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    I was at a SC a couple of nights ago and this very pretty but new dancer (at least new to that club) was dancing on stage. I happened to be stage-side for some reason and when she came over to my spot to dance for tips I noticed that her tampon string was hanging out a good three-quarters of an inch outside her hoo-ha (as the saying goes). What perplexed me the most was that she obviously knew her period was on and yet she didn't hesitate to spread pretty wide. To her credit everything appeared clean...but still I think she should have been more careful about making sure her string is invisibly tucked in well and to not spread too much.

    I thought about telling her but I didn't have the chutzpah to deal with what her reaction could have been and more importantly my reaction to her reaction. Yeah, when you tell someone about something so private there is always this strange 2-second silent pause which I hate so much. So I opted to not say a thing. However, I did notice that she banked in stage tips. A few obviously college boys kept calling her over to their spot and throwing a bunch of dollar bills on stage for her.

    As a customer, would you have told her? And as a dancer, would you want a customer to warn you of this situation?
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    Default Re: Seriously, would you tell her?

    yeah I'd want to know. I've seen it on other girls and told them and they were thankful. "I can see your mouse."

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    Default Re: Seriously, would you tell her?

    Offer her a tip and when she leans in to accept it discretely let her know that the string is showing. I've done this several times over the years and the reactions have all been appreciative.
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    It's happened before at my club, and even though the girl was embarassed about it, she was glad that someone told her- it's better than walking around like that for who knows how much longer.
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    YUP!! definetly tell her. She'll be thankful. I' know i'd want someone to tell me.

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    She definitely needs to know, but if you wanted to be EXTRA sensitive, you could have another girl go up to tip her and tell her.
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    Yes, tell me. Also please tell me if there's toilet paper stuck to my stripper shoe.
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    I like Jenny's idea. I'd much rather hear it from another girl than a custy. Although if that's not possible, tell me yourself! Either way, I'd appreciate being spared more embarrassment.

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    Telling her would sure save her from some embarassment.

    I like Jenny's idea. That way you feel good because you indirectly told her, but she has no idea you were the one who noticed.

    Just like when us custys are 'flying below the radar'... no one EVER tells us, guys or girls!

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    Since I'm usually the only female custy in the joint, I'm always voted the one to approach the stage & tell the young lady about such delicate matters. What fun. The gals are always quite appreciative of being told. One gal even bought me a drink afterwards! Yay!

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    Tell her once she's off stage. There's nothing she can do when she's still onstage without looking like a jackass and putting dirty fingers where they shouldn't be, so I'd say wait.

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    Smiling, "Hey, gal, you are dynamite."
    She replies, "Why thank you. I try."
    I say, "I know that because you have a fuse hanging out of a critical area."
    Hesitation for a few seconds. Astounded, she says, "Ooops!"
    I say, "I'm glad they don't allow matches back here. But I'm already hot enough to catch us both on fire."
    She giggles and fixes herself. Things continue.
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    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    ^^^AWWWWww that is so cute^^^^ that would be a big relief!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by kikin
    You're whipped, Jay Z!!! Me, myself I never buy feminine hygiene products. The stares would kill me.
    Kikin: Hopefully some day you will care enough about a woman that you will forgo your personal (and unfounded) embarrassment in order to help her out in her time of need.
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    While this has never happened to me, I have had conversations with customers where my nipple is hanging out of my outfit. Which, I guess, isn't totally a bad thing, but when I don't notice it until after, it's embarrassing. Like spinach in your teeth. It's always nice to be told.

    And I always tell customers if their flies are down. But that's also because it looks bad if I'm going to the CR with a guy who's unzipped. Eww.

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    Quote Originally Posted by threlayer
    Smiling, "Hey, gal, you are dynamite."
    She replies, "Why thank you. I try."
    I say, "I know that because you have a fuse hanging out of a critical area."
    Hesitation for a few seconds. Astounded, she says, "Ooops!"
    I say, "I'm glad they don't allow matches back here. But I'm already hot enough to catch us both on fire."
    She giggles and fixes herself. Things continue.
    LMAO that is an ideal way of going about it! I'll have to remember that.

    A girl may not be able to fix the prob there (yeah, dirty fingers, ew!), but she could possibly slip her g-string back on, and/or try to hide the fact by not spreading. I would want to know, for sure, how embarassing!

