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    So, this VIP that annoys the hell out of me, brings up, for the second time today my "name". I guess one of the times he had me signed out for champagne he asked for my last name...thank god even in my drunken stuper I came up with a fake name. I don't remember this, he brought it up that he looked up my address to send me a present. WTF!!! I confirmed the name I had given him, told him to send me gifts to the club, and changed the subject...

    Today he brought it up again. Said there's something fishy cause he couldn't find my mortgage or title..WTF!!! Why are you trying to look up my info? I played along... it's been a BAD week... but I wanted to kick him in the balls! He's married, knows I'm with someone.. I don't lie to the guy, he knows the fantasy ends at the club door. What's his deal? YUK! This creeps me out.

    Any advice..similar stories..Help?!?

    I'm drunk right now, sorry for any errors.

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    It's probably time to let this one go, he seems to be turning a bit nuts. If he's got enough ambition to try to look up your title and mortgage, he's got enough ambition to do a lot more than that. No one looks up that stuff unless they want to know where you live, how much you owe, etc. I'd be worried if some guy was going that far out of his way to try and figure out where I lived. I'd be extra concerned and cautious.
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    Creepy... this should be mentioned to club mgmt or something because this dude sounds like a serious stalker..

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    Good God, you got yourself a weirdo, alright!

    Who the hell looks up a mortgage or title? That's stalking behavior, for sure.

    The only possible excuse is that he suspected you gave him a fake name in the first place, and is either pretending he did look it up, to get you to fess up--or really did, in a still way-too-fucking-weird attempt to prove you a liar.

    But who the hell dedicates that much time to getting a woman he suspects is fibbing to tell the truth?

    Who wants to pursue a woman who is clearly not interested, to the extent of giving out a fake name/number?

    Either way, you have a stalker--stay away from him...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Djoser
    Who the hell looks up a mortgage or title?
    Maybe it's what he does for a living and it just took him an extra two minutes or something. But even then, who the hell admits to looking up a mortgage or title?

    Weirdo.

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    Lyssa, drop this guy and notify the club or we're going to see you on the news before long.

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    Ha, I had a regular pull some shit like that on me once. I told him once that I lived in a certain part of town. Every week, he'd ask about some sort of info on the area. Since the location is by a major university I wasnt' scared at all. So anyway, he's like, so where on ___________ do you live? So I'm like, oh it's like directly across from the university. He's like, "oh, so what'sthe nearest side street.

    I looked at him, and he's like "well I tried to come visit you but I didn't know exactly where you were" I was mortified. I told him that he could never come to my apt! He's like a 65+ yuppy, conservative type. He has no business going to a college community, coming tryin to find my place. YUCK!

    Well, after he figured I had no intentions on meeting w/ him out of work, he told me he wouldn't be coming to visit me at the club as much. He hasn't been back since. And trust me, I'm not mad at all..







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    Quote Originally Posted by Lyssa Lynn
    So, this VIP that annoys the hell out of me, brings up, for the second time today my "name". I guess one of the times he had me signed out for champagne he asked for my last name...thank god even in my drunken stuper I came up with a fake name. I don't remember this, he brought it up that he looked up my address to send me a present. WTF!!! I confirmed the name I had given him, told him to send me gifts to the club, and changed the subject...

    Today he brought it up again. Said there's something fishy cause he couldn't find my mortgage or title..WTF!!! Why are you trying to look up my info? I played along... it's been a BAD week... but I wanted to kick him in the balls! He's married, knows I'm with someone.. I don't lie to the guy, he knows the fantasy ends at the club door. What's his deal? YUK! This creeps me out.

    Any advice..similar stories..Help?!?

    I'm drunk right now, sorry for any errors.
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    Thanks Blade!!! I get to be the one to shoot him though!

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    Bah, shooting him is too easy and messy.

    Lure him to a roach motel where Blade and a couple of other brutes will be waiting. They can hold him down, depants him, spread his legs, and then you come in...

    Quote Originally Posted by Lyssa Lynn
    but I wanted to kick him in the balls!
    ...and have at it, as many kicks as you want.

    Bring the guns though so you can subdue him, and a semi-dull knife in case you need to re-enact that scene from Foxy Brown. A bathtub full of water and a hair dryer might come in handy too.
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    Congratulations! You have a stalker. Notify management and stay away from him. Don't hesitate to file a complaint with the police if he keep harrassing you. They probably won't pay much attention, but it's on file if he does anything weird in the future.

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    That woudl annoy me to no end. I oncehad a guy say that if I didn't date him he would never come to the club to see me again. Sinse he had spent ALL that mone he deserved to date me. Ughhhh..
    I've hd to tell guys that if they wanted me to conintue spending time with them, they had to lay off will all the questions and third degree. Most did, a few stopped coming in, their loss.
    You might just have to stand up to this one, or have him banned.
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    This is why I will tell people my suburb (Surfers Paradise) however when they want to know WHERE in Surfers Paradise I will directly tell them that I do not want to give them such personal information. I will be up-front with them. If they don't want to spend $$ on me due to not finding out where I am living exactly all the better !


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    Before you do anything else, the next time he mentions anything like that, turn SUPER angry on him and tell him that kind of behavior is uncool.

    This actually works a good percentage of the time. He doesn't want to drive you off, so when threatened with that, a lot of guys will back off -- AND be extra nice and buy dances/tip.

    Some won't, but it's a good thing to try.

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    I would strongly suggest that you also speak with the door guys or bouncers and have them follow him out when he leaves...get the color, make, and model of his car along with his license plate. That way, when you are going home, you can check your rear view and make sure he's not following you.

    Definitely notify mgmt and tell the guy that you don't dance for stalkers and if he doesn't stop what he's doing, you'll notify mgmt and the police.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess
    I would strongly suggest that you also speak with the door guys or bouncers and have them follow him out when he leaves...get the color, make, and model of his car along with his license plate. That way, when you are going home, you can check your rear view and make sure he's not following you.
    Wow, good idea! I ALWAYS watch my mirrors, but knowing exactly what he drives would be very helpful. He came back in yesterday but I already had a VIP lined up so I didn't have to talk to him. I think he's coming in Tuesday. Thanks for the great idea VG and thanks to everyone for the support.

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