you know when a customer shakes your hand (or is holding your hand) and he constantly rubs your palm with his fingers like he's trying to mate with it?
I don't know why, but this skeeves me SO MUCH! Like I just want to run away right then.
you know when a customer shakes your hand (or is holding your hand) and he constantly rubs your palm with his fingers like he's trying to mate with it?
I don't know why, but this skeeves me SO MUCH! Like I just want to run away right then.
This is undoubtedly the most disturbing thing a man can do to me. There is nothing that makes me more uncomfortable. Men who are not my boyfriend but feel the need to play with my palm, especially if if they are trying to caress it gently or draw circles, gross me out to the point where I feel violated. I can not explain why it is that it bothers me so much, but I agree, it is soooo creepy.
I know!! fu#king gross weirdos. don't caress my palms alright!!
I agree that this is uber creepy, I had a guy do it to me the other night, and I was seriously grossed out. The other gross thing for me is the lizard tongue. The ones that just look at you and flick their tongue around. *shudders*
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I KNOW! I hate the palm thing! Oooo, and when they run a finger up your arm! ACK! Yea, and when they flick their tounges out like it's sexy! EEWWWW!!!
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uhhgg... the "flicking the tongue" thing is so tacky, and it's extra creepy when old men do it. other subtle creepy or tacky things i hate are..
-when a guy high fives one of his friends while you're giving him a table dance.
-when a guy keeps your hand in his for way too long. you know, like when you keep tactfully moving it away and they keep re-grasping it and putting it on their leg or holding it. it's like.. get the fucking hint.
-when a guy maintains TOO MUCH eye contact. i know guys generally like it, but sometimes it just feels creppy. i had one guy actually try to move my face with his hands so that i'd be looking at him. i wasn't even in a position where i COULD comfortably look at him. he wanted eye contact the entire time, even if it meant me akwardly turning my head.
Ewww... I hate when they try to touch period. Another heebie jeebie is when they blow at your crotch area. Oh yea that turns me on sooo much!Stupid stupid...
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^^^UGH I forgot about that til I read that. *shudders* I'm gonna have nightmares lol
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yeah, but some that stuff is meant to be pervy and of course it is. Just something about the palm touching that should be harmless, but skeeves me out big time.
I had to to get it out. I feel better now![]()
I am laughing out loud... I was just talking with a girlfriend of mine about the 'lizard tongue'.
The palm thing makes me nervous, you just know what is going on in their mind while doing that is no bueno. The lizard tongue (still laughing), and the blowing on my crotch thing... they all make me sick...
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Ok, I have to ask this because I do it sometimes. What about if a customer rubs the back of your hand back and forth for a couple of seconds after a handshake? Does that gross you out as well?
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yes, that applies too, but only about 90% as creepy as the palm
it's the equivalent of saying, "omg, I'm touching her and if I rub and think real hard, it's like I'm doing it with her, but she doesn't even know!! I can't stop rubbing. It's been so long since I touched a woman. Ohhhhh, I'm almost there......unnnngggh! I bet her vagina is smooth like this......ooohhhhhhhh"
I hate when they have warm ,moist and soft hands.. All three plus the feeling-up-the-palm move is the worst for me.
Please don't lick me, it tickles..
^^yes
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i haven't danced in FOREVER but i'm gettin all grossed out remembering what that was like
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Oh, wow!! I shall discontinue that practice, then.Originally Posted by Emily
Also, what about if they kiss the back of your hand as gentlemen used to do in the olden days? Is that creepy as well?
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Shake and let go, that's how I shake and I think it works just fine.
Please don't lick me, it tickles..




there is nothing as gross as a custy's lips touching any part of your body.
It would make me want to gag and i'd go scrub my skin. I don't know where that persons lips have been.
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I don't care about my palms being touched, hell i even get shoulder massages. The lizard tounge though hahahahaha how funny. I hate that from any guy period!It especially grosses me out when they do the "v" symbol with their fingers and stick the tounge in between like it is a crotch! Haha blahhhhhhh!





I used to be only minorly annoyed by the palm-rubbing thing. Reminded me of high school, and it's sorta pathtic to see a 40 year old man do it. LIke he still thinks his high school buddies Lenny and Sqiggy knew what they were talkinga about when they told him tracing circles on a girls palm would get him laid.
Now I am utterly grossed out. Thanks!![]()
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^^^^^ heh heh, you made me laugh... When they do that I don't know whether to laugh, roll my eyes or kick them... And the kicking is so tempting...
As for touching, I don't mind being touched if I am getting paid, ie. lap dance.
I don't mind a massage or the minimal touching that they can legally do in the lap dance room, other than that, please keep your hands off me.
I hate hate it when guys try to move my hair out of my face, especially when it is curled, I know they are only trying to touch and it messes up my hair and make up.
Please don't lick me, it tickles..
I hate my skin getting rubbed, repeatedly, in the same area, its NOT pleasant or comfortable. Its like chinese water torture!
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EW! There was this old old guy doing that one time and I let him kiss my hand and his lips were slimey and STICKY!





i think that in general, the customer trying to "turn you on" is creepy. i think about 95% of men look ridiculous when they try so hard. they should leave it to us. most of them time when they make "kiss" faces or licking movements i just want to laugh.
We all have our boundaries. While a handshake is both socially acceptable and a means to exploit said societal bounds, I'm just as much offended when a man tries to simulate sex in my hand as when I see a hostess/manager/coctail waitress take the fingerprint/thumbprint for identification for credit cards. Is that a stretch? I'd feel violated.
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