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    Default how often do u guys see someone u know come in?

    at first i was gonna move to another city for the summer to do this
    then i just thought oh whatever ill just stay where i live now and go to another part of town where i really dont know anyone. i suppose at one point u just have to get used to the idea that 'anyone' can see you naked and u have to be 'professional' at all times (ie not run away and hide) because ive told a few ppl but i for sure dont want it 'getting out' now that i really give a shit what ppl think but i mean it cannot get bak to my parents.. im thinking of this one gr8 club in my city i mean i live in montreal so there are so many options here. im thinking of just risking it. i guess if one billy that comes in recognizes me hes not going to make it his life goal to tell everyone lol

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    I went to the other side of town, and amde the mistake of take a foolish girl with me..... she anouced it to the whole world, and the entire building in wich we lived, even put it on a job aplication........ she thought it was going to give her instant popularity.......i wanted to scream at her sooo bad. so my cover was blown to pieces. now im trying to up the curage to just go and do this thing alone. foolish girl.

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    The club I work at is kinda in the country and is about 45 minutes from where I live. I've yet to see someone in there that I knew...

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    I dances 5 minutes from where I lived and went to school.

    Not once.

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    Never had it happen yet. OTOH, the last club I danced at's chef used to work with me at Wendy's about 3 years ago and remeberred me first. Was kind of weird, but it was nice after a while to talk to someone I knew when I was feeling down.

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    oh dear this just happened to me tonite. i got so embarrased that i told the person they must have the wrong girl. he was in with his date! i got so embarrassed- even though i was bouncing around naked. also, i dont want to put myself at risk and possibly have this person say something too personal that might put me in danger. yep, im paranoid. anyone else ever got so beet red in the face and done this?

    i feel like such a dork...i can be completely off the walls at work and once someone knows about what i do, i get so darn shy and turn beet red.

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    i'm not saying it will never happen, but i've been working almost a year now and it's never happened to me.

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    hasn't happened but i was dancing where i was going to school about 2hrs away from home. i used to be so freaked that friends back at home would find out but not so much anymore. i think if i feel like i cant tell people what i do then i shouldn't be doing it. everyone that is important to me i told up front so they know, and there are people i choose to not tell unless they ask, but honestly i think everyone at home has an idea and im ok with that.

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    I danced in Florida and figured I'd never run in to anyone I knew since I grew up in California. About a year and a half into my dancing, wouldnt you know it, in walks someone I went to high school with, not only that but we had actually dated a few times. Talk about a totally weird moment! But, he was cool about it and we caught up on our lives etc.

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    I also work a "regular" job near my club and I see someone I know every other week. It's not a big deal and for the most part they are more embarassed that you saw them there.

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    This happens to me all the time. I work in the same town I went to school in, and now that I'm almost 21, all the guys I went to school with are 21 or are close to turning 21, and a lot of them have been coming in lately. They're usually really cool about it (once in a while I'll get a jackass) but for the most part, everything goes smoothly. On Saturday night I actually had a bunch of teachers from my high school come in- my Spanish teacher, my Civics teacher, and my guidance counselor all came in, along with about 5 other guys that I recognized from school, but never actually had as teachers. That was pretty embarassing, but they didn't say anything to me, even though I could tell from the looks on their faces that they recognized me. I think they were hoping that I wouldn't say anything to them either, which I didn't.
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    Hi everyone this is kinda funny because just the other night i was on the other end of the situation. Me and my girlfriend were out checking out one of the clubs in our neighbourhood and we ran into a girl that we used to work with she was dancing there, we didnt really recognize her at first but then she approached us. She didn't seem overly embarrased about it but she was just kinda like "soo what brings you guys here?" We told her we were thinking of getting into the business and then she seemed a little more relaxed. I didn't think it was that big of a deal, after all if your ashamed of it i dont think you should be doing it. Am i not right?

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    I quite often see people I know... at first I was pretty embarassed, but now I just demand they book me for a private dance. Make a joke out of it and act like I don't care.

    Can be hard sometimes though.
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    If you have a serious day job you might want to think twice about dancing in the same city - i had my boss walk into the club i worked at...twice. I got away with it both times and he never came back (helps that he was henceforth barred thanks to the wonderful colleagues i had ) but if i had been seen it would have been trouble for me.

    Similarly if you don't want your folks to find out it may be worth working further from home - it's nothing to do with beinf ashamed, more about sparing people you care about any distress and thinking about your future career.

    If these two aren't an issue then go for it - i know lots of girls who have their mom's come in!

