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    1. I got a crush on a bisexual stripper... so the ? is what percentage of strippers are bisexual??

    2. If the girl above mentioned always avoids me, is it common for strippers to keep guys as pay lovers (customers that are lovers but have to pay naturally). It's not the same as a prostitute , that's totally different....or Am I dumb to the obvious?

    3. I read in the ladies only section that girls will allow guys to go out with them out of the club scene. I've experienced this.. is there a possibliity of a friendship or is it 100% just customer relations? PS, i'm young, an basically broke so I don't think it's for more business because theres old guys that buy hours of they're time an I never see them with us.

    4. Since I don't plan to give up trying to GF ize my crush, any tips on how to treat a bisexual stripper (she likes busty caucasian women so I gather eg. Pam Anderson). Because they're SO not like str8 women

    PS, im 6,6 caucasian, she's asian, 4,11 (could explain the attraction thing between us, an yes, we dated in the past

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    Well, speaking as a bisexual stripper, I'd have to say that all of us are different. I have never met anyone outside the club and am comfortable saying I never would. However, I've got a boyfriend and I'm not looking for another one.

    As for "they're SO not like str8 women" ... I haven't noticed much difference. I like to cuddle after a good fuck and go for long walks around the neighborhood just like any other woman.

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    Yekhefah - However, I've got a boyfriend and I'm not looking for another one.

    Huh, how come whenever I ask a question on the net about this women ALWAYS give this exact same response. Its weird, do women naturally have to bring forward the data fact that they have a man An are NOT LOOKING , for what reason do they do that

    another response similar is if your griping about things women do (eg. fem nazi discussion forum) girls all come up an say "I got a man that treats me right an Im happy, etc etc

    thou its kinda rather out of place of the general discussion

    kinda like talking about dolphin an sea nets a someone jumps up an says, I LOVE MY LOBSTER AN I LOVES ME

    lol, should be a study on that....I 'm guessing its because it's a auto response since the second a girl comes up an says Im bisexual, a ton of offers for sex an dates pop up.. hmmm

    PS I disagree because bi women are not like str8 women based simply on the obvious. Bi women listen to different music, watch specific tv shows, an date certain types of guys that str8 women do not from my observation.

    Yek posted an honest response. Dont expect everybody to agree with you. You would be wise to lose the attitude that a stripper who posts an alternative opinion is a feminazi.

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    I merely said I have a boyfriend I'm happy with because that's why I don't see guys outside the club. If your girl is looking to date and she likes you, she might be up for it. I don't know; I've never met her.

    And oh please do tell me what music and TV shows I watch, and what kind of guy I date, since I'm bisexual. Please. Because speaking for me personally, I know lots of straight people who listen to the same music I do, and I don't watch TV, and my boyfriend is a pretty standard (if exceptionally sexy) kind of guy.

    Bisexual women differ from straight women in that we find some females attractive as well as males. In everything else, we're just people and we vary the same way all people do.

    I can say that if you're typecasting this woman as a "bisexual stripper" and defining her entire personality around that, then you're probably not going to have a workable relationship. Such things are really incidental to a person's fundamental nature.

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    Here's my honest answers to your questions based on what I know about dancers here in Tampa, where I live.

    1. Very few girls are truly bisexual. Many of them that say they are when they're at work are just saying that because they know most guys enjoy g/g action. That said, there are a few, such as myself, that are TRULY bi. You can tell the difference mainly by how they treat the other girls they work with...they're more likely to flirt more, touch the other girls more, make comments about the girls they think are hot, etc, etc

    2. IMHO, you're not the one being the prostitute- she is...she's the one stringing you along with the sex and the money and then avoids you (at the club? outside? what?)

    3. I think it depends on the situation, but personally, I like to keep both sides of my life separate. Either I know you and see you at the club or I know you and see you outside...there's no mixing, because, as it's been mentioned in other threads- OTC custies someitmes have a way of getting out of hand because their expectations and those of the girl are two totally different things.

