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    anyone know the signs that a stripper is falling for her regular? i have this friend who says shes not involved with her regular but he is calling her all the time and she apparently she is calling him. i told her that if he is just a trick, why did she get jealous when he paid attention to other girls? any advice i should give her? she keeps asking me what i think, and i say a trick is a trick. but don't let the trick start tricking you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lost_pharoh
    i told her that if he is just a trick, why did she get jealous when he paid attention to other girls?
    When he paid attention to other girls, or when he paid money to other girls?

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    Quote Originally Posted by dlabtot
    When he paid attention to other girls, or when he paid money to other girls?
    Some girls get upset if their regular spends money on another dancer. If she is upset that he was just talking to another dancer, then thats a little weird.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lost_pharoh
    anyone know the signs that a stripper is falling for her regular? i have this friend who says shes not involved with her regular but he is calling her all the time and she apparently she is calling him. i told her that if he is just a trick, why did she get jealous when he paid attention to other girls? any advice i should give her? she keeps asking me what i think, and i say a trick is a trick. but don't let the trick start tricking you.
    Awww are you SURE this "regular" isn't you Pharoah??







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    ^^ Or are you her boyfriend, maybe? Stories that start "I have this friend" always get me guessing...

    Anyway, it isn't uncommon for dancers to stay in touch with regulars on the phone, usually to call them into the club to spend more money. Many dancers get "jealous" if a regular spends time/money (and in a club they are often the same thing) on another girl. Nothing you've said about the situation would make me think this was anything more than a dancer trying to get the most possible money from a well-paying regular. I wouldn't worry/hope about her falling for him/you/whatever just yet.

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    ahhh, the old "I have a friend with this problem . . . "

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    thanks for the honest information people :-). no, for real, she is just my friend. any advice you people think i should tell her?

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    Yes, she is falling for me; and I've done fell for her. I can hardly believe it myself. We talk on the telephone at least once a day sometimes much more. And no, she is not trying to hustle me to spend more time and money in her club. I think she's a wonderful woman and she seems to think I'm a pretty decent guy. We're adults we'll figure this out.

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    ^^ How sweet.

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    where are these people coming from?
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    Mast, I usually wander out of the cornfields of central illinois but right now they are kinda barren. So I've taken to hills and thorny back country, though I swear I'm not a troll.

    I saw the original post and just had to add my two cents. I do think a dancer and regular can fall for each other. Weird things like that do happen from time to time. My point was that they are adults and if they choose to get involved thats their choice and maybe the "friend" ought mind his own business.

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    They are coming from America........
    It's TOO BAD SHE'LL won't LAST, BUT then again WHO DOES!?

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    Don't believe these posts; you are saying is that dancers are not human beings and they have been so used by MEN that they can't love any more. Common, give me a break!
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    Default Re: falling for her regular?

    I wouldn't say that, but i'd say it's far more likely that she's just furthering the business relationship, not a romantic one...

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    I'm not gonna say it doesn't happen, but it's pretty rare--the nature of the business makes it difficult.

    The fact that falling for a regular is totally counterproductive for a dancer being not the least of reasons.

    Offhand, I can think of it happening once, out of well over a thousand dancers I have worked with--pretty low odds.
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    Default Re: falling for her regular?

    Once money changes hands, the custie becomes part of the dancers income stream. He may be a hunk but more than likely her interest is money driven.

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    maybe she feels like he will rescue her from dancing

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    i fell for a customer. AHHH..

    He wasn't a "regular" though and he is a great guy...

    Changes my perspective a bit. Never thought I would date a customer. Sometimes you just CAN'T miss out on something that is THAT good. Now I just have to keep telling myself that i am WORTH him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    maybe she feels like he will rescue her from dancing
    That's what I am here for.

    To save the strippahs

    From all the monies...

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