so theres a girl at my club, who ive heard loves drama and fighting and all that other stuff. so basically, in our dressing room, we dress and do our make up right next to eachother, and it is kinda crowded in there, but ive took that same spot since my first day at that club. so one day, she throws her big ass bag on top of my suitcase while i was in the middle of using it! and i was like "um, i need to get to my clothes..." (i said it very calmy), and so she like moves it half way and rolls her eyes. so, i picked the shit up myself and moved it! and shes all looking me up and down...but i didnt do anything wrong!
then another incident- i always organize my money before time to go home, just to count it and organize my tip out. ive done it the same way since i started dancing. im not trieng to show off my money, but i always lay it out to help me organize myself better. so i had my money laying out in front of me and she comes up and goes "PUT your money up...not like im gonna take it but i dont like girls who lay their money out like that" wtf!!!! i wasnt bothering her
then another time, i was getting dressed and had my heels on the counter. she comes in and picks my shoes up, puts them on the floor and says "keep your shoes off the table, its bad luck" so hell, i picked them right back up and put them where i had them!
its like she reeaaaally wants to fight with me, and i dont see why! i know i know girls do get jealous and hateful and bitchy, but i am so quiet in the dressing room at work just so i wont have any drama. ive gotten in some trouble with girls at another club, so now im trieng to avoid it.
what should i do? should i confront the girl? be a bitch back? ignore it? im not moving spaces in the dressing room because its where im comfortable and always have been, and i dont want this to intimidate me, i just dont want there to be any unnessecary problems.



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I think you tend to let the small, minor things (that normal people let roll off their back) get to you, and affect you. Let it go. My suggestion, just avoid the girl, stop counting your money in front of others, and don't put your shoes on the counter



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