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    when i go to work, i really hate when guys act like they have feelings for me. i dont like when they try and stare in my eyes the whole time im giving them a dance. i dont usually say anything, i just look away or turn around or something. its like, i want them to look at my body while i dance and pay me and let me be on my way! i dont like when they get all mushy and stuff. do yall have a problem with this also? have any suggestions on how to handle it?

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    ...do they at least tip you more for that???
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    i don't mind if they look into my eyes when i'm dancing and act like they are in love with me(of course they are in love with my mind not my body ) i just use the fact that they are "in love" to get more money from them....its worth the irritation if u benefit from it...u can take him someplace "more private" like the champagne room and dance more slowly and seductively and really make the best out of a situation that u find annoying...
    but it goes without saying that nobody wants a stalker...
    what does drive me crazy is if a guy acts all mushy in love and just wants to waste my time...when he forgets that he's in a strip club and its not the love connection

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    I don't like it, but it kinda of goes with the territory.

    You are providing them their fantasy and they get caught up in it.

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    May I suggest my thread in Hustle Hut...it is on page 4..titled.. Ever fantasize while giving a dance. You may find it helpful in these situations.

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    The "mushy" is what I sell.

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    Give him a look in the eyes back. But not a romantic one, a sexy one. Bite your lip, then look away and keep doing what you're doing.
    Last edited by greggy; 04-24-2006 at 06:13 AM. Reason: spelling

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    ^^ This is exactly what I do... I cannot stand the mushy I love you crap... I give them a sexy look and then turn away.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LuckiCharm
    when i go to work, i really hate when guys act like they have feelings for me. i dont like when they try and stare in my eyes the whole time im giving them a dance. i dont usually say anything, i just look away or turn around or something. its like, i want them to look at my body while i dance and pay me and let me be on my way! i dont like when they get all mushy and stuff. do yall have a problem with this also? have any suggestions on how to handle it?
    This is how you get repeat dances and VIPs. Hell, I WANT a customer to get googly eyes for me. Googly eyes = More $$$$







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    Quote Originally Posted by LuckiCharm
    when i go to work, i really hate when guys act like they have feelings for me. i dont like when they try and stare in my eyes the whole time im giving them a dance....i want them to look at my body while i dance and pay me and let me be on my way!
    Extended eye contact is a flirtation guesture. When we make social eye contact, each glance lasts 2 - 4 seconds. When we are indicating flirtation/sexual interest we might hold the other persons gaze for 10 seconds or more. The staring in your eyes is in the hope you'll show reciprocal interest.

    The second reason that your custy's might be making eye contact is that they want to feel that you have some liking for them. From a guy's point of view, getting a dance from a girl who refuses eye contact suggests you don't have any interest in them as a person.

    If he gets some eye contact and a smile back, then he feels you're reacting to him as a person, not just seeing him as $20. $20 might well be your primarly motivation for the dance, but us male custy's have fragile ego's, so it's probably better to hide your true thoughts with said smile.

    I suspect you are uncomfortable because consciously or subconsciously you dislike the non verbal signals of interest. If that eye contact makes you really uncomfortable, I suggest you get in close with your boobs, etc., so that he can't make eye contact easily.

    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses
    This is how you get repeat dances and VIPs. Hell, I WANT a customer to get googly eyes for me. Googly eyes = More $$$$
    Unfortunately, cinammonkisses is right; eye contact has an effect on the male of the species, and will tend to boost your earnings. If you want them to pay you more and be on your way, then you need to find a way to make eye contact while hiding the fact you don't like it.

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    ^^^^^^^BINGO! Don't run from the Mush Man. You want to see that look because he's the guy who'll spend hours in the VIP telling you how incredible you are. Embrace the hopeless romantic!

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    Yep yep, I love those guys. They always make a few more trips to the ATM for me!

    Besides, if we're just gazing into each other's eyes, I don't have to keep thinking of new moves and I can rest my aching knees for a little bit.

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    I just say to them, "you're an Eye guy, arent you? I can tell." more often than not they'll respond with YES HOW DID YOU KNOW. yay, you just made a connection with a customer. yay , you just made money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses
    This is how you get repeat dances and VIPs. Hell, I WANT a customer to get googly eyes for me. Googly eyes = More $$$$
    CK is right, as usual. I love it when guys want to make eye contact. These guys usually buy multiple dances and require less contact, cause they're more into the emotional aspect of the dance, rather than the physical. When a guy doesn't look at my face at all, I can lay my bets that it's going to be a grabby dance.

    Learn to dance with your face, not just with your body. Customers really do notice when you're only sexy from the neck down. Guys often point out to me which girls they think look bored or angry; that reminds me to keep smiling and making eye contact.

    It sounds like maybe eye contact is difficult for you because it feels too personal. Some people aren't comfortable making eye contact in normal social situations, for the same reason. Learn to do it will make you more money, though. Just remember, it's all acting. If you can put your boobs in their face, you can look them in the eyes and smile.

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    Eh, I don't mind it. If that'a the fantasy they want to buy, I'll sell it. Im a great actress.

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    getting a few guys to "fall in love" with you for the evening ensures you'll make bank that night!

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    As far as I'm concerned, having them focus on your face is much better than them focusing on your thong.

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    i guess im weird! cuz id rather them look at my thong and get it over with. anyone else feel this way? i think its less intimate, and i have a big problem with intimacy with men i dont know. feel me?

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