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    Okay, I'm going to start dancing in about 4 weeks. I need to know what EXACTLY is considered extra. I don't want to piss other dancers off in the club by being an "extra girl," but I don't want to pass up money because I'm too tame....

    I've been a customer for a while and dancers seem to feel free to expose my boobs, lick them, nibble them. They will stick their heads up my skirt and lick my kitty or the inside of my thighs - usually with my g-string intact, but occasionally moving it to the side. They also stick their boobs in my face and rub nipples over my lips - I've been encouraged to lick, suck, or nibble there too.

    I know Texas (or at least Corpus) has a 6 inch rule, which no one seems to follow unless there are cops in the club, so that would mean that grinding and any touching is extra?

    I know I sound stupid and naive....sorry, but I'm thinking I can live with the following when I'm doing a lap dance (assuming the guy doesn't make me want to retch)...

    1) grinding lap - but not really hard or for a long time
    2) putting nipples in face, rubbing across lips
    3) allowing them to touch legs, butt, breasts

    So - would those be considered extras or not?

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    Default Re: Stupid Newbie with Extras Question

    It really depends on the laws or the area and culture of the club. Watch to see what other girls are doing during dances, or on your first day, go up to a bouncer or manager and ask what customers are allowed to do.

    Also, keep in mind that female customers often get much rowdier dances than male customers.

    I think err on the side of caution and stay within your comfort zone until you get a keep for it. Not all guys want a bump and grind either.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SassyMom
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    I've been a customer for a while and dancers seem to feel free to expose my boobs, lick them, nibble them. They will stick their heads up my skirt and lick my kitty or the inside of my thighs - usually with my g-string intact, but occasionally moving it to the side. They also stick their boobs in my face and rub nipples over my lips - I've been encouraged to lick, suck, or nibble there too.


    Dancers do this to you? Did I read that correctly?

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    Default Re: Stupid Newbie with Extras Question

    ditto. female (especially the hot ones!) get WAYYYY different dances than the guys. i wouldnt put any of my body parts in reach of anyones mouth just for safety and cleanliness...
    i don't know how it is in texas either but hold out on the touching, dirtier for VIP the more they spend the more they get. only give what you ''have'' to. guys will pay for it if they feel they are special for getting it. you will soon find out. less is more!

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    Amy - Yes, you read it correctly. I've had several dancers offer to take me home too - strange, but true.

    Thanks to the rest of you - I'll tone it down a bit. So far, I've only danced for hubby which is easy - an easy to be naughty....

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    My suggestion would be to stick to your comfort zone! You are the only one who knows what you will and will not allow yourself to do. Don't worry about the other girls..as far as the nipple to mouth thing...if you're going to be rubbing your breasts in their face then cover your nipples and do it that way. That's the way we always did it at the club i worked. I'm in MI though. Grinding isn't necessarily a bad thing...as long as you feel comfortable with it and you move yourself every so often as to not get them off. Be careful about the guys who rub against you! They get all hyper and psyched up and jump around when you give em dances lol. They are a trip!
    Another good move is to bring a chair infront of your booth and strattle the guy reverse so you are facing away...lean over and grab the chair and smack your ass lol. Guys like ass smacking.
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    LOL funtastic! Guys do seem to like ass smacking....the question is why????

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    Do with what you feel comfortable with, but make sure you get your money up front.

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