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    Ever run out of dance moves...???

    Hi all,

    Do you ladies ever get bored or run out of dance moves after a long period of time, like 30+ minutes??? How do you keep the custy's attention and interest so that he doesn't get bored of YOU. What do you do to keep them going crazy over you??? lol


    Also, what do you do when you get bored??- ANY advice/tips will be much appreciated and awesome!! Thanks~~~

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    well i KINDA get a lil bored dancing for a guy if im on like my 10th dance in a row or something. if im giving a table/lap dance and i feel his attention drifting away from me, ill stroke his neck or hair, subtly blow in his ear, prop my leg up on his knee, or do something else real seductive to get his focus back on me. as for running out of moves on stage, i kinda get lost in the music when im on stage...i love being on stage. its fun for me, i love to dance, i love preforming on the pole, so its hard for me to get bored up there. i guess if you try too hard while your up there to bust a good next move or something, you will get bored or run out of stuff. i always just listen to the music and let my body do what it does!

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    ^^ What she said.
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    If you're on stage, it should not be hard to run out of moves and I say this seriously. It can be more of a challenge if you're all about fast dancing and pole tricks but not so much if you're about slow moves and sensuality. If you can hold attention, be it with your eyes or caresses, you can get through time a lot easier.

    In the private area, what you're talking about sounds like VIP (anything from 30 minutes plus). In this case., dancing for a long time can get extremely boring. It is good if you can break it up; when you dance, you stare at him and hold his gaze and move slowly (that really uses time with fewer moves and can keep a man happily and intimately entertained). You also take time to snuggle next to him and talk and drink together (they sometimes won't mind, especially if you've got your drinks back with you as often is the case with VIP), you can offer him a shoulder massage (another good use of time), or you can introduce ''props'' into your show (ice cubes, whipped cream, baby oil - the man doesn't have to touch you when you use these, as long as you can sexily apply them to your body SLOWLY, it's fun and can leave a good impression).

    I'm sure there are others, but these are few of which I use. The other girls don't do the props so it gives me a different angle and they make the time pass well for myself and customers.

    ALSO remember, it may help to ASK a man what he likes. Chances are if he wants 30+ mins of your time, he might want a special request (no, I don't mean extras!). Some men may be fetishists (e.g. foot fetishists; some just want to massage your feet) and may be too scared to ask so you can always do some gentle asking to see what you can do that'll cater more to their tastes.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xtina910
    Hi all,

    Do you ladies ever get bored or run out of dance moves after a long period of time, like 30+ minutes??? How do you keep the custy's attention and interest so that he doesn't get bored of YOU. What do you do to keep them going crazy over you??? lol


    Also, what do you do when you get bored??- ANY advice/tips will be much appreciated and awesome!! Thanks~~~
    I'm going to assume you're in VIP/Champagne room...I just strike up a conversation and then I end up sitting next to him and talking. I'll sit for a minute or two. Then I ask, "whenever you want me to get back to dancing let me know" and they usually say, "oh no, I like sitting here with me, I enjoy it more" Some men really do just want conversation







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    Quote Originally Posted by Malibu
    ALSO remember, it may help to ASK a man what he likes. Chances are if he wants 30+ mins of your time, he might want a special request (no, I don't mean extras!). Some men may be fetishists (e.g. foot fetishists; some just want to massage your feet) and may be too scared to ask so you can always do some gentle asking to see what you can do that'll cater more to their tastes.
    I think I'm going to do this tonight. My club is no-contact so I've never thought that a customer may actually want to rub my feet etc.







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    Quote Originally Posted by Malibu

    ALSO remember, it may help to ASK a man what he likes. Chances are if he wants 30+ mins of your time, he might want a special request (no, I don't mean extras!). Some men may be fetishists (e.g. foot fetishists; some just want to massage your feet) and may be too scared to ask so you can always do some gentle asking to see what you can do that'll cater more to their tastes.


    How might you do that without making it sound like you are offering extras? how would you phrase it to avoid that misunderstanding?

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    The most common line I use is one pertaining to any fixation on a body part. Generally I'll say something along the lines of "So what kind of man are you? Are you a boob man, butt man, leg man or pussy man?". If I suspect a guy has a fixation, it's generally by watching them watch me to see if they like a body part more. This is how I've managed to suss out one or two foot fetishists then I will ask if they like my shoes and what they think of my toenails (I paint my toenails really nicely just incase and try not to have them chipped for work. My man also likes it so it helps me keep them in good shape and it might net you a spender).

    You will sometimes get a guy that has a fixation on one part more than the other and you can play with that part more and talk about how beautiful it is, how you like playing with that said part and how it makes you feel good, etc etc. If they ask to touch that part I say "I love to watch you watch me touch myself. It turns me on.". They generally like the idea they can turn you on without the contact and many men can settle for that, moreso if they're gentlemen. That's how I get out of extras. I bring up looming danger with management and police as little as I can as that can kill the mood so I try to turn it around by saying something positive.
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