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    Okay so im well aware of the unwritten rule that we dont "make friends" at work. Its okay to have associates but friends ..no go.

    Unfortunatly Ive made pretty good friends with many of the girls I work with. Im going to say unfortunatly on this because its now causing issues.

    Now we all get along and honestly there isnt any competition , we just sorta do our own thing on the floor. In the dressing room and behind the scenes we all hang out. I have one very close friend that once on the floor we sorta keep hanging out, seperating only when we need to go to tables by ourselves.

    A lot of times we will approach groups together since we know how the other one works. This shouldnt pose an issue except she always seems to do dances & vips for the guys I SIT with. I swear its without fail. I go to stage ..she leans over and talks to them ( and yah she can be sitting with another man in the group. ) and then she ends up making money off of my customer and I get fucked.

    THis has gone for at least 5 months ( the entire time Ive known her.) Ive sorta turned a blind eye to it , one because she only been dancing a year and two because shes 20. a recent 20.

    However, I cant take it anymore. last night there were 2 guys that walked in. The idea was ..I'll sit with one guy and when the other girl leaves shift ( she was mid shift. ) then she can go over and talk to the other man sitting there.

    Well that woulda worked except the second I went to stage she asked him for a dance.

    from that point on we traded turns doing dances...till I went to stage again and she obviously asked him about the VIP. which he went and did AFTER he asked me if the VIP was okay...did she get most of the money..what went on etc. Basically I sealed the deal.

    They did the vip then came downstairs and I was ignored. She would find me and attempt to send me off to different guys claiming they have a ton of loot.

    All to distract me.

    Shit pissed me off so I ignored her the rest of the night, since I was angry and didnt' want to say anything that would be something I'd regret. She instead took that and got angry ..when I walked away claimed to other people I was immature for being upset.

    Immature?!

    Gawd, dont get me started. Im not the one supporting a grown fucking man and his endeavors while not doing shit for myself., handing over all i earn and not allowed to touch my money. ( aka a pimp imo. )

    So im upset about that and I suppose i'll just have to ignore her from the remaining 2 weeks im there.

    Add in last night that I was bitten twice. TWICE. two different people. Once on my boob the other was my ear which hurt like fucking hell. He really bit and held down and i swear planned on taking it with him.

    Is anyone else having one of those weeks?

    I think the crazies are out

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    I am having the same thing going on here. A girl I have been good friends with for a long time has become an out of control alcoholic.

    I was given money by a customer to climb up on stage with her Monday night, where she proceeded to pin me to the stage and tried to finger me.

    If I am sitting with more than one guy, she invites herself into the conversation, mooches them for drinks, and tries to get them to buy dances from her instead.

    Everyone in the club has had it with her. She pulled the same stunt last night, pinning a girl to the stage, and ended up getting elbowed in the face for it.
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    She went around telling people you're immature cuz you're upset? Geez, then you don't have to worry about making friends at work... that is no friend.

    She has a pimp (or something like it)? Maybe she's offering them more in dances than you are. Is she pretty?
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    This is one of the reasons why I prefer to work solo. Even when my best friend and I work the same shift, we still separate when on the floor. The ONLY exception is when a customer asks either one of us if we have a friend who can join us and we both make money off the guy.

    Oh, and it is one of those weeks. What a weird vibe I've been feeling this week. But today, I've been feeling better about the gig. I think it's gonna be a good night. [I hope I didn't just jinx it!]

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    It is going to be one of those weeks. You know the saying, "never work for family"......well dancers should never "dance with friends"!! If you 2 have been hanging out this long and you felt prior to today's rant that things were okay, I would probably just sit down with her before work and tell her how you feel. Good Luck!

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    Does she have a pimp? ..

    Well anytime anyone hands over all their money to someone else., isnt allowed to touch it without permission or unless the other person deams it okay...

    when the other person LIVES completely off anothers money. Doesnt have a job and wont get one.

    Is she pretty?

    yes she is pretty. I dontl like the girl at all right now but I'm not going to be snide and say she isnt attractive. Because she is.

    But we are complete opposites on the spectrum of looks. she's short and petite, young and bubbly.

    Im tall with dark hair , big boobs and older. A lil' more serious about things but good mood. I just dont do the entire

    " oh you are soooo cute..lets go play "

    I can't do that role.for one i'd look stupid. being 28. and two baby talk annoys me to no end.

    Its just principle thats all.

    and yep i am not going to pull her into a group setting anymore. I'll jsut let girls come over and i'll work with whom ever. FUck trying to help people.

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    and yah its been on going just yesterday I sorta stepped back and went

    " this isnt right "

    you knwo when you just get fed up and honestly i just got fed up.

    I dont want to scream..yell and hit .because one im a grown ass woman and two I am a lady to some degree. Its beneath me to act like a fucking child over trivial shit as this.

    IT doesnt mean I dont want to pound her face in and scream truths at her.

    im hoping she stays her distance tonight. I just dont want the dramatics.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tart
    Okay so im well aware of the unwritten rule that we dont "make friends" at work. Its okay to have associates but friends ..no go.

    that one is new to me.


    But yeah, I'd be Set Me On Fire pissed at someone like that. I dont blame you one bit.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tart
    Immature?!

    Gawd, dont get me started. Im not the one supporting a grown fucking man and his endeavors while not doing shit for myself., handing over all i earn and not allowed to touch my money. ( aka a pimp imo. )
    That sounds like my friend, who I wrote about in the thread titled "Unprofessional! What do you guys think?"!! Everyone who responded to my thread, agreed that my friend's boyfriend was being a "pimp" because he wouldn't work, yet would "manage" the money for their household. He would command her to hand over the money she made after work, then he would hold it as a big-ass wad of cash in his pants pocket at all times...they didn't even have a fucking bank account or anything remotely secure! And the way he did it, was in this very routine, assuming way...the same condescending way that a parent tells a child to brush their teeth or clean their room, like it's the same routine that is to be expected and without protest. I was feeling a little "used" by my friend, not for customers but for car rides, and this is what a few of the other SW girls told me...maybe my friend sometimes pressures me to do stuff for her, as a control issue because her boyfriend controls her so much and she needs to control someone else to feel better about herself? Maybe this is what's going on here with your friend using your customers? Either way, your FRIEND sounds immature and she sounds like she doesn't have her life in order. LOL maybe you could clue in these customers as to where all their money is going!...it's not going to the girl they take to VIP, but to the girl's pimp-ass boyfriend!

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    Default Re: Oh a new rant

    I have met and have a lot of acquaintances from work. However, I have only one "close" friend I work with whom I would be willing to share anything with. I go out with others on occasion but I don't trust them with too much personal information nor would I work close with them unless a customer specifically asked us to dance together.

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    I think it's best to always work solo. That way, you avoid the problem entirely. The exception to that is one, if the guy asks if you have a friend, or if you are selling duo dances (if allowed)

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