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    ^^ I never understood why guys are embarassed to buy tampons.... the only message it sends is that you've got a wife or girlfriend. Why should that be something to be embarassed about?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mollyzmoon
    And I always tell customers if their flies are down. But that's also because it looks bad if I'm going to the CR with a guy who's unzipped. Eww.
    Hmmm... The thought just crossed my mind that maybe not being told is a good thing after all. I mean, heck, if you've already forgotten to zip up because the bathroom troll distracted you, why not take advantage of it in the VIP!

    Enough said. I'm off topic anyhow...

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    About guys buying tampons and/or pads for their gals. It just tells people you care for a female at home, no big deal. Except....when the store doesnt have the type she wants and you don't see anything close to what she told you or what you otherwise recall she uses. Then having to ask some store clerk IS embarassing. I guess that is what cellphones are for.

    So if I can do it there, I can be kind to a stripper. No big deal.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    Our fathers would never do what you guys are so willing to do here. My father would never come close to my mom during her time of the month. And I just can't fathom seeing my father walk in to the supermarket, go into the feminine hygiene aisle, pick up a pack of tampons, walk it up to the register and pay for it. Have the times changed that much?

    Anyway, we've gone off-topic. Letting the dancer know about her string seems to be what most ladies here would prefer. I like Jenny's idea of telling another girl to tell the dancer. That would at least save me the embarrassment. Someone also said waiting until the dancer gets off stage before alerting her, lest she be the deer caught in the headlights.

    However, if you wait until she gets off stage, she will continue to dance in that state which is not very nice. Also, a dancer can't adjust herself while on stage. So she would have to abruptly leave the stage in the middle of her set which would leave a lot of customers perplexed. I guess she might also continue her set but knowing that she should not spread as much as she had been.
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    id want someone to tell me, but yeah id feel more comfortable with another girl telling me than a guy. but around that time of the month im always worried about stuff like that and leakage and everything (i know all the guys on here want to vomit now), so i check up on myself quite often. id kill myself though if i was on stage and my string was sticking out. cause you cant do anything to fix it then. but i suppose spreading less and keeping your undies on works. but the club im going to (audition tomorrow!!!) is a topless club anyway.

    its nice to know that other guys dont mind running to the store to get stuff like that. my boyfriend does it for me in a heartbeat, but i cant say ANYTHING else about my period to him. and he doesnt really mess around with me at that time either. awww! and my brother walked to the store for me too when we were on vacation. i think guys really are getting used to it. theres a funny comedienne that talks about this whole thing. she said 10 years ago things were way different. her boyfriend thought that monistat was toothpaste, he had no idea what it was for! now my guy knows more about it from commercials and such than i do!
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    Just aside - MY father would absolutely have gone into the store for feminine products for my mother. When they were still married. After that, it would have been kind of weird if she had asked them. And men have taken intimate care of their wives for a while - when they get older, incontinent, if they are ill or disabled. One of my exes stayed up until 3.00 am massaging my head when I had a migraine - by comparison a walk down the female fluid aisle at the drugstore is a stroll in the park.

    But on topic - I would LEAVE THE STAGE if it were an emergency. It's not a bamboo cage - you can get off of it. If you are not bottomless, you could just tuck the string back into your pants and carry one, but if you have no pants on, I've never met a club owner who would insist, or even want you to finish your show with your tampon string out.
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    I've even had to correct my wife when she put the wrong box in the cart.

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    My father had no problem buying them for my mother when they were together. My man now will buy me tampons, bubbley bath, baby wipes, even shampoo/conditioner... anything he has no problem grabbing it for me. He is also the same loving guy that when we first got together I had a killer migraine and he drove half an hour to my place at midnight to stay up with me all night massaging me, cuddling me and holding my hair when I was sick. It shows he loves me. The way I look at it is if a guy isnt willing to do that kind of stuff for you then hes insecure about himself and not worth my time

    And since im OT ... I would rather be told discreetly by a customer or another girl that I had a tampon string showing then to have no one tell me and be even more embarassed about it. I can always sneak back into the booth(you have to go through the DJ booth to get to stage at my club) and tuck it back in. Its kind of something you need to be warned about.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kikin
    Our fathers would never do what you guys are so willing to do here. My father would never come close to my mom during her time of the month. And I just can't fathom seeing my father walk in to the supermarket, go into the feminine hygiene aisle, pick up a pack of tampons, walk it up to the register and pay for it. Have the times changed that much?
    Well, since you are the one who veered off topic I'll indulge myself here...

    We are all our father's sons Kikin but at some point you have to be your own man as well. If you get skeeved about touching a box of tampons look in the mirror and ask yourself why. You're all grown up now, you can do what you want.
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