    4. Why are they not like straight women? Last time I checked, bi women liked guys, they just happen to enjoy women as well. So, treat her just like you would any other chick, but keep in mind that the chick you might be checking out that walked by she may have scoped out too.
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    Thanks christy, thou we haven't gotten a response from a str8 women yet to balance the equation so keep it coming.

    No contest on the fact theres more str8 women than bi but nowhere do I see more bisexual women then in the strip club arena. Thou one can go to a website like myspace or nexopia an see tons of girls claiming to be bisexual (besides the obvious fake ones) an even more girls who are but don't admit it.

    Some british studies say that it's 1.8 out of 10 women while only 1.2 out 10 of men

    Hmm, I guess your right, maybe she might be doing that with other guys, I say with confidence highly unlikely. But I will agree on that I'm being strung along.

    Thou it is confusing with the fact that girls will not see men from strip clubs thou I have gone out with girls from the strip club, so it could be a rule but the rule can be broken for some maybe. Personally I avoid even asking to go out with anyone period, usually it's offered an never requested.

    But I still see some strange things with bisexual women in my personal experience an yes true as it must be that I'm seeing a batch of women that are different from the rule
    or maybe as a male looking inward an not a women looking outward I can see the little things that a women would not percieve since as an old saying goes. "if only we can look at ourselves through another eyes".

    saying that, i would think I'm a needy guy looking for companionship, ugh! not good.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TaLlOnE
    saying that, i would think I'm a needy guy looking for companionship, ugh! not good.
    I wouldn't lead with that fact in any strip club conversations pal. Either way, it's only a matter of time before some very smart and enterprising dancers clean you out.
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    Straight woman here!

    1. Hard to say what percentage of strippers are bi, like statedd before, some will say that they are beacuse guys like to here it.

    2. If she ignores you but you are a "pay lover", she's probably only interested in your money. If by "pay lover" you're actually paying for sex, then she's a prostitue.

    3. 100% business.

    4. Bi strippers are like straight strippers and we all want the same thing, cash.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TaLlOnE
    kinda like talking about dolphin an sea nets a someone jumps up an says, I LOVE MY LOBSTER AN I LOVES ME
    lobsters are caught in traps.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TaLlOnE

    Huh, how come whenever I ask a question on the net about this women ALWAYS give this exact same response. Its weird, do women naturally have to bring forward the data fact that they have a man An are NOT LOOKING , for what reason do they do that
    This statement cracks me up for two reasons.

    1) If that the response you always get, one would start to conclude that maybe that is possibly the truth of the matter.

    2). The fact that you reject that response time and again means you are not looking for answers, but affirmation of something you already beleive. Its extremely disingenuous to pose a query when you have already predisposed against a certain set of answers.

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    *sigh*
    People think that being bisexual is SO different, thanks to stereotypes.

    We're either fence-sitters, or greedy whores, or in transition to being Lesbian, or just like to fuck anything that moves. (Or for the really dumb, that we can date one boy and girl at once! ... that's Polyamory, not bisexuality.)

    Unfortunately being bisexual or even lesbian has been totally fetishized in mainstream society, and turned into a freak show. I can't tell you how many guys have thought they could score a threesome with my girlfriend and I because we're bi. It's sickening. (Also, how many catcalls and carhonks we get just for holding hands like any hetero couple does. Jesus... they should stop being cowards and do that shit to my face... within hitting distance.) There's nothing different about this woman because she's bisexual. She's just your everyday person. That's what any queer person wants... is to be treated just like any "normal" heterosexual. In other words, like a human being. With respect.

    Sorry, i'm going on a rant, but after all of the shit i've been dealing with recently, it just sort of happens.

