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    There are a couple of girls at my club that have customers that come in to see them. This is where I get confused - they can actually tell the customers "I need $700" or "give me $800" etc. and the customers actually do it. I would love to have a "relationship" like this but I don't think I could ever bring myself to do that. I am just trying to figure out how they can get away with this and why customers have no problem with it.
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    I was just wishing that. I work for every dollar I make. There is a girl I work with who told a custy sehe needed money to pay her electric bill, and he just asked her how much. SHe told him twice wheat she needed, and he gave it.

    Why can't I get those guys???


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    You have to really be able to control these mens minds and take control of their pocket book. You have to have good game no matter what to be asking for $1000 and not fucking them. It takes skill. Unfortunatly I am good at. I have a BA in psychology. Started dancing in college. I have been dancing for 9 years.
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    well, you can't assume they aren't sleeping with them. Nevertheless, they probably give a lot of "free time" so they are in effect, asking for payment.

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    Hmm. Yeah. I don't think I'd want to get into that. When you dance for a guy, or when he tips you it is "contained" in the normal (or normalish) mode of consumer behaviour - fee for service, and a tip. When they just start giving you money, it is no longer normalish. Then it is not a consumer/sales relationship, it is "personal". Just stick to the dancing.
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    I have a guy who I can do this with... I have once but I really dont like it. He doesnt expect anything from me, we go to the VIP and just sit and talk for a few songs, asks me if I need money because if I ever do hes more then willing to give it to me. I dont see him often thankfully because he annoys me lol. I think i've had him three or four times, hes madly in love with me *shudders* I dont know im not the kind of girl that can just go "i need $500 give it to me" I would rather work for my money.

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    well, I wouldn't rather work for it, but if you are just asking for money but offering no entertainment value in return, you can be sure he's not going to stick along very long

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    Before anyone wanders from this thread with the idea that this is all fine and dandy, let me refresh everyone's memory with this little tale again.

    http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive/1026053hull1.html

    Which goes to prove, if a guy is spineless enough, the sky could be the limit regarding the potential windfall.

    Of course, the same holds true in regards to the possible headaches once he finds out that you're not going to sleep with him, (or even if you do sleep with him).
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    I know a few girls who have this sort of relationship with customers. Of course, it's less of them saying 'I need 500 bucks', and more of them calling the custy saying 'come in and see me' because they know he'll tip them 500 bucks. They do sometimes 'mention' how much money they need, but I've seen them walk up, ask for 1k and get away with it.
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    I think with my customer its just hes madly in love with me and hopes some day he can win me over, the guy is one wealthy little bitch. He flaunts his money like there is no tomorrow. A few girls in my club have been his favs at some point, one girl milked him for over ten grand in one week. He didnt mind at all, she went away for awhile, came back and he had moved on. Im hoping he moves on when I go away because he creeps me out... hes always drunk and always talking about how much money he has and how he has 10 cars and how everyone knows him and hes respected n blah blah blah... he pays me to talk about himself

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    I can only do what I am comfortable with. Some guys say that I am not aggressive enough. But if I do something I am not comfortable with, then how could I possibly pull it off? So I keep it real for myself. I have enough business where people appreciate my personality and business ethic. I never want to come across as an aggressive, greedy stripper.

    I'd rather work for my money too. Whether it be dancing or just conversation. I feel better about it.

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    How is that not working for your money? Please come one now. I have to dance but I may have a set fee for that person. Don't knock the hustle. I do well for myself.
    Dancers can have their own style. If we all looked alike and acted the same we would never have customers.
    I'm not imposing that there will be sex. Time is money. Money is time. I'm an excellent hustler what can I say.
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    Dasha, did you read what I wrote? I am not knocking your hustle. Whether you dance or chat up a conversation, that in my opinion, is working for your money. What I don't feel is working for your money is if you were to just go up to a customer and just ask them for money. To me that's tacky and not good business. But hey, it's just my opinion.

    I understand that time is money and respect that different girls have different ways of getting that. But I don't think asking someone for money without giving anything in return (time, conversation, dance, etc) is necessarly working for it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish
    Before anyone wanders from this thread with the idea that this is all fine and dandy, let me refresh everyone's memory with this little tale again.

    http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive/1026053hull1.html

    Which goes to prove, if a guy is spineless enough, the sky could be the limit regarding the potential windfall.

