View Poll Results: why do yuo go to strip clubs?

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  • to have fun - nothing more deep than that

    76 41.30%
  • i'm bored with my wife/girlfriend and want to be around other girls

    9 4.89%
  • to look for a future girlfriend

    10 5.43%
  • to get laid - i try to get action in the VIP or OTC

    15 8.15%
  • mostly for conversation

    15 8.15%
  • i'm happily attached to my wife/girlfriend but want extra attention or even just to look

    36 19.57%
  • to unwind after work - to relax

    23 12.50%
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Thread: HONESTLY why do you go?

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    Default HONESTLY why do you go?

    what is it that keeps you comming back to clubs? i don't mean a certain a dancer in particular, i just mean strip clubs in general. i know the obvious answer is "T&A" but i'm curious as to the particulars. no one can see your poll answer, so be honest please. if it's more than one or more specific, please respond with your answer.

    *edited to say, sorry for the typeo on the word "you" in the poll question. it won't let me edit the poll.*


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    the main reason i go on a friday or saturday night is because the clubs & bars in my area are empty untill around 11 & i like to start drinking around 8:30 or 9, so i hit the sc for a few hours then go o the other clubs. during the day i'm just bored & the daytime bartender at my fav. club is really cool to hangout with & the staff treats everyone good regardless of how much you spend.
    or maybe its naked women & beer that keeps me coming back

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    Default Re: HONESTLY why do you go?

    For easy reference to said signature.

    I agree, Jay. But which one did you pick? I picked next to last, though I lingered over the first one.

    -gen
    "See, believe it or not (and I don't care whether you do), it's never been about the sex. I get sex at home, anytime, and we like it, and it's good for both of us. No, my stripclub experience has been about acceptance, and affirmation, and desirability...There have been some women who have a personality that just clicks with mine, and in the faux-sex atmosphere of the club, it's a mix that is completely seductive." - Jay Zeno

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    Default Re: HONESTLY why do you go?

    I was torn between 'just for fun' and 'conversation'.

    I chose 1 because it most accurately describes my motivation.

    I really don't have fun without good conversation either, whether it's my guy buddies from work, my girl buddies from work, or strippers.

    I didn't choose conversation because that alone won't get me into the club

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    Default Re: HONESTLY why do you go?

    So many nights I come home from the club and feel like posting this to this forum:

    Oh my God, oh my God, oh my ever f-ing loving God almighty.

    And that's just in praise of my home club. And that lasts for several days, depending on what else we've lined up for the evenings that week.

    Speaking from the intriguiging depths of the dark side: It's all about sensuality, connection, trust, powerful physical intensity, laughter, support, endless conversation and an overwhelming drive to do exactly the right thing for a dancer, every single time. No matter what it is. So it might be as simple as "help" in its myriad forms, but more commonly it's talk, or three dinners out, or a trip for two to NYC, or a weekend at the condo at the shore or two-hour phone calls at 1:00 AM. It's never the same thing twice.

    SS is a wonderful art form and a source of great admiration when well executed, but it will bounce off most of us by now, don't you think? Because SCs are the ultimate house of mirrors, it's reality that becomes the supreme aphrodesiac.

    Ultimately, what makes the difference is this: The girls all know you. They all trust you. They are making the choices and the plans. Everything else follows their cue.

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    Default Re: HONESTLY why do you go?

    good conversation..

    but their is two things that i hold on too very greedly. break either and you've lost me forever.

    1. I'm more than a walking wallet.
    2. Your more than 2 tits a hole and heartbeat.
    Support your local stripper!

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    Hmm-- I picked "just for fun." That's pretty close, but I calls it "therapy" -- mmm, contact, no questions asked, the opportunity to admire beautiful women openly & honestly -- *and* when I walk out of the club I can ferget about her needs -- I've paid her to take care of 'em herself -- & for those that money can't take care of, sorry. . .

    There's no other place I can look @ a woman the way I'd like to sometimes & get away w/ it -- @ least for more than abt 2 seconds. . . .

    Rip

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    To sit back, relax, enjoy myself and not worry about much.

