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    I know I've posted before about how totally crazy I am about my boyfriend. He is, simply, the awesomest. My best friend, my confidant, my lover, yada yada yada. That's all fine and well, but I'm a total little baby about leaving him to go to work. When I worked days, we got off work at the same time and hung out together in the evenings. Now he gets home about fifteen minutes before I leave for work. I HATE LEAVING HIM. Seriously, I feel like I'm fighting a force field just getting from the house to the car. Once I'm on the highway headed to work, everything is fine, but leaving the house once he's there is almost impossible. It's honestly a struggle every night.

    I realize that having to choose between an awesome partner and a well-paying job is a problem some people would love to have. But geezus, it's killing me! Anyway, I know there's really no advice except "suck it up" and I will. Just wanted to vent. Anyone know what I'm talking about here?

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    Default Re: help...I'm a Woman Who Loves Too Much!

    Take some days off once a week for just the two of you? o_o

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    Default Re: help...I'm a Woman Who Loves Too Much!

    I can relate, I miss my gal seconds after I leave/hang up/whatever... but you're right, there's really no advice except "suck it up" ... damn it sucks sometimes...

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    Default Re: help...I'm a Woman Who Loves Too Much!

    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan
    Take some days off once a week for just the two of you? o_o
    Well, see, it's not like I never see him...I only work three or four days a week, and on his all-too-few days off we hang out pretty much the whole time. Believe it or not, that makes it HARDER to go back to work when the break is over. I used to think the relationship would eventually cool off and it would get easier. But it's going on three years now, and I'm as much of a sissy as ever. Oh, well. I just wanted to give a little yawp about it.

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    Grace - I'm with you 100%! It actually gets worse - I've been married 15 years and I still yearn for my hubby when he's at work or I'm at work. Unfortunately, he's started a business and works 6 days a week. I'm going to start dancing in a month - so I guess we'll never see each other.....

    On the upside - at least we aren't complaining about how shitty our guys are!

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    Ha, I thought I had crazy attachment issues or something. Glad to hear it's part of healthy relationships. My guy leaves for work in the mornings and I'm like a little lost kitten.


    ...I probably need a hobby.

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    I know EXACTLY what you are talking about. How long have you guys been together? My hun and I have been together 3 years, and I am barely able to leave for work sometimes. I start get ready before he gets home from work, so I have more time to spend with him, and I feel like the wheels are already in motion. Once I'm at work I'm fine, it's just getting to the car that's the hard part.

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    Out of all the boyfriends I have had, I have only been like this... with one.

    I swear everything is clicking....

    Sin-

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    Whew...I'm glad to hear I'm not the only one who feels this way. I've never felt this way before, and sometimes I worry I'm getting some attachment disorder. We're still pretty healthy about having our own lives and friends...

    Maybe I can just take him to work with me every night and he can hang out in the dressing room while I hustle?

    [I keed! I keed!]

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