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    Lady Customers

    I really can't believe I didn't see this anywhere on the forum...........

    Ladies,

    I was just wondering about how all of you female dancers and male customers feel about having women frequent the clubs??

    To give a bit of background.... about a good 3 months back, my boyfriend and friend were getting to leave our favorite saturday night hangout. Just a regular bar close to home. Well, it seems that lately we'd been returning home earlier and earlier each weekend. I don't know about everyone else but Saturday night is really my only night out, so naturally I did not want to "turn in" .... SOoooo I suggested going to a Strip Club. My boyfriend protested but my male friend made a nice suggestion of a club I'd never been to. Well, we went and ended up staying until the place was just about to close. Now, I've pretty much become a regular. My boyfriend had a dancer that he mentioned he'd found attractive.........annnnnd after watching her dance, I also am quite fond of her.

    Well, as I mentioned before my boyfriend is not too fond of Strip Clubs(I think it has to do with being in the Marine Corp..hehe...I think he had his fill) .... but I am constantly returning to the club...never alone...actually with three girls from my kickboxing class. We all LOVE the same dancer. She's beautiful, AMAZING on the pole, and has these awesome white tattoos that appear and disapear depending on the lights. ahhh....hehe..... we adore her. Actually on a side note ...she's teaching pole dancing lessons and we all three are taking them.

    Anyways........

    I ALWAYS see female customers frequenting this club, and not all of them are with their boyfriends. They just look like regular everyday girls you'd see at any bar...having a girls night out.

    I always hear how Strippers prefer females to males because the female customers are more polite.... is this true in your experiences?? I always try to be very respectful...infact....sometimes I still feel uncomfortable staring. Especially when my favorite dancer has her head in my lap and is looking up at me talking. Maybe I just get too nervous....hehe......

    My boyfriends roomate and a coworker of mine say as men there is nothing they hate more than a girl going to a strip club. The girl gets all the dancers attentions, and they are completely ignored. The roomate also hates when women go to strip clubs because he says women are only their to complain. Which, in my case and my friends case is totally not true. I really admire you guys for what you can do. Seriously, I can only day dream about being on stage....shaking my booty...and having all these men lust over me... I sure there are downsides to it all....as there are with any job, and I know I'm sorta romanticizing it....but I'm just in total awe of you all. AND I have absolutely no problem admiring a gorgeous woman!

    Questions.......

    1. How much is a good tip per song? The club I go to plays 4 songs...I see most men tip $1 a song...I usually tip 1 the first song 2 the second and then 2-4 the last two. Is that good? or am I still cheap?

    2. Is it ok to complement on you fab outfits, tats, shoes, etc?? Or are these just annoying questions you deal with daily from women?

    3. I've always heard that dancers hate to give a boyfriend a lapdance and have the girlfriend watch? is this true? how about the girlfriend gets the dance and the guy watches?

    4. Are we totally creepy for showing up almost every weekend or every other weekend just for our one dancer?? Sometimes she sits with us when she's between sets or not doing private dances......techically she's our instructor too(since she's teaching our classes)

    Ok that was a really long post...thank you for reading!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kittenblue82
    I really can't believe I didn't see this anywhere on the forum...........
    Me neither, 'cause it's everywhere!

    Quote Originally Posted by Kittenblue82
    1. How much is a good tip per song? The club I go to plays 4 songs...I see most men tip $1 a song...I usually tip 1 the first song 2 the second and then 2-4 the last two. Is that good? or am I still cheap?

    2. Is it ok to complement on you fab outfits, tats, shoes, etc?? Or are these just annoying questions you deal with daily from women?

    3. I've always heard that dancers hate to give a boyfriend a lapdance and have the girlfriend watch? is this true? how about the girlfriend gets the dance and the guy watches?

    4. Are we totally creepy for showing up almost every weekend or every other weekend just for our one dancer?? Sometimes she sits with us when she's between sets or not doing private dances......techically she's our instructor too(since she's teaching our classes)
    1. You're fine. Thank you for being appreciative.

