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    This may sound like wishful thinking but it's just an honest question because strippers are women an theres men around..

    Have you ever done something stupid, silly, goofy, girly giddy, or just outright blushed an flirted with a cute sweet charming guy at the club?

    Do they exisit in the SC?

    How do you react when you see that Hawt guy?

    an ever do something with Hawt Guy that you shouldn't be doing?

    This is a thread to get away from the usual custie complaint threads. All men aren't nasty old geezers, (Brad pits 40 an still hawt right?)

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    Default Re: The Cute Guy?

    Quote Originally Posted by TaLlOnE
    This may sound like wishful thinking but it's just an honest question because strippers are women an theres men around..

    Have you ever done something stupid, silly, goofy, girly giddy, or just outright blushed an flirted with a cute sweet charming guy at the club?

    Do they exisit in the SC?

    How do you react when you see that Hawt guy?

    an ever do something with Hawt Guy that you shouldn't be doing?

    This is a thread to get away from the usual custie complaint threads. All men aren't nasty old geezers, (Brad pits 40 an still hawt right?)
    Custie complaint threads in CC often get moved to Blue or deleted depending on the tone and content.

    I imagine the majority of the dancers here are beyond girly giddy and might find the concept insulting. Its business not personal. But with the caveat that I pressed the timeclock on this thread we'll see how the responses go.

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    When I'm at work, it's all about work. I have a boyfriend that I love very much, and when I'm work I don't look at the guys for how hot they are or anything like that. It's just money for me. Same thing as if I was a cashier at Walmart- I don't pay extra attention to the guys that are cuter than others. They're all just money to me. I know that sounds blunt, but that's just how it is. If there is a cute young guy and an old not-so-cute guy, I will sit with the one who will tip me better, no matter how cute they are. Cute guys don't get any extra attention from me based on their looks- it's all based on the money. And no guy gets any "special treatment" no matter how cute they are.
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    i work in a club where the majority of customers are hot young guys. they get treated the same as non-hot, fat, or old customers, which is very well as a rule. the exception is hot guys who think girls will get giddy over them and go home with them or other such nonsense. they get treated dismissively.

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    ^^^^^ Oh yeah I hate when young guys come in and think they're hot shit and that all the dancers should be all over them... So irritating, especially since most of them are broke or cheap and think they should be able to get by on their good looks.... hello- your looks won't pay our bills.
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    As an old guy with money, its irritating when the strippers migrate like friggin flocks of geese towards the broke but good looking young guys. A bit of jealousy I admit but mostly as a businessman it drives me nuts how those dancers have zero sense regarding making money.

    An example. Yesterday I was at the club hanging out with my fav. We invited another dancer to sit with us and have a couple of drinks. She was nice and had I not been there to see my fav I would have considered spending money beyond the tips I gave her. I took a potty break and there was a middle aged guy in there on his cell (its the only quiet place in the building). I could hear from his conversation that he was a doctor. When I got back I mentioned him to the the new girl. He was average looking but was dressed nice. After she finished her drink she got up to get back to work. I reminded her to maybe check the doctor out...he had been sitting by himself for a while. Instead she made a beeline over to some young guy who had been sitting at the bar. Maybe he tipped her...I dunno...but they didnt do any dances. Eventually the young guy left and she wandered around the club. Meanwhile the doctor left.

    Is it just me or is that pretty dumb?

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    I only hit on ONE guy in the club I found attractive. He bought 10 dances and had MONEY (he was the first millionaire on TV to win from the celebrity poker tournaments)...and it really wasn't the money. I wasn't even gonna talk to him cause I thought he was cute and would be a grabby asshat with no money. Not only did he not touch me, he bought lots of dances...

    I gave him my number in all seriousness.

    He never called or returned.

