and feel liberated.Nothing is guaranteed,so just go with it.
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    Stop over thinking this and have fun.

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    Didn't realize that about my post sorry...
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    I had the same problem too when I first met my husband. I think what Liyah said above is right. You should talk about what made you be this way. Thats what I did and it really helped. However, I also believed that I could reprogram my mind and get over past things. So you have to wanna change to be able to to get over this, and most importantly trust yourself first. I say that because most of the time when someone doesn't trust their significant other without them having any reason to do so, then that means there *might* be some insecurities with yourself (not saying that you are). Sit down and think to yourself before you talk to him though and be prepared and honest with him.

    Good luck with this

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