    I'm on my toes at a party, dance or any other social occasion. I'm carefully monitoring my behavior, trying to say the right things and make people enjoy themselves. I'm trying to flirt and hold a good conversation with any number of people and maybe looking for a future date.

    I don't have to do any of the above at a stripclub. And if I do any of it, it is entirely for fun with no expectations, no stress and no worrying about the future.
    Never stand begging for that which you have the power to earn.

    The truth lies in a man's dreams... perhaps in this unhappy world of ours whose madness is better than a foolish sanity.

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    Default Re: HONESTLY why do you go?

    Nice post Rip, I agree.

    Enjoying the company of a woman without all the politics. You've given her your dough and when you leave, rules stipulate that you can't continue the relationship so you don't worry about offending by not calling, being judged, etc.

    Similar to women, it's a theraputic way for men to lose the shame reflex for normal feelings of arousal.


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    It's about those moments which leave you breathless."

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    Started going to one or two of the local London, (UK), strip pubs when I moved into the area several years ago. I didn't know anyone where I lived at the time, so it was a useful way of killing an evening. Started chatting to several of the dancers. We found we got on and gradually drifted into being friends outside the pubs.

    These days I generally just go towards the ends of their shifts to pick them up and run them home if they need it. Being friendly with them outside of work means there's no great difference in the conversation if I meet them for a drink in the evening, or if I pick them up from work. In fact I find myself increasingly blasé about the fact that I see several of my friends nude on a regular basis.

    What I do find a slightly strange experience is the feeling of being an outsider looking in. The dancer grapevine being what it is, a good proportion of the other dancers who work these pubs have got to know me and know I'm friends with several dancers OTC. They'll switch out of dancer mode when they chat to me, and we'll just catch up on what we've done since we last met.

    I joke about it being a little bubble of reality in fantasy land, but it's a slightly odd experience seeing the SS being deployed in the rest of the pub, and watching a goodly part of the audience buying into it as real.

    Phil.

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    I enjoy my ATF's company and beauty.
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    Default Re: HONESTLY why do you go?

    I couldn't vote -- none of the choices quite fit, or maybe they all do. I guess I'll also be one of the only pigs in the barnyard, here...

    I think SCs are one of the last vestiges of good-old-fashioned chauvinism left in America (there are other vestiges, to varying degrees, in other parts of the world, many of them not at all so harmless).

    It's one of the only places where a man can enjoy being a man without being made to feel the slightest bit self-conscious or politically incorrect about it. (At least until he reads the pink side!)

    Really, SCs are too fucking good to be true, so I'm sure the neopuritans will soon abolish them completely. Fuckers.

    Like my forefathers have since the time they lived in caves (or the fucking trees), I enjoy watching naked dancing girls.

    I enjoy having half-naked serving girls bring me meat and alcohol.

    I enjoy sitting on my ass like a fucking king and having beautiful women ask me if they can sit down and talk to me.

    As Mr. Punk might say, I enjoy having beautiful women sit on my balls.

    And yes, I enjoy it when the naked dancing girls get a little frisky and let me get a little frisky with them.

    I enjoy even the illusion that one (or more...) of them might let me carry her off to my pile of furs for the night once the revelry ends.

    I can enjoy all of this without any embarrassment, shame, guilt, or concern for offending anyone when I let my poor repressed reptilian hindbrain out of the fucking closet for a little while.

    Best of all? I can do all of this and still be a gentleman. At the same time I'm letting my inner Cujo out to stretch his legs and take a leak on the fire hydrant, I can still be courteous, generous, supportive, appreciative, and respectful of the naked dancing girls. In that regard, the SC is even better than good-old-fashioned chauvinism.

    Of course, it's all an illusion that is bought and paid for. But so what? I have money to spend. Back in the day, all of this would have been my reward for beating some unfortunate animal on the head with a heavy stick and roasting its carcasse over the fire. Today, it's my reward for being good at my job and successful in my career. Same deal, slightly different job description.

    Hmm...the club doesn't close until 3:00...maybe I have time.

    God Bless Strip Clubs and God Bless Strippers!