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    haha, I like liliths response but while some girls say "NEVER, it's all about the money, the older guy said YES, they do go to all the young guys.. so this is confusing, he says, she says???

    an some advice lilith, if the guy has BAZILLIONS.. an you give him your phone number, well, the old stripper stereotype rears its head "they're all about the money an he probably thought, damn gold diggin dyke or something like that. True... girls give phone numbers out if you buy lots of dances an don't touch (in my experience) but they ditch you when your not a millionaire so I take the # an never call.

    So if a guy doesn't call, think about the obvious.

    I read that 100 men ruls in the ladies only section, I can tell you personally that a lot of those rules exist because of what WOMEN do to men. LOL you do it to yourselves.

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    Heehee, yeh I know it probably seemed about the money... but man, I really would've had fun with him even if he didn't have a million or so. He was so nice and cute and smart. I wanted to sleep with him, actually... hahaha, no strings attached. >_> But I dare not say that!

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    Quote Originally Posted by TaLlOnE
    ...some girls say "NEVER, it's all about the money, the older guy said YES, they do go to all the young guys.. so this is confusing, he says, she says???

    ...I read that 100 men ruls in the ladies only section, I can tell you personally that a lot of those rules exist because of what WOMEN do to men. LOL you do it to yourselves.
    There's a simple answer to that question.

    The dumb ones go for the cute guys, the smart ones go and make money. There's not too many dumb strippers on SW, fortunately...

    Naturally, there are exceptions to the rule--but usually a very exceptional man is involved.

    Even in my club, where almost everyone is dumb as a box of rocks--dancers, customers, staff, you name it--the Daytona studboys usually don't do all that well unless they have a lot of drugs on them, and only with certain dancers--usually the really dumb ones.

    As far as the Rules for Men being a result of feminine behavior influencing men and making them do that stuff--it's a two way street, my friend.
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    I was at a club last night to visit a fav of mine. For about an hour I had my fav and three of her friends at my table chatting, drinking and just having a good time-they are all great ladies. By the time the first annoying 2 for 1, free ten dollar t-shirt dance rolled around my fav and I where alone at our table - All of her friends had gone off to make money and left my fav alone so she could get a healthy chunk of mine! This is as it should be.
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    I agree completely with Djoser. In my experience it's the young dancers (between 18-23,round-about of course) that go for the young good looking guys, and avoid the "older" or less attractive men.

    If they stay in the business for very long (and if they want to make money) they will start to treat all of the men the same.

    With that said I do notice a good looking man though, especially an older man (think Sean Connary )

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    Quote Originally Posted by MadisonM
    ^^^^^ Oh yeah I hate when young guys come in and think they're hot shit and that all the dancers should be all over them... So irritating, especially since most of them are broke or cheap and think they should be able to get by on their good looks.... hello- your looks won't pay our bills.
    OMG yes! There was some cute guys who came into my club about 3 weeks ago. I asked if they wanted a dance, and they declined. So then before I stood up to leave he says, "I mean, I'm willing to spend my money on the right girl who knows how to hang out and hustle me out of it" I just smiled and told him, "sweetie it's a packed, Friday night, I don't have time to chill out with anyone, especially not when there is a strong doubt that you have any money to spend anyway" I'm always nice and professional when I work...but shi some boys think that since we're the same age, we should flock to them.

    To the OP: Yes, what you had was wishful thinking. Smart dancers know that they come to work to make money, not find a man. Who cares if he is fine. I'll sit with the 65yr old man who has a few hundred in his pocket over the "boy band" member who only has $15 any day. I'm here to make DOLLARS, not CENTS!







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    Makes cents to me...

    SORRY, CK--just couldn't resist--what an asshole, eh?

    Sexysweet, Sean Connery would probably have all the dancers at his table, pissing off all the other customers. He's one of the few guys I don't mind hearing is hot over and over again--otherwise it's boring as hell, and possibly insulting, depending on how it's done.

    Maybe it's just because we don't have to look at his face plastered all over 30 magazines at the grocery store checkout. Angelina Jolie is beginning to annoy the hell out of me from this alone, hot or not...
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    Uggh, young hot guys are annoying. They actually think they have a shot at dating me. Pllease. I enjoy the old married guy, just escaping reality, sooo much more. How do I react when I see a "hawt" guy?...I ask him if he wants a dance, no, "okay have a nice night".

