I really can't believe I didn't see this anywhere on the forum...........
Ladies,
I was just wondering about how all of you female dancers and male customers feel about having women frequent the clubs??
To give a bit of background.... about a good 3 months back, my boyfriend and friend were getting to leave our favorite saturday night hangout. Just a regular bar close to home. Well, it seems that lately we'd been returning home earlier and earlier each weekend. I don't know about everyone else but Saturday night is really my only night out, so naturally I did not want to "turn in" .... SOoooo I suggested going to a Strip Club. My boyfriend protested but my male friend made a nice suggestion of a club I'd never been to. Well, we went and ended up staying until the place was just about to close. Now, I've pretty much become a regular. My boyfriend had a dancer that he mentioned he'd found attractive.........annnnnd after watching her dance, I also am quite fond of her.
Well, as I mentioned before my boyfriend is not too fond of Strip Clubs(I think it has to do with being in the Marine Corp..hehe...I think he had his fill) .... but I am constantly returning to the club...never alone...actually with three girls from my kickboxing class. We all LOVE the same dancer. She's beautiful, AMAZING on the pole, and has these awesome white tattoos that appear and disapear depending on the lights. ahhh....hehe..... we adore her. Actually on a side note ...she's teaching pole dancing lessons and we all three are taking them.
Anyways........
I ALWAYS see female customers frequenting this club, and not all of them are with their boyfriends. They just look like regular everyday girls you'd see at any bar...having a girls night out.
I always hear how Strippers prefer females to males because the female customers are more polite.... is this true in your experiences?? I always try to be very respectful...infact....sometimes I still feel uncomfortable staring. Especially when my favorite dancer has her head in my lap and is looking up at me talking. Maybe I just get too nervous....hehe......
My boyfriends roomate and a coworker of mine say as men there is nothing they hate more than a girl going to a strip club. The girl gets all the dancers attentions, and they are completely ignored. The roomate also hates when women go to strip clubs because he says women are only their to complain. Which, in my case and my friends case is totally not true. I really admire you guys for what you can do. Seriously, I can only day dream about being on stage....shaking my booty...and having all these men lust over me... I sure there are downsides to it all....as there are with any job, and I know I'm sorta romanticizing it....but I'm just in total awe of you all. AND I have absolutely no problem admiring a gorgeous woman!
Questions.......
1. How much is a good tip per song? The club I go to plays 4 songs...I see most men tip $1 a song...I usually tip 1 the first song 2 the second and then 2-4 the last two. Is that good? or am I still cheap?
2. Is it ok to complement on you fab outfits, tats, shoes, etc?? Or are these just annoying questions you deal with daily from women?
3. I've always heard that dancers hate to give a boyfriend a lapdance and have the girlfriend watch? is this true? how about the girlfriend gets the dance and the guy watches?
4. Are we totally creepy for showing up almost every weekend or every other weekend just for our one dancer?? Sometimes she sits with us when she's between sets or not doing private dances......techically she's our instructor too(since she's teaching our classes)
Ok that was a really long post...thank you for reading!



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Anyways...thanks for the response!
It's eye-opening.

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