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    How to tell your once Favorite To Kiss off

    Well I'm sure every dancer has been dumped...............by a regular so when it has to happen....... how does a regular dump a girl he can't stand anymore... what do you do?

    A bit too late for me to change my mind, Next time I see her I'll go mad as hell an blow up an it'll be the usual mess

    Right now all her stripper coworkers/friends who once hated me now act all cutes & absolutely LOVE ME (all competeing to be my next fav)
    Everyone tip toes around me (i'm a big guy)

    I just got tired of heaping love an affection on a girl an basically getting sluffed off an not getting the "feel" i was expecting. Going out for her cigs. chocolates, gifts, promos I made for her, etc

    we no longer went out on dinner dates, no longer talked out of club hours (she always ran away). An getting snubbed by a girl is like the worst feeling I can get. Anytime I confront her on "are you mad, whats wrong? she just gives me a run around bullshit lie (i'm not hustling you, I like men more (she's bi). etc, etc, etc

    What can you say or do to prevent a hell bent mess yet not leave your balls on the ground to get stomped on?

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    you are the one with the money, therefore the one with the control. Why are you worried about her?

    She gave you a boatload of SS and you bought it. (oopsie) and now she's realizing she went too far and is trying to bring it back to where it was (double oopsie). You both will learn from your mistakes.

    You sound like you love the drama....so enjoy it.

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    True dat lol. Starting to wish I was gay, save money an heartache. That an tired of getting hustled outside the SC instead of inside it.

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    yeah, because gay guys don't play games

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    Quote Originally Posted by TaLlOnE
    True dat lol. Starting to wish I was gay, save money an heartache. That an tired of getting hustled outside the SC instead of inside it.
    Yeah, that would solve ALL of your problems....

    No offense dude but, after reading your posts it appears you where born to be hustled. You can learn from your mistakes or wallow in them. It's your choice.
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    Default Re: How to tell your once Favorite To Kiss off

    You mean you didn't see that coming?

    You need a couple more years of objective experience before you start playing with the pros.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TaLlOnE
    Well I'm sure every dancer has been dumped...............by a regular so when it has to happen....... how does a regular dump a girl he can't stand anymore... what do you do?
    If you really want a clean break, just stop spending money on her. Of course, looking at the title of this thread and the tone of your post, I'd say you're more out for some sort of petty revenge. I mean hell, if you can't get the money back you spent on her, you might as well get your money's worth by making her life hell, right?

    I just got tired of heaping love an affection on a girl an basically getting sluffed off an not getting the "feel" i was expecting. Going out for her cigs. chocolates, gifts, promos I made for her, etc
    Some of us would reserve that kind of treatment for a girlfriend, not someone whose time we're paying for. Besides, you didn't have to do any of it.

    What can you say or do to prevent a hell bent mess yet not leave your balls on the ground to get stomped on?
    Just cut off the money. If she was only being nice to you in order to get yours (and gee what stripper would possibly do that ), I'm sure she'll get the hint. Besides if you have all her co-workers begging to replace her, it should be that much easier.

    But again, judging from your tone, I don't think putting her in your past is what you want.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    yeah, because gay guys don't play games
    LOL, yah, true there, Human beings in general huh

    thou makes you wonder because theres usually two types of gays it seems (like I would know, I'm str8 ok )

    Flaminging Gay

    Butch Gay

    Is there a difference, LOL?

    An yah, I'm a bit steamed about it

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    I never wondered, and don't care, but I've watched enough MTV to know that's not quite right

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    Quote Originally Posted by TaLlOnE
    Well I'm sure every dancer has been dumped...............by a regular so when it has to happen....... how does a regular dump a girl he can't stand anymore... what do you do?

    I just got tired of heaping love an affection on a girl an basically getting sluffed off an not getting the "feel" i was expecting. Going out for her cigs. chocolates, gifts, promos I made for her, etc

    we no longer went out on dinner dates, no longer talked out of club hours (she always ran away). An getting snubbed by a girl is like the worst feeling I can get. Anytime I confront her on "are you mad, whats wrong? she just gives me a run around bullshit lie (i'm not hustling you, I like men more (she's bi). etc, etc, etc.\
    If she were genuinely interested in you, money would have dropped out of the equation some time ago. Dancers interested in you as a friend, (or even bf), do not treat you as a source of income.

    Quote Originally Posted by TaLlOnE
    What can you say or do to prevent a hell bent mess yet not leave your balls on the ground to get stomped on?
    Why have a drama in the first place? You mean you really didn't realise your money was a big motivating factor for her? Sound's like you thought if you spent enough on her, you might get into her knickers. So you tried to use her, and she used you right back. Looks like the honours are even.

    Just put it down to experience, and leave it be.

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    Tallone, i think u need to cut ur losses and move on for a while. If ur fave is using u as a doormat, she obviously doesn't respect u as a customer or as a whole. When she sees u've moved on, she'll get the messege. If her friends are treating u well, i think u should give them a chance. U may find someone better. Come on, we've all been there... No need to sweat it. There is absolutely no need to take abuse from someone ur paying. Sure, u can give them chances, but if it's clear she's using u as a doormat, u need to rethink things. After all, the club is for having fun, not for carrying grudges and negativity. Take a deep breath, smile, and give someone else a shot!

