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    Default Thinking of Changing clubs-need some advice Ladies

    Hello Ladies,

    What do you do if you like your club, love the girls, management, DJ's, etc- but you don't love that there isn't an abundancey of $$$! I worked at a different club a couple weeks ago, made more money in two days than I make in 2 weeks- this club gets a lot more business as it is slightly more "raunchy"(poor choice of words sorry guys) than what I am used to working in a gown club- the other thing that kept me from staying at this other club for more than a few days is the girls, unlike my home club they were MEAN- We have a rule at my current club that you are not allowed to work any other clubs, bachelor parties outside the club etc- not a written contract, just something we are all made aware of- what to do?? I don't mean to sound greedy, but for example we had 18 girls on last night and not more than 5 or 6 guys in the club- guess what, none of us did dances, we were lucky to get a few dollars on our stage sets- I feel like I have been hanging in there long enough- I just hate to leave such a great group of people- I would like to work both clubs until business picks back up, do any of you have any thoughts or suggestions?

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    Default Re: Thinking of Changing clubs-need some advice Ladies

    If it was me, I'd definitely go to the better money club. As far as the girls there being mean that will probably improve with time as they get used to you.

    If you do leave your club you can just tell them that you want to stop dancing for awhile. Also, if they require that you give them some type of notice, just wait it out and give it to them so you leave on good terms, should you want to go back.

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    Default Re: Thinking of Changing clubs-need some advice Ladies

    the club I work @ has the same rules, if u find out u could lose your job. how far are u from RI? u could always drive there. I would leave your club work at the other one, and go back to your home club, if they are the great bunch of people u say they are, they will take u back!

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    Default Re: Thinking of Changing clubs-need some advice Ladies

    Quote Originally Posted by calliope7
    If it was me, I'd definitely go to the better money club. As far as the girls there being mean that will probably improve with time as they get used to you.

    If you do leave your club you can just tell them that you want to stop dancing for awhile. Also, if they require that you give them some type of notice, just wait it out and give it to them so you leave on good terms, should you want to go back.

    This is a YOUR business Mystic, treat it as such. This is not about who treats you more nicer. This is about your future, and your livihood.

    You made more money at club B in 2 days than your home club in 2 weeks. There would be no point in me having to think that outcome through! If you aren't making money in club A, then go to club B. I agree, the girls are mean because you are still new. Just work the room alone, and don't speak. You're there to work, not make friends anyway.







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    Default Re: Thinking of Changing clubs-need some advice Ladies

    hey logan820, how are the clubs in RI, I live in Ma about 15 min from both RI and CT borders.

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    Default Re: Thinking of Changing clubs-need some advice Ladies

    I guess the answer whether or not to leave is rather obvious- and you guys are right- truth is when I started dancing it was at my home club- and I was welcomed with open arms, no one was catty, no drama- reading alot of the posts I realize I was lucky to have that- you know maybe its just that change can be scary, time to grow up and face reality!!!

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    Default Re: Thinking of Changing clubs-need some advice Ladies

    I would leave club A on good terms and go work at club B. Leaving the first club on a positive note should allow you to return at a later date should you desire to do so.

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    Five years from now will you look back and care about who you hung out with at work? Or will you look back and care about how much money you saved?



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    I just went through almost the EXACT same situation. I love my home club Hotties. The management, the girls, the music, the customers, etc are all great BUT there hasn't been enough money lately. I decided to try another club in my area, Tootsies, and I'm doing VERY well money wise, but honestly - I'm not too comfortable because the girls are catty and mean as hell, plus one of the menagers seems to dislike me alot.
    What I plan to do is just work at Tootsies 2 to 3 days a week and when business picks up at my home club, I'll go back there full time. Also what's even better is that since my home club found out that I'm supplementing my income with Tootsies, they offered me a bartending gig at Hotties so we'll see how that goes.
    I think the lesson here is, sometimes life isn't SUPER comfortable, but do what you have to do and in the end it all works out. I wish you the best and as for the mean girls....well just do what I do ignore them because most likely you're class where as they are trash.

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    Default Re: Thinking of Changing clubs-need some advice Ladies

    Go for the money! Yes, it is more comfortable to be around people that you like. However, remember that you have a limited time in this business, so take avantage of it!

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