    Of course, the same holds true in regards to the possible headaches once he finds out that you're not going to sleep with him, (or even if you do sleep with him).
    What a stupid case, what a stupid guy... They didn't say who won...
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    Yea, where's my knight in shining armor dammit? I need some money too! Honestly, I would not try this tactic with a desperate man. If he's rich and money is nothing to him, that's a different story though. Even then, isn't it easier to charge him ridiculous amounts for your time?

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    When I am with one of my customers and I tell them I need bill money, they will ask how much and either get dances or pay for time.

    no fucking involved

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    It's not about sex much of the time. My wealthy regular always offers me money and I have never had sex with him.

    Of course he calls me about every day and I chat with him for a few minutes.He always asks me if I've done any eye shopping. He has called me several times and told me he put $150 on my cell phone bill. I told him I drink health juices just in conversation and he sent me 2 bottles of Noni juice at over $20 a bottle to my room in the town where I had a booking that week, along with $250 to help me cover the room rent. He asked me how much my nails cost and getting my hair done cost, and either sends me the money, wires it, or gives it to me when I come back to the hometown club.

    When I went back to Phoenix last fall, he asked me if I had been shopping yet, and I told him I was looking for a new black leather coat. I found one at Nordstrom for $675, along with a lightweight Facconable jacket that was $325, and when he called, I told him my previous jacket cost that much and it lasted me 5 years and that I found the other coat that I loved but,I didn't want that much money from him. He said no problem, I had the saleslady hold the coats and he wired me $1100 the next day.The saleslady sent me a thank you note. LOL. He just wanted to see me in the coats. His wife never looked nice for him. I told him I had spent almost $500 on a brake job and he sent me $500. he wasn't familiar with MAC makeup and I told him about it, and when he was at Mall of America he bought me a $150 gift card from the MAC store.

    So you see, it is not always about sex. It is more about having built up a relationship with customers who like you. Building a relationship means that if over several times coming to a club a guy spends money on you and seems to prefer you over other dancers, you exchange numbers with him. Most of the time he will call to see when and where you are working or when I am booked back in his town in my case. In a weeks (6 night booking) it is not uncommon if a girl has been booking the same club for awhile and keeps in touch with her admirers to have 6-7 guys come to see her that week.

    Depending on the customers means, he may offer or may be able to be hit up for some money or presents.

    One girl I work bookings with told a customer she has been seeing in the club for about a year that she needed some new tires for her car and was trying to save up $300, but that it had been slow and before the night was up he came back to the club with $300 for her.

    So you see, it is about building a rapport and exchanging contact info with these admiring customers. A few of them will get closer to you, and get to know you better than others. many of these girls who get money and gifts have had their admirers coming to the club to see them for a year or 2.

    I am not really one to ask a guy for money. Use some psychology here. In chatting with your admiring customers you make idle talk about products you use or bills or hobbies you have. If your customers have the financial means and want to play daddy they will on their own "surprise you with the items or money for the things you have told them you like or use on a regular basis.

    Some of these guys are in bad marriages or are older and widowed and really enjoy your company. They are lonely and sad. Them being able to call you up and or come see you at the club at specified times just to be in your company makes their day.

    I had one customer the other week that I met in a club I was booked at, drive 230 miles to another club I was booked at the following week just to see me. He drove 100 miles the following week to see me at another club. He is retired and widowed.

    So my point is build the clientele. You can tell the guys who are interested in you and who will buy 5+ dances from you. these guys who express interest AND spend money and who are gentlemanly you keep a black book on and over time some of these guys may give you money that you didn't dance for.

    Just like building a house. You start with pouring the foundation. Once that is done and the house is built, the doors are open for you to be able to receive some "perks" from some of your customers.

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    Great post Tina. I can see now how this can be done in a classy, undemanding way. I've never really felt comfortable accepting extra money or gifts from customers (other than for my dances of course!), and always wondered if it could be done without looking greedy. I have a few regulars who I can see this working for though. I will try your technique.

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    I don't know... Wouldn't you rather work an extra shift then manipulate a customer into thinking that you need to pay a bill you really don't?

    I don't know.. I guess I would rather have the cash too but not at the expense of loosing that customer or someone feeling that i manipulated them (unless i don't care about that customer at all)


    IMO.. its not a great way to keep a good customer and a good way to loose a creepy paying one.

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