I could have cried when I cut my hair, wearing a wig is definately the best thing. Plus with a few you start to find your character changes with each one. Tip for keeping it on double sided tit tape just below your hairline on your forehead.
I could have cried when I cut my hair, wearing a wig is definately the best thing. Plus with a few you start to find your character changes with each one. Tip for keeping it on double sided tit tape just below your hairline on your forehead.
lol such a sweet girl you are
My thought exactly. It was nice that you did it, but did you think it wouldn't affect your job? And guys don't come to strip clubs to hear about people with cancer or whatever.Originally Posted by Emily
plus some guys think shorter hair is hot. i would wear a wig for a little while untill your hair is a few inches long and then try dancing without it see what works if you get more with the wig on then use it ,, if not then dont..
My opinion is that your job revolves around producing an image...what that image is in detail is up to you, but as in any job, you want to increase earnings. Find the look that makes you the most money and stick with it within reason....meaning if a wig helps earnings significantly, then hurray! But if not, then stick with what you've got. Wearing a wig in a club will not make the gesture for your sister any less special. You're job is your job, and the more professional the choice you make the better.
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I agree!!!!Originally Posted by PhatyPants
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Holy Shit! Sorry I just read this and it totally made me crack up! I think it's a wonderful thing what you did for your sister and to show your support for breast cancer survivors! Maybe they could say that when you're on stage so the guys shut the fuck up lol. I'm sorry but what the hell does having your hair cut short or shaved off have to do with racism? That doesn't make any logical or rational sense, but then, i guess the people who whine about racism aren't thinking rationally because if they were they would see that they're acting like jack asses! Shit, i wouldn't want their money if they aren't going to take the time to know you're story and just assume that you're racist cause you have short hair. Anyhow....I understand that you may not be in the position to sacrifice earnings due to reality....buy the wigs and play around with them...see what colors you like and what styles...and shit just for the hell of it....one time pull it off after explaining to a guy what you did and see his reaction....on a slow dead night just for fun.
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I walked into work one night a few years ago and saw a woman with a shaved head onstage (it was dayshift). I immediately asked the DJ what the hell he was doing, and why he had put her onstage.
No offense, but while if you shave your head, you have every right to do so--expecting that the vast majority of stripclubs are going to put you onstage would be to deny reality.
Customers do not want to see it, period, other than the occasional fetishist. The vast majority of stripclubs don't cater to fetishists, they cater to what the majority of men prefer to see a woman look like, right or wrong.
If you are a private dancer you have a lot more leeway, but you need to consider your clients' physical preferences as far as a dancer's appearance is concerned, or you're going to lose money you could be making. Unless you target the fetish guys who like women with shaved heads, in which case you could possibly make even more.
Right or wrong, the vast majority of men want nothing to do with a woman with a shaved head. And you simply cannot argue with a man's libido, even if you rightfully expect to be able to dress the way you want to or shave all your hair off. He might be unworthy of your respect otherwise, but if you want his money, it's best to please his libido.
OTOH, I did see a very sexy hairstyle on a woman the other night--her hair was very, very short, but she had a sassy, striking shock of blonde hair hanging down the side. it was quite obviously done professionally, and she had the body and dancing style to pull it off. It worked very well for her, and like the average guy, I'm not usually into short hair on women.
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