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    I just got back from the club. A month's worth of stress was just melted away. It's 100 times better than any counseling you could get.

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    For a sexual experience (term used very loosely) with an ordinarily unobtainable woman. Similar to pampering yourself on a cruise ship or living it up in a suite in the city for the weekend; they're tastes of a better life.
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    Because anything with naked girls involved is bound to be fun.

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    It's an exciting rush and breaks up the boredom of life.

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    my female friend and I frequent clubs mainly for the attention of another female for her. Half the time she is dragging me to one (twist my rubber arm, I know).

    We go to have fun and for her to get turned on for the night and to get a little bit of girl on girl play. I'm usually just along for the ride... which is not a bad thing from my perspective.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kdogg247
    I just got back from the club. A month's worth of stress was just melted away. It's 100 times better than any counseling you could get.
    You hit the nail right on the head buddy, I hear yah. I finally went just a little while ago because a friend told me its very relaxing. I went one time and just you get to forget about your job, what you have to do, what bill is coming up you know everyday stuff that just after awhile piles up and you just need a night away.

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    (x) Most of the above.

    I love the excitement of a woman's sensuality, whether my wife's or a dancer's -- and I must confess that the dancer's is more provocative and stirring. But I'm glad for the (relative) safety of the club. I'm thrilled by the possibility of OTC, but in the end I'm a coward and retreat home. I love the conversation, and often I'm happy if all we do is touch each other. And I need an environment totally foreign to work, home, family, and other commitments to let off steam before those commitments get dangerously overwhelming.

    There was a time when I found myself spending lots of time searching the web for free porn. I refuse to pay for it, because I don't trust them with my identity or credit. Suddenly it dawned on me that the smell and touch of a real woman would be lots more fun than a bunch of pixels on the little screen. I've not been back to those silly pixels since. Yes, I'm sometimes a PL. I'm potentially addicted. I'm not surprised, either, given some of the women from whom I've had the pleasure of their company.

    Nonetheless, I come home. And enjoy my life there. And then return to the club.

    And spend half my late nights reading and contributing to this silly site!! What a crazy fool am I! Why would ANYONE in their right minds do this?

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    To dry hump

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    I go to SC's for what I call ITC fun and it is difficult for me to control the spending. Usually this is when OTC action has slowed and I am looking for a new gal for OTC action. Next I will go to a club like Heartbreakers (Houston area) today for the free steak n fries, have a beer and have 2 or 3 close contact dances. I had a great time with a very cute petite blonde who had been a college cheerleader (but I spent $140 on dances with her), a super treat! Sometimes when I have gone to clubs just for a beer and dances I have been aggressively talked into extras (especially at a club where I am lifetime VIP) and spent much more money ($150 for a certain extra vs $40 for 2 dances just this week). I don't like this as I may not be prepared (condoms, etc.) or so swayed by the passion of the moment I regret how much I spent later. I see this happening more and more in the Houston area and wonder if the dancers are struggling just trying to sell dances.

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    In the hopes that I see a chick that's developed her own style on the stage. Maybe I'm a freak, whatever, but too see a girl that let's the music move her body fluently and fluidly is like AMAZING! It's rare to find a girl with that unique style, but when you do it's worth it. Like a priceless painting, because they create art that exist's only within time. At regular night club's it's even harder to see, because there's so little room to perform and it really isn't encouraged. Making friends and seeing half naked girls is great and all, but having the hope that you'll see that girl that oozes so much style that for 4-5 minutes you forget everything else and imprint that memory in your mind til' you die, man...... to me that's priceless.

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    ^^^

    It must indeed by X-Mas time, that's the only way I can explain it. Any other time of year and a comment like that would have earned the poster an Initiate-PL Badge. But no, everyone is in such a cheery friendly mood - jingle bells and all. Me, I'm going to go experience some nasty grindage this weekend.

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    Sorry for my ignorance, but what's an initiate's PL badge? Sorry, I'm no good with acronymns.

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    I love to watch beautiful women dance.

    What makes me come back is when I meet one with grace, confidence, and a fun personality to boot.

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