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    In defense, I did like her that way but I didnt want to use her, I wanted her as a GF.

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    BIG MISTAKE!!!!!

    U can't buy affection. The sc is the WRONG place to look for a gf. Dancers have told that many times. lol U may find "club friends" who may even talk to u otc, but because of the complications, ur most likely going to be in for a world of hurt if ur looking for a gf. Yes, she may even like u and think ur cool, but complications will usually get in the way sooner or later. Just look at her as someone u can hang out with (itc) and u should be fine. I like giving gifts too, but the club relationships i have are open enough so that i know the girls are involved already and we're just "club friends" and nothing more. Just accept reality and ull see it's not so bad...

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    Just don't ever go back to the strip club, or any other strip club for that matter.

    That'll show her.

    lol

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    ^^ lol what he said
    I believe you Dottie and you have my support

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    Well i have been dumped a few times, and i never get mad for what? Thats his fucking money and women come and go and ccustomers come and go. But they always know who ther favorite is and trust me they will be back even if its for a hot second.

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    i'm sure you probably know who the girls are at the club that she doesn't like, just start getting dances from them while she's at the club. that should piss her off & you get some strange ass at the same time

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    she hustled you, that's what strippers do to men that go into their place of work. Anyway, my advice would be to go to a new club and start over again. If you csn handle getting hustled of course. But if you want a real life girlfriend somewhere besides a strip club. You remind me of this guy that comes in every week and complains about how all the girls he ever takes out from there only care about his money.

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    Study the dark side, its your only hope.

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    ^ The dark side requires expertise, intelligence, discipline, sacrifice and the willingness -- no, the desire -- to do absolutely anything in the world for a dancer at any time, anywhere. Remember: The dark side is the advanced course.

    We actually take a blood oath, complete with ceremony, you know. I can show you my scar. It's pretty cool.

    The dark side requires you to be an absolute expert at this game, a reveler in the house of mirrors, entirely comfortable in that toxic mix of sexuality, intensity, money, alcohol, SS, OTC encounters, breakfast, shopping trips, phone calls, texting and cross-country travel. And yet, like every discipline, we remain, at heart, novices.

    This is an entirely different planet from the timid first steps of our poster (recognizing, of course, that we've all been there ourselves). There is so much for him to learn (about being PL'd, about the nature of the biz, about how to carry himself as a customer) that we should reserve the dark side for him at some other point in the future and hope he spends enough time here to learn how to better take care of himself and the dancers he admires.
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    How long have you been doing the customer thing?? As others have said, it seems it hasnt been that long. GF's almost **never** come out of the stripping business.

    Hey, don't take it personally!! It's happened to many of us before too...

    The longest I've ever spent as someone's regular was 2 1/2 years! And boy-oh-boy, did I spend some coin on that!!

    I'll tell ya' tho, she had some major-league game!!

    What did I get for my $$$... many hours spent having a great time and a friend (still see her from time-to-time). She would also cook for me, and on occasion she'd pay real coin for the work I did on her new computer

    She also told me how she plays the game, which helped me jack my game up big-time!!

    When the magic wore off, I slowly reduced the money I was spending, and we both went about our merry way, friendship intact!

    And no, the GF thing was never on the table.

    Quote Originally Posted by TaLlOnE
    In defense, I did like her that way but I didnt want to use her, I wanted her as a GF.

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    The easist way for you to dump your ATF is to simply find another girl. If the romance has worn off, it is time for you both to move on. When you next go into the club, tell your ex-fave that you'll be hanging out tonight with Hot Young Thing and she is free to go work the floor because you know she needs to make money (I bet you know better than most!!).

    Don't give up your strip club fun because a dancer led you on. That is what we do! Now that you know what you are paying for, go back out there and have a great time!

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    When I switched from Mac to Clinique, I didn't tell Mac to "Kiss Off". That's a temper tantrum and probably means you're mad and don't really want to leave.

    When somebody wants to leave, they just do. New things I like are more fun to think about than last years model.

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    LOL

    I just meant the OP should study the blue side and start to learn the ways of the strip club junkie. My personal view of the dark side is probably somewhere between "Darth Monger's" and The Other Owner's views. Definetly shaded closer to TOO's viewpoint though.

    I've given the original post more thought today. Doesn't it seem very close to the very behavior that so many of the ladies post complaints about?

    To start Tallone's course of study, I'd suggest reading all of the pink side for a year before ever setting foot in a strip club again.

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    Baby - here's the problem. You don't want to dump the ATF. You want to make her pay. You can't. She (probably) doesn't care. The only think that will irk her is if you are spending the money you used to spend on her on someone else. Because she wants the money. I doubt she cares about you. You need to (a) not obsess over strippers. We're flaky. Check the blue side. They'll tell you. (b) go out and find a nice girl who doesn't take off her clothes and let men touch her for money. Seriously. Dude - I never got why so guys want to date us. I think it's fucked up. (c) Absorb this, really and truly. Wait for it: okay - if she doesn't like you or value you now she is not going to after you tell her to "kiss off."
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