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    Getting close to customers?

    Just had a stupid question on my mind if you girls could help me out. Is it alright to get close to customers? Like exchanging numbers and meeting after the club and stuff? Have any of you ever done it? I dont really plan on it to be honest, im alittle to scared to do it but, my mom goes to the Male Encounter in Mass and shes got a guy there thats meets her every weekend night after the club and they call eachother during the week all the time. Shes been going every Fri and Sat night for I think 5 years now (or even longer than that). He's a really nice guy and seems to have a good relationship with my mom BUT he's a guy and I know it can be very different between male and female dancers. I have another friend thats a dancer and she sometimes keeps close contact with her customers too, even makes friends. Just wondering your imputs on this.

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    Its not recomended to see anyone outside of the club. Considering most guys that ask for your number are asking for one reason and one reason only. Sex.

    Plus giving your number out in some states is illegal and you can be arrested for it.

    Never mind the fact its extremly unsafe... for all you know he could rape you, kidnap you...its just generally a really unsafe thing to do. But hey im paranoid

    Do a search its been disscussed a lot.

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    Like I said I wasnt planning on it because im parinoid myself. I was curious on what you girls thought about it compared to how my mom is and stuff.

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    Default Re: Getting close to customers?

    The club I work at is very strict about not letting dancers give custies numbers, and vice versa. It depends where you work, but it's generally a bad idea. If you really want to keep in touch with a regular, set up a work-only email address and give that to him/them.

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    I do see several dancers outside of work, but it was a slow, gradual progression. Started with us liking bumping into each other when the dancer was working, continued with me giving them the odd lift to/from work and ended up with us being comfortable being round our respective houses/flats, etc. Typically, this progression took 6 - 12 months depending on the dancer.

    I'd also have to say money is no part of the equation - although I will catch up with them at the end of their shifts, (to give them a lift home), they're not interested in tips: I'll buy them a drink or two instead. Equally, I don't pay any real attention when they're nude. (One girl in particular gets really self conscious if I do - so I don't look at all).

    I guess we ended up more interested in each other as friends outside of work. For example, I've just got back from one girl's flat; she's studying for a degree and I help her with the maths and chemistry part of her course. She said thanks by cooking me a meal, (and she's a superlative cook). A congenial evening for the both of us.

    I've got to say, from my experience this sort of friendship is fairly rare - it depends on you finding someone more interested in you as a person than as a "stripper". It also depends on two people meeting that would have been friends anyway - the only unusual thing is the environment in which you first meet.

    Considering most guys go into a strip club with a bad case of "date the dancer" syndrome, most will have motives far different from those you'd appreciate.

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    I agree with Phil's advice. I have several OTC friendships with dancers but it took months, if not years, for them to materialize. I'd be wary of anyone pushing for your number right away.

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    Being new to this business I don't recommend this practice. Whil I have a few customers that I will have lunch with or give an occasional private show, it takes some experience to know who to deal with and who to avoid.

    Guys are going to be asking to hook up with you all the time, and if you allow this, they won't want to come in the club and spend money on dances anymore.

    Realistically only a handful of customers over time will warrant OTC interaction. If a guy buys dances from me (at least 4-5) and has spent money on me on several visits, and is gentlemanly, since I work on bookings in small rural towns I may give my phone number to the guys so that they will know where and when I am working. I don't go to lunch with these guys though. They may see me in one club, and drive 100 miles to see me another week in a different club. But there is nothing to be gained from seeing them personally.

    If you have a big money regular who doesn't demand sex from you in exchange for giving you money, having lunch and talking on the phone with this type of guy is essential. But it will take time to develop this type of customer if at all. So for you at this stage of the game I would just tell the guys you can't see them outside the club.

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    the only reason a custy has my number is to make sure they dont show up when im not working......also if you are having a bad night call them in......going places with them on the other hand is just screwing yourself out of money...the more comfortable they are with you as a "friend" the less money they feel they need to give you in the club...unless you are into meeting otc and doing extras...if thats not the case...only give the number out to ensure you are at the club the same time they are...but beware in some states it is considered solicitation to give your number...weigh the consequences and make your own choice....

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    from hardcore experince DON'T there is NOONE worth your time in the club.

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