    2. I always like knowing that someone likes my look! Compliments are always welcome. I had a female customer raving and raving over my panties last week; I told her where she could buy them.

    3. Some women feel this way. Me, I love it. I'm into group play so I really enjoy it. But a generous tip is a good idea if one person is watching; we're not there for a free show, after all. And yes, you are probably going to get a hotter dance than he'll get. Tell him to deal!

    4. Nothing's creepy about being a regular! It's creepy when you start stalking her outside the club or trying to get her to meet you outside. But as long as it stays in the club, you're fine!

    Have fun! I'm a regular female customer myself, when I can afford it.

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    On the outside the club note........

    Originally after I spent a night at the club myself and another girl at my kickboxing class mentioned taking "strip areobics" at a place downtown. Except the woman teaching was never an exotic dancer...I mentioned that I wished I knew someone who actually danced. Which is when I found out from another friend that the girl was going to be possibly opening her own studio. However, I was too shy to ask her about it...so my boyfriend decided to jump in and say.. "She wants to take your classes you're teaching." .... from that point on she gave me her email, and started exchanging info on the studio.... I have met her outside the club now, but it was with the other girls and we're going to be taking the classes starting next Sunday......hehe....so that's appropriate contact right?

    We all feel funny because it's like she's someone famous to us....hehe...it's like we've met the president. Anyways...thanks for the response!

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    Yes, that's appropriate. Have fun!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kittenblue82
    I was just wondering about how all of you female dancers and male customers feel about having women frequent the clubs??
    I'm too involved in my own business, so as long as they're having fun and not upsetting the mood of the place with that condemning scowl, its all good to me.

    1. How much is a good tip per song?
    Opinions may vary, and different clubs have different customs, but if you just want to show some appreciation, $1/song will do in most clubs. Most dancers in my experience simply appreciate the gesture, esspecially when a large portion of the crowd isn't tipping at all. Just don't ask your entertainer to "work" for it.
    Former SCJ now in rehab.

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    kitten...your attitude sounds exactly like mine before I started dancing

    I remember when I met my first stripper at a regular nght club. I was so starstruck. Then when I decided to "try it to see if I liked it", I worked at her club. I felt like such a stalker!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kittenblue82
    . We all LOVE the same dancer. She's beautiful, AMAZING on the pole, and has these awesome white tattoos that appear and disapear depending on the lights. ahhh....hehe..... we adore her. Actually on a side note ...she's teaching pole dancing lessons and we all three are taking them.

    oohooh oohh! You must be talking abot Aine at acropolis? If so, I'm DYING to see her! I've heard from many that she is absolutely amazing!

    If this is her, can you pm me on the pole classes? I'd like to perfect and add more advanced moves to my repertoire.





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    We are all VERY startstruck!! I wish I could dance ..... but....I don't have the body for it. So, I just appreciate those who can!

    I am INDEED speaking of Aine at the Acropolis!! You must see her if you ever make it down this way! I don't know the set class schedule yet, but she's supposed to be putting together a mass email for everyone who'll be attending. I know our class is going to be on a Sunday morning but I think(could be wrong) we were such a large group that we're having a private class. Um, but you could email her and ask for a copy of the schedule.......

    http://www.aine-inc.com/

    Take care,
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    I knew it! lol oh, I live in Vancouver, so I'm only about 20-25 minutes away from the acrop. I usually go out to dolphin 2 (sometimes d1, but lately been going to d2). I've never really wanted to go to acrop..but then I read about her and have been wanting to go ever since! Maybe I'll try to get out there next sat night.

    I don't see anything on her site about it though?





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    Anything on her site about her classes? Yeah, you'd have to email her and ask her about them. They are JUST starting. There is a private group of 8 of us going to be the first guinea pigs coming up this weekend.... so...I think she may wait to see how it all goes before she starts advertising. But DEFINTLEY check her out! My three girlfriends and I go out every other weekend to watch her and the other lovely ladies dance.

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    Wow...sounds like my post a lil there. You should check out mine and see the responses i got KittenBlue "It puzzles me..." on pg 4. It's eye-opening.

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