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    not to sound pretentious, but i'm a real bisexual, and i can tell you that about 90% of the girls that claim to be are not. sure, they'll act cute and fondle tits or maybe kiss a girl, but for many of them it's mostly for the attention of men. of course, most men don't mind. i honestly dislike it when a girl feels my tits without asking and giggles about it. i think it's because i -do- view it as sexual, so for me it's no different than if a man did it. i'm also insulted by girls who pretend to be interested in me to get the attention of men. it's confusing.

    i'll break this down for you from personal club experience. at my club we have 12 girls working on dayshift.

    of the 12....(self included in the number)

    1 of them claims to be straight
    10 of them claim to be bisexual
    1 of them claims to be gay
    i know for a fact (because they told me) that 6 of them are pretending to be bi
    i SUSPECT that 2 more are also pretending to be bi
    i know that 2 are truly bisexual (one is me)
    and i know that the 1 gay girl is truly gay
    and the 1 straight girl is truly straight

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny
    i'm also insulted by girls who pretend to be interested in me to get the attention of men. it's confusing.
    Dammit, I hate that too!!

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    no shit. i had a crush on a girl for about 6 months (not at the club, a friend) and we were at a club with all our friends and she started making out with me. we made out for a good 5 minutes and then she grabbed my hand and took me across the room to make out some more. we made out for a few more minutes, and then about an hour later made out again after she dragged me to another corner. i discovered that time... after she turned me a bit to the side.. that she was following her ex around and positioning us where he could see.

    ..........................

    i was so irritated when i fiugred it out. i was like "are you trying to show off for that guy?" and she was like "yeah, i thought you liked girls so it would be ok" and i said "i do... but... do you?" and she said "no i'm straight"
    ...
    .......
    so rude.

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    OMG, that is seriously rude!! What a bitch.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny
    no shit. i had a crush on a girl for about 6 months (not at the club, a friend) and we were at a club with all our friends and she started making out with me. we made out for a good 5 minutes and then she grabbed my hand and took me across the room to make out some more. we made out for a few more minutes, and then about an hour later made out again after she dragged me to another corner. i discovered that time... after she turned me a bit to the side.. that she was following her ex around and positioning us where he could see.

    ..........................

    i was so irritated when i fiugred it out. i was like "are you trying to show off for that guy?" and she was like "yeah, i thought you liked girls so it would be ok" and i said "i do... but... do you?" and she said "no i'm straight"
    ...
    .......
    so rude.
    Ok, that is totally F'd, No one of either gender or preference or ANYTHING should mess around with peoples emotions, that's how big time fights get started anyway..

    But I'm going to sound like a ranter when I say " I HATE lesbian strippers. that's one thing that should NEVER be in a strip club is a lesbian.. Because it's dubious an just plain wrong. How would gay men feel if a str8 guy walked into a gay club to get free drinks but then walked away because he's obviously not gay.. I hate that so much when bi girls come in an do that to guys (an yes I know they're bi an true str8 girls do that to). Makes you almost lose it.

    Some Female fans sued this one singer (because he was a heart throb singer) because he was found out to be gay (ruins the fantasy doesn't it?). It's just a big lie to get someones money even thou it's just a fantasy in the end.

    Also strip clubs are accompinied by tons of unsavory types, last thing you need is a guy on some sort of edge who finds out theres a lesbian stripper working there an knocks her off in the parking lot like my friend nikki (bi stripper) said happened in Vancouver where she works. It just gives people who have a grudge against lesbians fuel to they're hate fire. An I know it's maybe the 1 out of 12 or a 100, but still, ONE BAD APPLE ruins a bunch. Everyone will notice the antics of that one lesbian stripper an that's how any rumour gets started an warped till . All strippers are money grubbing home wrecking wife stealing dykes crazy rave by some catholic preacher.

    A short man can't be playing pro basketball, a big tall man can't be a horse jockey, an a lesbian can't be in a business that pleasures men. nuff said

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    Okay, I have to agree with Penny...warning: mini rant here...anyways, I cannot stand that there are a lot of girls in my club that'll play bi for the money of a double. Please, don't waste my time and the guy's time, cuz most guys can tell if a girl's not truly into it. I will flirt with just about all the girls at work and the lez bartender too, but that's all I'm comfortable with because if I'm going to do more than flirt, it's gonna be with a chick that I know actually might come home with me and fuck my brains out later, not these "oh I need a couple drinks and I'll play with girls" bullshit. PLEASE! Gimme a fucking break. Either you're bi or you're not...if you have to get drunk to play- you're a hetero bitch who's too uptight to figure out what she wants sexually...get a clue and then come back and talk to me. We've got a girl who was bi for quite some time and then decided to go all the way lez, which is fine with me, but I don't fuck with her cuz she's already got a gf.