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    Once. A professor I'd had for a class a small seminar class a few years before. I walked right up to him before I realized who it was. Two seconds into my spiel it clicked who I was talking to, and I started to laugh, turned around and beat a hasty retreat. Not the smoothest exit, but it was fine. A friend of mine went over and danced for him, said he asked a few questions about me but had no idea who I was. A few weeks later I got an e-mail from him out of the blue, so I guess he figured it out. (I never answered it.) In short, it wasn't the end of the world, though it would have been weird if I'd still been in his class.

    A little while ago I went through a two week period where I saw guys I knew from the club in the outside world -- in line at the grocery store, at the movie theater with friends, in the restaurant where I was having dinner with my boyfriend. I don't live in a small town, so it's weird that this happened over and over again in such a short period. I actually find this more un-nerving -- you notice someone staring at you and wonder why, then realize it's that guy who bought three lap dances and talked about his taxes and wanted to touch your poon but was pretty nice about it when you said no. In most cases it wasn't obvious if they recognized me or if they were just trying to figure out where they knew me from. I look pretty different when I'm not all strippered out.

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    I ran into a current professor when I was a new stripper . . . it wasn't horrible but I felt a little bad for ruining his evening out. Seeing a prof or classmate doesn't really matter unless the name of your school is Brigham Young, Baylor, or Bob Jones University.

    But I danced in Austin for ten years and hardly ever ran into people I knew in the club. I can think of two occasions where I saw former high school classmates (hell, I saw more than that as fellow dancers), one where I saw current college classmates, and one where I saw a straight job coworker. I'm not really social to begin with so my pool of people I know is relatively small.

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    I've only been working 4 months and I've seen at least a dozen people that I know. What's even more wierd are the people who rember me, but who I cannot recall. A bunch of guys I went to school with (I was a freshman and they were juniors/seniors) have recognized me. Wierd, b/c I'm so much younger the them. (you have to be 21 to get into my club...I'm 1

    I also have seen 2 men my dad knows. I saw his business partner (he's a realtor) but I don't think he saw me. I hope he didn't, as my dad's the only person I really don't want knowing I'm dancing. Funny, b/c he used to be a really big patron of the club I work in.
    I just stayed in the vip area and had the dj switch me onto the vip stage, b/c he was at the main bar. No big deal! Hopefully my dad won't actually come in! I'ld really try to get a custy to take me into the champagne room so I could hide, and I'ld skip my stage sets! I try not to think about what would happen if he saw me, esp. naked!

    I also saw my father's MINISTER! omg, I was hesterical. He preaches against "sexual misconduct" like premarital sex and paying for sex, in any form, including stripping. He saw me, and freaked out. He was so embarassed to be cought. I didn't ask for anything, I wasn't even going to go up to him, but he came over and tipped me on stage, said "I was never here, please keep my secret, I'll keep yours", and almost ran to the door. When I went into the dressing room, I saw that he had tipped me 500 bucks! Great for me, but I wouldn't have said anything either way.

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    havent happened yet -- suprisingly, since i live in a small college town!

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    Quote Originally Posted by spartaca
    If you have a serious day job you might want to think twice about dancing in the same city - i had my boss walk into the club i worked at...twice. I got away with it both times and he never came back (helps that he was henceforth barred thanks to the wonderful colleagues i had ) but if i had been seen it would have been trouble for me.

    Similarly if you don't want your folks to find out it may be worth working further from home - it's nothing to do with beinf ashamed, more about sparing people you care about any distress and thinking about your future career.

    If these two aren't an issue then go for it - i know lots of girls who have their mom's come in!


    yeah if my mom found out i would be devastated. i live in the suburbs and was thinking about working at a nice club more downtown.. i dont think anyone i know would really go there but theres a chance. ugh!!

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    I've never seen anyone I knew come in as a customer (although I'm sure it'll happen one day) but at my new club the first dancer I saw in the changing room went to school with me and we were really good friends when we were 10! Had no idea that she danced and it was really embarassing, and I was worried my Dad might find out because she goes to the college he works at, but it's cool now.

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    I've only worked a few days and I have already seen a few people that I know, and I actually kind of like it. It's not the biggest city in the world by far and I attend the rather large University here, so I was expecting it. I'm new, and still a little stressed about trying to hustle dances, so when I see someone I know when I'm on stage I always wave, smile and say hi, and when I'm done I go talk to them. I think it makes me more appealing to other guys to see me out on the floor chatting comfortably, and so far it seems that if I don't act like it's a big deal then neither do they. Word gets around fast here so I'm prepared. Just make sure my hall light is always on and my door is always locked.

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    It happens to me at least once a week. Back when I first started dancing it totally freaked me out but now 6 years later I'm like whatever. Actually, most of the time when I run into someone I haven't seen in awhile and never seen in the club and they notice me they seem embarrassed. I usually break the ice and say hey then move on to the next table.

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