View Poll Results: How often do guys cross the line?

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  • Rarely - almost never

    2 5.88%
  • 1 in a hundred

    2 5.88%
  • 1 in 20

    2 5.88%
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    9 26.47%
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    19 55.88%
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Thread: How often do they go too far?

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    Default How often do they go too far?

    Ladies - this question is directed to you.

    The recent Duke case brings up an important issue. Assuming the gal isn't a scheming devil incarnate, clearly the guys crossed the line of what the dancer considered appropriate for what they paid. The problem was, there was no bouncer.

    The media and blogrolls are making wild generalizations about the frequency of this - mostly as a tool to whitewash the incident with the "boys will be boys" catchphrase.

    Well, thankfully there is a forum which allows us to poll those who would know better than anyone else - StripperWeb.

    The question I have is: How frequent do customers cross the line of decency with you?

    For the purposes of this poll, I'll define the line of decency to focus on the aggression of the customer's behavior. For purposes of this question, I'd ask you to discount those incidents caused by innocent ignorance about what is and is not acceptable and focus on those who seem not to care.


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    Default Re: How often do they go too far?

    The problem I have is that there seems to be this epidemic with guys thinking that if they shove enough money in our faces that it'll be enough for us to overlook the fact they're violating at the very least club rules, if not outright law violations depending on the area you're in and what they're trying to pay you to overlook. And, I'm not just talking outright prostitution either.
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    I chose rarely/never because there are some guys who try to break the rules or push my boundaries, but once I tell them no, they stop. I've had maybe 1 or 2 guys since I've started working that have done something really inappropriate, but other than that, it's usually guys trying to touch during a dance, and I tell them no and they stop. There were only those 1 or 2 times where I just ended the dance short.
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    I chose over 30% because every night at least one guys offers $ to go home with him, a couple try to get hjs,bjs during dances, and almost all try to touch my boobs even after I explain that the club doesn't allow it. I have the reflexes of a ninja because of this job!

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    I too chose over 30%. I do acknowledge that this is partially my own fault, as I do not stop them from the get-go. At my club two way contact is expected and if not recived the $$ will stop. So I put up with the usual leg grope etc...but beyond that, yes at least 30% try to get away with more. Examples..grabbing tits, ass crack, even attempts to touch my kitty. Grabbing my hips and pulling me down on their hard-on. Letting their dick "slip" out of their shorts. Slobbering any where they can get their mouth....oh hell I could go on and on, and yes, unfortunately it happens WAY too much.

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    Once I kicked a multibillionaire in the head for touching my clit. He asked me why because he had SO much money WHY would I do that?

    "Money can't buy my morals."

    Asshat.

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    They go too far at least 30% of time.It's really a pain to deal with.I feel like I'm swatting away flies most of the time.I have had to get a floor host to interevene on many occasions.They really get out of hand during Mardi Gras.
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    About once a shift for me. Sometimes more, but that's the average.

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    I chose over 30%, because at least 2-3 times a night I have a guy offering me money or drugs to be his ho. That, and they're always offering me 2 bucks to see my kitty *i work in a pasties club* Oh OKAY that sounds great let me do that!
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    Default Re: How often do they go too far?

    I wonder how many gals here would choose over 50% if if were an option.

    I've had some gals during dances look at me as if I walked out of a time machine because I wasn't touching them. I like the appreciation of my manners and all, but if you think about it, that appreciation is sort of a byproduct of how badly customers on the average behave.
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    Default Re: How often do they go too far?

    On a good night there will still be at least one guy who has to do something disrespectful. The average for me would be 20% (1 in 5 guys) act badly. And I have a pretty high tolerance for ignorance and try to correct them. But I'm referring to the guys who persist in acting this way despite my objections.

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    Thanks for all the responses - I am unpleasantly suprised at the high response.

    Doc - you're right - I should have included an "over 50%" option.


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    In my experience, over 50% of the time...but I also spent the majority of my dancing years in Houston....

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    Y'know I'm remembering something Zoe taught me that worked wonders!! I always told them not anywhere near where the hair starts or between the legs (I have a landing strip) and they would always go past that!! Zoe tells them not below the bellybutton because when they go past it they're not invading personal space but they THINK they are. So you can call them naughty and smack their hand and not feel violated or break the law.

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    Default Re: How often do they go too far?

    Yeah, I'm surprised the poll didn't include an over 50% option. The pollster is an incredible optimist. Sounds like Lyssa Lynn and I are in the same boat. Two-way contact is expected in Texas, and about one guy in every three or four will just keep pushing the envelope to see how far they can go before I freak out. It's sort of a balancing act, because if you nip things in the bud and don't allow any contact, most won't buy a second dance. On the other hand, if you do allow it, they want more. I typically pretend to be shocked a little before my actual limits are reached; that way, the guys who get a thrill out of pushing my limits get their jollies, and I don't have to have my kitty poked at.

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