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    Djoser, I never talk about other men when I am with a customer! As you said "RUDE!"

    The exception of course is if they ask about my man, and even then I try to keep it simple and move on.

    Something like "yes I have a man, No I cannot meet you after work, but we can go in the back for a few dances" or "yes I have a man, but you didn't come here to talk about him did you? (smile sweetly,or )

    You get it.

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    I made bank off of young guys.,....just make sure they know WHO is in control...


    Sometimes the gymbunny boys in really tight shirts and lots of jewelry with perfectly coiffed hair intimidated me because I would fear that they would point out my physical flaws, such as an bit of jiggle....suprisinly enough, I've danced for many, many professional athletes in amazing shape and NONE of them have ever had anything but great compliments in the end...

    Young guys are great and low stress if you tell them you mean business RIGHT AWAY!

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    point is....strippers don't go to work to meet young guys...if they are hanging with young guys, its likely because some old pervert has harrassed them and they want a few moments w some people they can relate to a bit...

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    Spoken as a truly intelligent dancer...

    It's like I told Brooklyn, a stunning but somewhat naive newbie learning the ropes--think like a vampire--you are ALWAYS in control of the situation, no matter how rich, hot, or self-assured the fucking guy is.

    That's the way to make money. There's no reason a healthy, sexually aware woman couldn't actually enjoy dancing for the occasional hot guy, so long as he can resist being an arrogant asshole about it--but if she loses control by acting "giddy", etc., she's going to make less money.

    And that, after all is the point of dancing--making money doing something you enjoy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR
    ...I took a potty break ...
    *wince* and *retreat to cool table*

    [maybe this is a regional thing, but that sounds a bit too michael jackson-ish out here]

    No worries, I'll be back. Everybody says hokey shit now and then.

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    Here's my 2 cents. An exotic dancer is in essence an independant contractor. She is her own boss and is free to do whatever she wants. If she finds a good guy and connects with him she should not hold her self back just because she is afraid of being called the "S" word by her peers. (Don't seek validation nor be ego centered. A good friend would NOT make fun of your values.)

    The reality of this though is that doing pickup in a gentleman's club takes a lot of guts and confidence because most men just don't know how to break through the routines you guys give the average loser that thinks they can pay their way into your bedroom. Just respect the man that is trying to befriend you, especially if he is giving the same level of respect back (even though odds are you aren't going to get a cent out of him, for fear of sparking your automatic routine and being branded a custie, which is the equivalent of LJBF land).

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    Quote Originally Posted by noshi
    Here's my 2 cents. An exotic dancer is in essence an independant contractor. She is her own boss and is free to do whatever she wants. If she finds a good guy and connects with him she should not hold her self back just because she is afraid of being called the "S" word by her peers. (Don't seek validation nor be ego centered. A good friend would NOT make fun of your values.)
    Trust me, a girl who finds a customer attractive is not "holding back" because of what her peers may think. F*** them. True, a good friend will not make fun of your values BUT a good friend will tell you to get up off your ass and go make some $$$







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    Some ego-centered guys seek validation by going to stripclubs and trying to pick up dancers without paying a cent. The challenge is irresistable.

    That isn't to say that every guy who goes to a stripclub with no intention of getting any dances or spending money on the dancers is going to be disrespectful, but all too often that is exactly what they are being.
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    When I first read the OP, I thought about the general case, of how people act when they interact with someone they think is hawt...

    In that context, the answer is yes!

    Everybody does it, even at Wal-Mart (on the rare occasion when you actually find a hot cashier).

    If you say you don't, you're either lying or you don't realize you're doing it.

    For sure the answers to the question are a lot more interesting in the context of stripping and SC's!

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    What is a Cute Guy? What are teh standerds of Male Beaghty
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