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    Default OMG Possibly my first night and I feel ill...

    I turned in a few applications at some restaurants and was on my way home when I noticed a small neighborhood bar hiring. I went in to inquire about waitressing and the bartender told me they needed dancers more than waitresses.

    I didn't want to seem insecure so I was like, ok cool- whatever position is fine. So she told me to come back in two hours and bring some clothes to change into if I get hired.

    I just moved here and wasn't expecting to do it so soon! I am excited but extremely nervous. I don't know the reputation of the place nor anything about the type of customers.

    I don't know if it is topless or nude- forgot to ask

    I would like to have a little drink but I have no alcohol...

    maybe I'm getting all worked up for no reason (I haven't been hired yet) I'm gonna try to go lay down and lower my blood pressure.

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    Default Re: OMG Possibly my first night and I feel ill...

    Wow, not to make things worse... but I would go back and ask some questions. Or, possibly go in a little earlier to get your questions answered.

    Other than that.. if things are all fine and dandy with the club, you will do fine. The first 5 minutes is the worst.

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    Default Re: OMG Possibly my first night and I feel ill...

    I agree you should go back and ask questions, or at least call and talk to the manager. That way you'll know a little more what to be prepared for. Good luck!
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    Default Re: OMG Possibly my first night and I feel ill...

    Don't worry about it. If you get there and you aren't prepared to dance, then just leave. Clubs don't care much if dancers keep schedules or not. Especially if they hired you right off the street like that.

    Go in, ask questions, do your audition. If you still aren't ready, just say so. Also be honest about your lack of expierence as a dancer. They'll cut you some slack for ediquette faux pas.

    Dancing is not like a paycheck job. You can come and go as you please (even if the "rules" say you can't, you can). There is no fired in stripping. Clubs will almost never tell you to not come back. You may be suspended for a week (or fined), but unless you committed a felony crime in the club, you won't be fired. And maybe not even if you get caught committing felonies.


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    Default Re: OMG Possibly my first night and I feel ill...

    What Paris said. In addition: Call prior. They won't mind if you swamp them w/ newbie ?? Most mangs are cool. Most will let u check out the scene before you go up. You'll know what you're in for after watching a couple of sets. Good luck
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    Default Re: OMG Possibly my first night and I feel ill...

    Hey, sometimes the best way to get started in something you're apprehensive about is to just dive right in! Good luck!

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    Let us know how it went! Good vibes coming your way . . .
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    Default Re: OMG Possibly my first night and I feel ill...

    Thanks for the responses ladies.

    I did it-- I'm finally an exotic dancer!!!!!!!!!!

    Here's how it all went down- I got there and I was scared as hell. There weren't many guys there so early in the evening and I felt really dumb just sitting around not doing anything. Even though I was scared about getting on stage- I was kinda relieved because finally I had something to do. I went up there and danced for about 10 minutes, I got tipped and lots of compliments for my dance. I felt much better although I fell bad becauseI'm not very graceful on stage when it comes to going from one position to another.

    pros-

    ..a few of the dancers were sweet, gave me tips and even invited me to sit with them a few times during the evening. One even got me two dances with her custy! The others just ignored me and thats fine also.

    ..my feet and knees feel fine so far. I don't know long this will last though.

    cons-

    ..no lockers, I have no way to secure my stuff!

    ..I lost a potential custy because I kept getting sent away to be with regulars, and ended up not getting any money from them!

    ..after tip-out I only made a little money. OH well gotta start somewhere I guess.

    ..I have to work everyday the club is open- is this normal??

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    Default Re: OMG Possibly my first night and I feel ill...

    no lockers? the very 1st night i got hired i left my shit in the dressing IN a locker (but had no lock) when i came back from my stage my wallet was gone. luckily i only had a few bucks and a debit card that i cancelled immediately. lesson learned. just don't bring anything of value.

    as for working EVERYDAY the club is open? not in my area.. you make your own schedule and they encourage you to work 2 day shifts per week. maybe it depends on what area your in.

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    Default Re: OMG Possibly my first night and I feel ill...

    Get a duffel bag with a big zipper and buy a combo lock for it. Also carry a small purse where you can stick your credit card, DL and any cash. Don't let anyone take you away from customers. If you do get called away to meet a regular, introduce yourself, talk for a minute or 2 and excuse yourself and say you'll be back when you finish your conversation with that gentleman over there.
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    Thanks Alexis I'll be sure to do that next time.

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    Default Re: OMG Possibly my first night and I feel ill...

    See, it's fuuuunn, huh? Every day the club is open? Ya RIGHT! Hahaha, that's just impossible! How did THAT come up? Maybe they just don't expect the girls to show up so they tell them ALL that?
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    Default Re: OMG Possibly my first night and I feel ill...

    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21
    See, it's fuuuunn, huh? Every day the club is open? Ya RIGHT! Hahaha, that's just impossible! How did THAT come up? Maybe they just don't expect the girls to show up so they tell them ALL that?
    yup it's open everyday except Monday. Maybe they are trying to get one over on me becauseI'm new. I'll be paying attention to who does and doesn't come in.

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