    Anyways...the point of all of this is that in this industry overall, there may be a higher concentration than normal of bi girls, and I think that's cuz our industry is one of the few where you get more in tune with your sexuality sometimes, and it makes you more able to realize what you like/don't like. Others just play it up for the guys. Me, I just enjoy both and will flirt, fuck, kiss either sex if I like who I'm talking to/being with.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TaLlOnE
    But I'm going to sound like a ranter when I say " I HATE lesbian strippers. that's one thing that should NEVER be in a strip club is a lesbian.. Because it's dubious an just plain wrong. ...

    A short man can't be playing pro basketball, a big tall man can't be a horse jockey, an a lesbian can't be in a business that pleasures men. nuff said
    Oh, that's ridiculous. None of us are going to go home and fuck you. None of us are really interested in you. The straight and bi strippers are selling you a fantasy just like the lesbians are. If they sell you the fantasy you're paying for, who gives a flying fuck who they go home to?

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    OK what happened to my post? A guy starts a thread basically asking how to stalk a chick, I point that out in a humorous way, and it's MY post that gets deleted?

    That's pretty backwards, ain't it?

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    Well I know NO guy/customer that I have ever asked sitting beside while talking about who's hot or whatever, an while the customer asks about this or that girl an ask, HEY... how about her, I always say.. she's beautiful but she's a lesbian

    Then the look on the face that says, I'm pissed off or I'am not too happy about that fact.

    No man needs his FRAGILE ego destroyed an you STILL don't get the fact that guys HATE being taken, For some men, it's like getting your nuts kicked in while your at your lowest self esteem.

    An everytime the same thing happens, that girl gets cut off, no man will ask for a dance, tip, or bother with.

    So Maybe you shouldn't get all totally defensive like that withou considering what the customers really feel an think, NO Different than what a female customer would think if a male romantic singer came out gay even thou he lied about being str8 to be paid

    PEOPLE HATE LIARS WHO LIE TO GET PAID. doesn't matter if it's a show.

    It's even worse if they're people who already have a grudge against homosexuals. Again your fueling the fire for hate mongers religous nuts.

    but whatever you still feel about it, I'm against it an I'm not going to change my opinion about it

    PS, lesbians strippers give HORRIBLE dances. I'm not one of those guys that is satisfied with just seeing a naked women in front of me. I need my ego stroked, I need the fantasy fullfilled

    an dykes just give you cold looks, fake cliche generic responses an cold fake everything, HORRIBLE.. Might make some 80 year old man with a senior citizens check to cash happy but not a young man.

    So at least Im telling the other guys my honest opinion to stay away from those girls just because they give horrible dances. Plain an honest truth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah
    Oh, that's ridiculous. None of us are going to go home and fuck you. None of us are really interested in you. The straight and bi strippers are selling you a fantasy just like the lesbians are. If they sell you the fantasy you're paying for, who gives a flying fuck who they go home to?
    RIGHT, THE FANTASY IS RUINED if she's a lesbian, DUH!! an with your money on top of it.

    no women will understand , mens sexuality an egos are simple an fragile.

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    Oh, grow a pair and get over it.

    I'd wager you've met far more lesbians than you realize. As long as they're doing the job - which is to sell you a fantasy - then there is no foul. And there's no difference between a lesbian selling you that fantasy and a straight woman selling you that same fantasy; either way, they're not going to leave the club with you, and they've both probably got partners to go home to. Who cares what gender the partner is when you have no way of knowing anyway?

    Not all men are as insecure and immature as you seem to be.

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