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    ok dont ask me why but for like my whole 4 years of high school I said I was going into the adult industry as soon as I turned 18. (even though I didnt lose my virginity until my senior year) but what happened was on my 18th birthday I was 8 mos preg. so now i'm 19 and I have a son who I love more than anything, my question is is it immoral that I still want to do big things in the industry as porn. for some reason ( i dont know why) I just feel like its what I am sopposed to do, its what I enjoy anyway, shouldnt i have a job i love. do you guys think its immoral for porn stars to have kids? I know Savanna Samson has kids but I am not her. I just dont know what to do, I want to make a good living for my son and enjoy my job and what I do, but I dont want him tramatized.

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    Default Re: Is this immoral of me.

    I don't think it's immoral at all.
    Lot's of porn actors/actresses have children and they have totally healthy parent/child relationships....I think that if you keep your job and your personal life seperate than it can work...as soon as you walk through that door you are "mommy" not a porn star.

    Good Luck!

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    You should only worry about your own morals. Do YOU have a problem with doing that kind of job whilst being a parent?

    The only other thing you need to keep in mind is, if/when you get into the industry, you keep your work VERY seerate from your family life. CPS or whatever child services you have in your area wont adore you for your job... so dont give them a hint or reason to come sniffing around.
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    Thanks you guys made me feel so much better!!

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    I agree- I don't think it should be a problem at all as long as you keep work and home seperate. It's all about how you feel about it- if you feel that it's fine for you to do it, then go for it.
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    ...and as long as no drugs or drink is involved! They are two big pitfalls of the business. Do not ever bring your child to work under any circumstances... keep him out of the business or minimise the exposure at the very least.


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    I think it's perfectly fine to work in the business and raise a family. I know plenty of women who have done it.

    And I agree: keep everything totally separate. Even though you'll be working under a stage name, people who've known you can still put two and two together and try to cause drama in your life. Just keep this in mind when starting out and you'll be fine!

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    I agree...although, something to think about:How do you feel about your son one day seeing a porn picture of you by accident(the internet maybe) or if one of his friends finds a video or a pick of you? and if they say things like,"I saw yyor momma doing such andsuch, Damn shes hot!" Its not immoral if the child isnt in danger, (in my opinion) but someday hes going to find out.Have you thought about how you will help him handle it?Maybe it wont bother him at all,maybe it will.....who knows?Good luck either way you go though...thats a tough descision :-(

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    Go to this site [kimi lixx.com] she works in the porn industry. She has kids. She keeps this septrate [sp]

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    I have a kid! I have been involved in the adult industry since age 21!!! You name it, pretty much i have tried it.

    I love my daughter, i loved doing the jobs i have done. I am good at what i do in the adult industry! And, i like you would wonder if it was right. But that thought will pass. Children today grow up seeing all sorts of sexual messages on TV...i would not worry about you. I think the media is kinda conditioning our kids for us!

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    well....something is only immoral if you consider it immoral! I think that since it is something you've always wondered about if you don't do it you'll always wonder what it would have been like. I'd say to get some experience and make the judgement call then. But also keep in mind that you are raising a child and that with that comes the responsibilities of teaching them what is and isn't right. What is right for you is not right for others...and vise versa! Don't EVER let someone talk you out of something for fear of not conforming to society. I too, have always wanted to be in the adult industry...since I was a little girl. I knew I'd be a dancer. I enjoy it a lot and it works well for me. My husband supports me and my daughter is too young to know what i'm doing. But when she learns about it she'll learn the truth...or the truth as I see it. We have a pole in our house, and I may eventually stop dancing and start a studio teaching pole dancing to girls who don't necessarily want to strip. Either way...my daughter will learn pole tricks since I do them in the house...we have strict rules for her and we've already started discussing how we'll handle things when she is older.
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    No!

    It's immoral to not bathe, feed your kid. Its immoral to beat or leave your kid alone for long period's of time... BUT HELL NO it is not immoral to make a living for yourself and your KID by doing something you like doing.

    Society decides how you should feel about what is immoral. That impression gets passed on to you and tells you how you SHOULD feel. How do you really feel though?

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    Like pretty much everyone else has said ......as long as you keep it separate, you're fine. If you get in the business, I'm sure you will find mentors or maybe industry websites as to how to handle it when and if your child finds out at an early age, or if other kids find out and poke fun, etc.






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    I don't know if its moral of not. Send me pictures and I'll let you know

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    ^^^^UGH!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by TigersMilk
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    I just think its funny that you ugh'd me and have a Boob-u-mentary in your signature.
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    Because its a blog about a surgery.

    Its quite another to come to a stripper site when you are already a dancer and know how fucking annoying it is to have another fuck ask for pictures - even if it isnt of me. I hate people doing that shit here. Besides, theres plenty of pictures around here for your "use" no need to ask for more.
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    Relax! I was joking. If I wanted pictures, I'd go elsewhere.

    Life is really too short to be upset about simple things.

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    Getting back OT:

    Society gives us mixed messages on the morality of sexual arousal. In my opinion, sex workers are just therapists who help the rest of us who let the lame prude types get us down.

    Enjoy your sexuality and please do not teach your kid shame.


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    I don't think porn is immoral at all if you are a mommy. And if it's what you want to do, proceed by all means.

    Boils down to what you are comfortable with.


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    I don't know anything about you, nor do I ever expect to, but I havesome intuition about this bothers me a bit. Kids are lifetime commitments; the result of an unanticipated night of fun can be a great new beginning to your very young life or it can be a misadventure that ruins your life and you kid's too. Here it is. Among all the other comments, you should be responsible for your and your baby's health and don't commit to things unless you can carry them out, under almost any circumstances. This includes having other kids, unless you alone can support them completely or you have a highly committed mate who can provide what you cannot.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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